[Caligula]

Sometimes things just seem to be moving too slow. Some girls take longer than others to get comfortable for the bang. The venue change is the tried and tested way to get a girl comfortable faster. There must be other short-cuts out there.

What are your favourite moves to speed things up?

Do you have any short-cut techniques that work to build attraction quicker?

Any routines to get the girl comfortable with moving faster?

[MiXX]

The only one I have found that Turbo-Charges attraction is Dancing!!! Now, I'm not talking dancing where the 2 of you are physically apart, like techno music. I'm talking Salsa, Swing, tango, Bachata or anything that requires you grab her and spin, and lead her around.

I have had girls go from stone cold, to sniffin/kissing my neck in 5 minutes!


Mixx

[XXL]

if you want to bang girl faster then you don't need attraction cause attractions can be handled within 5 seconds.

quick bang is combination of chemistry, some luck, logistics and hardcore congruence


as for Do you have any short-cut techniques that work to build attraction quicker?

(11-11-2011 02:19 PM)XXL Wrote:  

use more breaking rapport tone of voice. it's when the tone slopes down at the end of the sentence even if it's only 3 word. it sounds like the person interrogating you. it's like bosses talk to lazy employees. like fathers to their stupid daughters. if you can ask a question the way it sounds like a statement that's when you use BR tone. in terms of game BR makes you sound like you're screening, teasing or challenging other person. and when you use it your body language follows,

guys get ignored when they approach direct cause their tonation/inflection is fucked aka it's not demanding enough for a girl to take him seriously. that's really it girls don't take serious weak behaviour no matter how smooth the line is. voice tone is very important part of subcommunication.

check this out:

how it works.. when you approach, the woman see only a snapshot of what you'd be like as a man. the biggest shit about it is that it's not even fair at all cause maybe you are the coolest guy ever just a bit "off" in that moment of approach. oh that's too bad cause mother nature designed it that a woman doesn't want a fumbling little bitch when he approaches her. i'm sorry. that's how it is. so.. going in with that good tone of voice makes a guy appear like a badass (let's say high status). what's funny is that as long as the voice projetion is good then even feeling sick or lame at the moment doesn't really matter

[Giovonny]

(11-16-2011 01:46 PM)XXL Wrote:  

guys get ignored when they approach direct cause their tonation/inflection is fucked aka it's not demanding enough for a girl to take him seriously. that's really it girls don't take serious weak behaviour no matter how smooth the line is.

This is something that has helped me alot. I have eliminated all "weakness" from my voice. Girls can usually sense any little crack in your confidence. They can hear it. Your voice gets weak, you have to stop and take a breath, you talk to fast, you mumble, you don't project your voice with confidence, etc. They can hear it. I don't even know if they even realize it or if its just a subconcious thing.

Keep your voice strong and consistent. Eliminate all the little cracks in your voice. All the little dips in consistency. All the little moments where your voice softens or weakens.

When we get nervous, our body has a physiological reaction. Blood rushes to our head, our muscles tighten, including our throat and vocal cords, sometimes we forget to breathe in these moments, we can freeze up.

These are the moments of Game improvment. When you can calm your body and control your voice tone, you will appear much more alpha.

[XXL]

good to hear that.

there is one perfect word for the voice tonality.. SWAGGER.

voice autocorrects when guy talks with swagger aka that playful challenging carefree manner

very good example of real weak and good voice tone is this:

let's look closely at 0:43. the reporter has weak voice and his tone of voice drastically slopes up at the end of his question. that's bad. that's how pu guys sound when talking to gorgeous woman.. weak and approval seeking.

then denzel answers with perfect breaking rapport tonality. he projects very well, his voice slopes down at the end of every sentence, articulates flawlessly, and his BL & face expressions follow it (playful WTF look on his face)

look at 1:04 when denzel asks him a question still in BR tone which makes it sound more like normal statement or insult even (that's what i meant before)

also.. as they talk more watch how this reporter is too goofy too girly smiling like a girl etc while denzel stays fucking solid keeping his commanding voice, his face expressions, his eyebrows are still kind of aggresive.

also.. when he talks about the book at 1:39 watch how he's stressing out some syllables. he's not rushing, using mini pauses. it's cool to listen to him. right after reporter asks question talking fast like he's scared to be ignored. basically white guy appears like a guy talking to super hot girl LOL

while it can be used as trick (very fucking good trick) it usually falls into its place automatically when we enjoying the moment, feeling good, talkative, just good.

(btw i know it's interview with the star of the movie but it's cool to see how so called status determines dynamics within the interaction and how people treating each other then)

[speakeasy]

Good stuff XXL. That video is a great side-by-side comparison of a beta voice and an alpha voice. We need to see more like this.

Also notice how the interviewer is constantly nodding his head as Denzel talks. You never see alphas constantly nodding their head while the other person is talking. That's submissive body language. He also has nasaly sounding voice, whereas Denzel speaks from his diaphragm.

Also like the way Denzel cuts out at the end. He's polite on exit like anyone with charisma, but makes it obvious he's a busy dude with shit to do and isn't there to linger around all day answering questions from a beta.

[XXL]

yeah this guy simply DOMINATES everything around him AND he's not douchebag/asshole at all. his delivery is outstanding. check that vocal projection + laid back BL

you talk like that you win can't lose

[Caligula]

Great stuff XXL thanks for sharing.