[dulst]

Before you start hating this isn't another "but what about her feelings?" thread. I come to you with an actual, pussy chasing related moral dilema.

I am a first year at university studying theoretical physics. All physics and maths students get the chance to apply for jobs as GCSE maths tutors.

(For the non brits, GCSEs are the qualification you do at the end of your compulsory education in Britain, aged 16. After these you can do what you like but most stay in school to do A levels (18) then go to uni.)

Anyway, a friend of mine did this last year and ended up fucking his pupil. He was 18, she was 16.

Thankfully, our glorious nation has an age of consent of just 16. The youngest girl I've fucked was 17.

My dilema is this: Do I use this tutoring gig as a chance to fuck girls? More specifically: despite the law is 16 too young? And is it an abuse of trust for a what is basically a skilled classroom assistant to have sex with one of his pupils?

Thanks in advance.

[Menace]

Yes you should. Keep it legal, keep it safe. This tradition is as old as time itself.

[gringochileno]

Dude it's a 2 year age difference. This isn't even on the radar screen of questionability. The real travesty is that there are places where an 18 year-old fucking a 16 year-old is illegal.

As for whether it's an "abuse of trust," as long as everything's consensual I don't see any problem. Why shouldn't she be able to choose to fuck her tutor?

[Sketness]

hey man if the age of consent in your country is 16 then you have the law on your side. Here in the states that shit would not fly but since you are in the UK then my advice to you is fuck away ! your not breaking the law so your fine! Just know if you travel to the states defently check to see if they are old enough. Just follow the law man and don't worry !

(11-15-2011 09:36 PM)dulst Wrote:  

Before you start hating this isn't another "but what about her feelings?" thread. I come to you with an actual, pussy chasing related moral dilema.

I am a first year at university studying theoretical physics. All physics and maths students get the chance to apply for jobs as GCSE maths tutors.

(For the non brits, GCSEs are the qualification you do at the end of your compulsory education in Britain, aged 16. After these you can do what you like but most stay in school to do A levels (18) then go to uni.)

Anyway, a friend of mine did this last year and ended up fucking his pupil. He was 18, she was 16.

Thankfully, our glorious nation has an age of consent of just 16. The youngest girl I've fucked was 17.

My dilema is this: Do I use this tutoring gig as a chance to fuck girls? More specifically: despite the law is 16 too young? And is it an abuse of trust for a what is basically a skilled classroom assistant to have sex with one of his pupils?

Thanks in advance.

[dulst]

(11-15-2011 09:46 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Dude it's a 2 year age difference. This isn't even on the radar screen of questionability. The real travesty is that there are places where an 18 year-old fucking a 16 year-old is illegal.

As for whether it's an "abuse of trust," as long as everything's consensual I don't see any problem. Why shouldn't she be able to choose to fuck her tutor?

The abuse of trust question was asked because in this country several professional teachers have been fired for sleeping with students oven though the students were legal. It's to do with "duty of care" or some bullshit.

[Amour Fou]

(11-15-2011 09:53 PM)dulst Wrote:  

(11-15-2011 09:46 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Dude it's a 2 year age difference. This isn't even on the radar screen of questionability. The real travesty is that there are places where an 18 year-old fucking a 16 year-old is illegal.

As for whether it's an "abuse of trust," as long as everything's consensual I don't see any problem. Why shouldn't she be able to choose to fuck her tutor?

The abuse of trust question was asked because in this country several professional teachers have been fired for sleeping with students oven though the students were legal. It's to do with "duty of care" or some bullshit.

I go for the existencialist approach.

There is no right or wrong answer for this, no such thing as a "moral" dillema. Nevertheless, you are the sole responsible for the repercussion of your actions. If you feel that things can get ugly, then don't do it. If you think you can get away with it, go bang those pubescent teens!

Some inspiration:

(NOTE: By the way, I remember taking the IGCSE (International GCSE) back in the days... what a pain. I studied in a British school...)

[gringochileno]

(11-15-2011 09:53 PM)dulst Wrote:  

(11-15-2011 09:46 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Dude it's a 2 year age difference. This isn't even on the radar screen of questionability. The real travesty is that there are places where an 18 year-old fucking a 16 year-old is illegal.

As for whether it's an "abuse of trust," as long as everything's consensual I don't see any problem. Why shouldn't she be able to choose to fuck her tutor?

The abuse of trust question was asked because in this country several professional teachers have been fired for sleeping with students oven though the students were legal. It's to do with "duty of care" or some bullshit.

Oh. Well if you think there's a reasonable chance you might get caught and fired for it then you might not want to do it. You're probably in a better position to weigh the risks and benefits than anyone else so it's up to you. From a purely ethical standpoint I don't see how there could be anything wrong with it though.

[sim]

You wouldn't be directly harming them by banging a few, however these girls not knowing any better will most likely be looking for teenage relationships. They will enjoy having an older boyfriend in a position of power and high social status amongst their peers. Therefore if you bang one of your students expect her to get attached and talk about you to her friends.

This being the case you should probably check out what the consequences of getting caught would be. If the worst case scenario is you will simply be turfed from the tutor program, perhaps it's not a bad idea. However if you are doing that program for a credit, or want to become a teacher in the future and it's the case that getting caught will follow you, then perhaps it's not such a hot idea.

A few of my mates dated younger girls when they were your age and had great times because they had their pick of the litter due to being older and cooler than the competition, also were able to bang virgins and have a sexual blank canvas to work on.

This being said however the main point you should understand is that you shouldn't have to jeopardise your life projects and reputation to pick up girls. Especially at your age and at university.