Im recently transferred to a new college where i live about 25-30 min away from the campus so taking a girl home with me is a little out of the question. Are there little tips,tricks or things I can say to wiggle my way into there dorms to seal the deal?
Getting a girl to take YOU home
At my uni it's standard procedure to go to a girls place. It's safer for the girl and gives them peace of mind - especially important in the current rape hysteria campus environment.
If where you are things don't work like that, I'd say just go for balls out confidence. ie. "Lets go back to yours and keep partying". If she pushes for why, just make up some funny excuse like "I don't wanna wake my grandma" or whatever.
If where you are things don't work like that, I'd say just go for balls out confidence. ie. "Lets go back to yours and keep partying". If she pushes for why, just make up some funny excuse like "I don't wanna wake my grandma" or whatever.
21 y/o brit.
hey fellas any of you seasoned players have any tips or tricks i could use ?
i wouldn't consider myself seasoned... but due to logistics i've had to overcome this problem a handful of times. my favorite move that works for me pretty much every time is simple.
1) you have to be vibing. simple, but you should be talking a lot, and she should be eating it up. playful, serious, whatever... it doesn't seem to matter much, just get to the point where she has totally lost herself in your world.
2) suggest a movie. it's been a 'long night' and an innocent movie to wind things down is just the right medicine. obviously you both know its on, but there is still room for that perfect amount of doubt in her mind. personally i'm not the type to just say 'lets go fuck,' one day i just might experiment with a variation of that though.
3) fake offer your place first. then think about it for half a second and realize your dvd player is broken... tv isn't connected right... live too far away... whatever you feel like inventing. suggest hers instead. I've had girls say they didn't own tv, just keep pushing though, gently, and suggest laptop. if you're vibing, she'll agree every time. she might put up an excuse or two still, but its just a motion, ignore it/diffuse it and move on.
4) get up, pay your bill, leave. don't find something else to talk about, physically guide her into a cab, tell her to give the guy directions and relax. you're golden...
1) you have to be vibing. simple, but you should be talking a lot, and she should be eating it up. playful, serious, whatever... it doesn't seem to matter much, just get to the point where she has totally lost herself in your world.
2) suggest a movie. it's been a 'long night' and an innocent movie to wind things down is just the right medicine. obviously you both know its on, but there is still room for that perfect amount of doubt in her mind. personally i'm not the type to just say 'lets go fuck,' one day i just might experiment with a variation of that though.
3) fake offer your place first. then think about it for half a second and realize your dvd player is broken... tv isn't connected right... live too far away... whatever you feel like inventing. suggest hers instead. I've had girls say they didn't own tv, just keep pushing though, gently, and suggest laptop. if you're vibing, she'll agree every time. she might put up an excuse or two still, but its just a motion, ignore it/diffuse it and move on.
4) get up, pay your bill, leave. don't find something else to talk about, physically guide her into a cab, tell her to give the guy directions and relax. you're golden...
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