I recently ended things with my ex after six months - she was okay bringing things to an end, too, and I don't regret the decision. It was amicable.
As we broke up, I suggested straight out that we just be fuck-buddies but she politely declined. Even so, I think it's still plausible she could be one I occasionally take out, sleep with etc - which would be ideal for me. Because of our social circle we will see one another regularly enough so that won't be an issue. She lives very near me. I also know how horny she can be, and how averse she is to attaching herself exclusively to men, so I figure that if she's single and suddenly feels the urge, I want to position myself to take advantage of that.
We've since seen a fair bit of each other twice, and each time she refused a drink when I offered her one (a mistake if I was only just starting to hit on her, I know) - I suspect because she knew having a drink or two might lead to us to the bedroom.
How would others here drive this scenario the way I want? I don't want her back and I am not going to let a continuing interest in sex with her get in the way of pursuing other women. But she is extremely good in bed and I want more of that occasionally - is there a reasonably easy way to go about getting it? Or should I forget this and move on from her sexually as well as relationship-wise?
As we broke up, I suggested straight out that we just be fuck-buddies but she politely declined. Even so, I think it's still plausible she could be one I occasionally take out, sleep with etc - which would be ideal for me. Because of our social circle we will see one another regularly enough so that won't be an issue. She lives very near me. I also know how horny she can be, and how averse she is to attaching herself exclusively to men, so I figure that if she's single and suddenly feels the urge, I want to position myself to take advantage of that.
We've since seen a fair bit of each other twice, and each time she refused a drink when I offered her one (a mistake if I was only just starting to hit on her, I know) - I suspect because she knew having a drink or two might lead to us to the bedroom.
How would others here drive this scenario the way I want? I don't want her back and I am not going to let a continuing interest in sex with her get in the way of pursuing other women. But she is extremely good in bed and I want more of that occasionally - is there a reasonably easy way to go about getting it? Or should I forget this and move on from her sexually as well as relationship-wise?