[esperar]

I met a girl online on facebook, and then we met at a bar at a meeting for people who share the same interests where there were loads of people. When we met she gave off all of these great signals, and eventually I had to leave. Fast forward half a week, after chatting well online, I get her to agree to come out with me. So we are chatting online not even an hour ago, and then she says......"meet us" at the bar. Yep, she wanted to bring her friends.

I know the deal with chick friends on a date, they are there to cock block. I made my excuses and said I would meet her again on Thursday at the next meet up, and she said ok, she will see me on Thursday.

I'm assuming either one of two things happened. She wanted to bring her friends along to let me know she has no interest in me, or she wanted to bring them to feel safer.

I think there's a good chance I fucked this up totally and will never see her again because of it, but if that's the case, so be it. What should I have done, and what should I do in the future over this girl? Can i still save this one?

[MiXX]

Read this carefully:

No girl that has already met you personally will ever want to purposely bring friends to a date with a guy she wants to fuck - ever!!!

So, man up and tell her that your intent is to be alone with her to get to "know her better" and her friends can come another time. If she rejects your offer, she's not sexually interested in you....move on.


Mixx

[esperar]

Thanks, that's what I'll do. I'm going to the next meet up on Thursday anyway, even if she isn't there, if she wants to talk to me she can. I'll let her know then I want to get her alone, and if she says no, that's it. Done.

[Chad Daring]

Literally had this exact same thing happen to me about 6 months ago.

The line I used, almost verbatim was:

"Oh, you're bringing friends, I'm sorry I thought this was a date not a social party night"

She was into me and apologized up and down. One of the guys she invited ended up showing anyways, but he was a cool dude and I Think I actually gained some leverage because him and I hit it off. I took her home that night.

[Gmac]

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[el mechanico]

Let her bring them and either choose which one to fuck or douce all of them down with booze and work a threesome or better.

If it's not a date they are all fair game. Meet where the booze flows like wine

[Parlay44]

You gotta watch though. I've had girls call and invite me out. Sounded all well and good like they want some one on one time until you get there. It'll end up being a place they frequent packed with guys they know.

You should always call the shots with dates. Gives you the control over situations like that.

[Parlay44]

(11-19-2011 08:44 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Let her bring them and either choose which one to fuck or douce all of them down with booze and work a threesome or better.

If it's not a date they are all fair game. Meet where the booze flows like wine

I like that.

[MiXX]

(11-19-2011 08:44 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Let her bring them and either choose which one to fuck or douce all of them down with booze and work a threesome or better.

If it's not a date they are all fair game. Meet where the booze flows like wine

But that's the problem mechanico, latina bitches pull this bullshit move because 1) they are not really interested in you and 2) No self-respecting Latina girl will EVER, AND I MEAN EVER bring a girl that is hotter than her to go hang with a guy she wants attention from. I can surely bet that her friends will be Fat, ugly, obnoxious are all 3!


Mixx

[el mechanico]

(11-19-2011 08:58 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-19-2011 08:44 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Let her bring them and either choose which one to fuck or douce all of them down with booze and work a threesome or better.

If it's not a date they are all fair game. Meet where the booze flows like wine

But that's the problem mechanico, latina bitches pull this bullshit move because 1) they are not really interested in you and 2) No self-respecting Latina girl will EVER, AND I MEAN EVER bring a girl that is hotter than her to go hang with a guy she wants attention from. I can surely bet that her friends will be Fat, ugly, obnoxious are all 3!


Mixx

Yea....I've never pulled a win with this with Latinas but I would still play it out. So what's it about? Free food and drinks?

I thought by his name that he wasn't in the US and things may be different.

[MiXX]

(11-19-2011 09:02 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Yea....I've never pulled a win with this with Latinas but I would still play it out. So what's it about? Free food and drinks?

With Latinas, and most younger women, it's all about her friends seeing the guys she can sucker into buying her drinks/food and the power she has over them. This is mostly done to establish her "pecking order" amongst the hens in her social group.

When a real hot guy they all want comes along, the Hen with the highest rank gets first dibs...

It's stupid to see even grown-ass women in their late 20's pull this shit too...usually girls who do this are under 23.


Mixx

[el mechanico]

(11-19-2011 09:11 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-19-2011 09:02 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Yea....I've never pulled a win with this with Latinas but I would still play it out. So what's it about? Free food and drinks?

With Latinas, and most younger women, it's all about her friends seeing the guys she can sucker into buying her drinks/food and the power she has over them. This is mostly done to establish her "pecking order" amongst the hens in her social group.

When a real hot guy they all want comes along, the Hen with the highest rank gets first dibs...

It's stupid to see even grown-ass women in their late 20's pull this shit too...usually girls who do this are under 23.


Mixx

OK so if this dude has nothing better to do whats the play on this?

[Gmac]

(11-19-2011 09:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(11-19-2011 09:11 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-19-2011 09:02 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Yea....I've never pulled a win with this with Latinas but I would still play it out. So what's it about? Free food and drinks?

With Latinas, and most younger women, it's all about her friends seeing the guys she can sucker into buying her drinks/food and the power she has over them. This is mostly done to establish her "pecking order" amongst the hens in her social group.

When a real hot guy they all want comes along, the Hen with the highest rank gets first dibs...

It's stupid to see even grown-ass women in their late 20's pull this shit too...usually girls who do this are under 23.


Mixx

OK so if this dude has nothing better to do whats the play on this?

Go out and hit on the server in front of them... then go to the bathroom, grab her number, and stiff them with the bill.

[el mechanico]

I just re-read the post and she said meet us at the bar. That is not a date. It's an invite to hang where she's going to be anyway and booze = win.

If she said ok what time are you picking me up and Latriece and Rosalita are coming that's way different.

[Gmac]

(11-19-2011 09:26 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I just re-read the post and she said meet us at the bar. That is not a date. It's an invite to hang where she's going to be anyway and booze = win.

If she said ok what time are you picking me up and Latriece and Rosalita are coming that way different.

I clearly fail at reading comprehension too.

Since it's not a date, isolate and get her out of there. Be prepared for cockblocking though. The majority of my bangs over the past few months have been similar situations to this... the key is to get her alone and out of there.

[esperar]

I cancelled this "date" with the girl when i found out she wanted to bring friends, and we spoke to each other at the meeting I was going to anyway for a while with others. Fast forward to today, and she tells me she has a boyfriend, but I can meet her anyway just for helping each other with our languages.

I'm assuming she's lying about the boyfriend, and she has rejected me. It's really odd, because she gave me quite a few signals. Responding with enthusiasm, giving me her number, quickly giving my her email when i asked for her, etc etc, but then this.

I just sent her a reply saying that I never had any interest in her like that anyway, and she should bring her friends if we meet up (I'll make another excuse up to not go) but I'll probably see her on Thursday at the next meeting, and if she brings her hot as fuck friend with her, I'll give her the attention instead.

[esperar]

Double post.

[esperar]

I wanted to edit my last post to include this, but it says I can't do it, so I'll make a new post. Anyway, the girl says her boyfriend is in Spain. I'm still not convinced he exists. Plus, she's 20 years old.

[MiXX]

(11-21-2011 03:07 PM)esperar Wrote:  

I wanted to edit my last post to include this, but it says I can't do it, so I'll make a new post. Anyway, the girl says her boyfriend is in Spain. I'm still not convinced he exists. Plus, she's 20 years old.

I think you need to stop having one-eyetis and move on to another girl man.

I can already tell you are spending way too much time/energy on one girl. I don't care how fine she is, meet-up with her, and bring a hotter girl than her as a special friend.

Mixx

[esperar]

Yeah, you're probs right. She has a smoking hot friend who is a 10 though. Surely I should try and nail her?

[Parlay44]

[MiXX]

(11-21-2011 03:22 PM)esperar Wrote:  

Yeah, you're probs right. She has a smoking hot friend who is a 10 though. Surely I should try and nail her?

You want to score her friend you say is a 10, and you barely know how to deal with what you got now? You trollin' boy?

If you can't control your emotions and game plan for the one you have now, you can forget about a 10 from Spain! 10's from Spain are all about social status, and what you can accomplish for her, no offense. You sound like you are not there yet.


Move on.

Mixx

[esperar]

Yeah, you're right. I'll just ignore her the next time I see her, and speak to some other chick who's there. I'm not offended btw, I know I'm not there yet, which is why i am in the noob forum.

[Parlay44]

I think you need to bang out a few fat or ugly bitches and see how much they worship and appreciate your cock while you treat them like the pigs that they are. Once you get that attitude straight you can move up to better looking girls without feeling the need to pedastalize them. They'll thank you for it.

[esperar]

I can't do fatties and fuglies. If they're not at least a 7, I'd rather go without. I'm gonna tell her she can see me again if she wants, but she'll have to come to me. She probably won't, so it's an easy out for me. I'm just gonna take Mixx's advice and move on. I've put this chick on a pedestal, and need to stop doing that.