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Pitying the Pump and Dump
11-15-2011, 07:03 AM
My problem is that I always end up feeling bad about it later. As a result, I've stopped really trying to bang girls who I have no more than a fleeting interest in?
Pretty beta, huh?
Maybe it's a result of having grown up with only a sister, mom, and grandmother and no males.
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11-15-2011, 09:23 AM
I had a girl tell me she'd kill herself if I broke it off with her. I told her that slitting her wrists was too messy and she should consider ODing.
She's fine. Happily married now (though I'm not sure I can say the same for him).
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Pitying the Pump and Dump
11-15-2011, 11:40 AM
This is just another way of pedestalising women. You think they're fragile creatures who will not be able to handle you ditching them. They'll get over it.
What will make it harder for them to get over it is you misleading them about your intentions over a longer period and THEN ditching them.
"A flower can not remain in bloom for years, but a garden can be cultivated to bloom throughout seasons and years." - xsplat
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Pitying the Pump and Dump
11-15-2011, 12:37 PM
I went through this stage too. I passed on pussy from girls I didn't have much interest in, because I didn't want to deal with potential drama afterwards. I regret it. If women feel they are independent and equals, they have to live with the decision to fuck a man without expectations. I don't expect anything from her, so she has no reason to expect anything from me. If she does, that's on her. All I owe her is a good fucking - to do my damndest to make sure I tear up that pussy.
"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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Pitying the Pump and Dump
11-15-2011, 02:31 PM
You'll be surprised at how easily most (normal) girls handle this with no drama.
Acting beta, however, makes drama more likely.
"A flower can not remain in bloom for years, but a garden can be cultivated to bloom throughout seasons and years." - xsplat