I need a guide on how to roll dolo in clubs.
Guide to rolling dolo - Needed
I don't really know much about riding dolo nor do I have experience of going to clubs because I'm 19 and only have gone to a International club in prague...
but I went to a party solo and I can say it is hard(2nd time for me)... my friend hit me up so I met up with him but I regret it and should've just stayed solo..
I think you learn a lot more and you gain more valuable knowledge.
When I was in prague I was by myself so I just went up to people and started talking to them and acting very cool and confident but I was still pretty bad...
It really is the best way to learn though IMO. just a bit boring at times.
I could use some advice as I do not really have any friends to go out with to college parties.
but I went to a party solo and I can say it is hard(2nd time for me)... my friend hit me up so I met up with him but I regret it and should've just stayed solo..
I think you learn a lot more and you gain more valuable knowledge.
When I was in prague I was by myself so I just went up to people and started talking to them and acting very cool and confident but I was still pretty bad...
It really is the best way to learn though IMO. just a bit boring at times.
I could use some advice as I do not really have any friends to go out with to college parties.
Roosh and many others have posted on this several times
http://www.rooshv.com/going-out-alone
Cheers.
http://www.rooshv.com/going-out-alone
Cheers.
I typically go solo to college bars. Preparation is simple: just be social during the day, work out, videotape yourself before going out so that you can see yourself in motion and see how your clothes are fitting. The reason for all that is to establish a base layer of social energy that you lack when you roll solo, as there are no friends to feed off of necessarily.
Immediately before going to the bar, I drink enough to get a nice buzz. You need to be very careful with this, however, as you risk overdrinking, getting drunk, and effectively destroying your ability to run game. I also buy a pack of cigarettes, since smoking is critical to opening up conversations with people.
When I get to the venue, I sit at the bar, talk to the bartenders and people sitting around me. If I'm not getting any action at the bar, I head outside for a cigarette and see who's out there. I continue this shuttle between the bar and smoking section until I am able to initiate a conversation with potential.
Also, on my way from smoking section to bar, or vice versa, I look for opportunities to run game on girls between the two areas. You want to be squeezing the venue for every ounce of potential. Don't be surprised if you smoke 15 or 16 cigarettes in a night with the constant moving back and forth.
A few traps I sometimes fall into when rolling solo:
1. Drinking too much: on a slow night, you might find yourself without conversation and staring at one of the TV's with only a drink to keep you company. I end up overdrinking and miss out on opportunities that randomly appear throughout the night.
2. See somebody I know (guy), talk to them for too long: usually happens when I haven't established my base layer of social interaction for the day, so I compensate by talking to anybody I know.
Hope this helps.
Immediately before going to the bar, I drink enough to get a nice buzz. You need to be very careful with this, however, as you risk overdrinking, getting drunk, and effectively destroying your ability to run game. I also buy a pack of cigarettes, since smoking is critical to opening up conversations with people.
When I get to the venue, I sit at the bar, talk to the bartenders and people sitting around me. If I'm not getting any action at the bar, I head outside for a cigarette and see who's out there. I continue this shuttle between the bar and smoking section until I am able to initiate a conversation with potential.
Also, on my way from smoking section to bar, or vice versa, I look for opportunities to run game on girls between the two areas. You want to be squeezing the venue for every ounce of potential. Don't be surprised if you smoke 15 or 16 cigarettes in a night with the constant moving back and forth.
A few traps I sometimes fall into when rolling solo:
1. Drinking too much: on a slow night, you might find yourself without conversation and staring at one of the TV's with only a drink to keep you company. I end up overdrinking and miss out on opportunities that randomly appear throughout the night.
2. See somebody I know (guy), talk to them for too long: usually happens when I haven't established my base layer of social interaction for the day, so I compensate by talking to anybody I know.
Hope this helps.
i know something about it..
- Preparation.. what preparation?
- State management.. irrelevant
- What game to use.. blow shit up game
- Logistics.. that's the key here
GOLDEN RULE: who has the most fun wins. no matter what you do you have to be the party and share it with people around. so you're like 'the party is here you're welcome'.
as you know people go out to have fun. but they spend most time in the club looking for fun cause they let loose. it's very blatant when you enter the venue early. people sitting and waiting for something. later they move more, dance and drink but still looking around where the fun energy is. they all crave it. so when you have more fun than them you win cause you draw them in.
IMO the easiest way to do this is dancefloor. that's where girls get sexy and lose their mind. what i like to do is to shamelessly dance for 1-2 songs alone. others notice that i really don't give a fuck and have my own fun so when i approach girls already know that. and when you put me next to other dudes then have rockstar status
going solo is actually easy but you have to start socializing/partying from the second you enter. at least that's the best way IMO. i actually experimented with going solo and literally sitting for 1hour alone and then starting to party so i know i can do it. but generally it's best to just like jump in to the pool ASAP. otherwise it might get really weird to walk around, stall, watch others etc and be disconnected from the fun. technically it's nothing different than going with friends cause you approach solo either way so that doesn't change.
IMO for solo beginners i think the biggest challenge of going solo is having fun ASAP. really just GO! GO! GO! right away and not stopping no matter what. after all that's why you're there to have fun with girls right?
personally..
what i like to do is hitting the club around midnight where it is packed and people are already having fun cause that makes me go "yaaay it's fun!" and i just GO GO GO and get on a roll fast, hit dancefloor and have a blast.
also, i don't care about nothing in the club. no special spots, no "how am i coming across" shit, absolutely nothing cause i know that people are there solely to have fun so i'm the one who they're looking for. so i bullshit with cool guys (beer/sport/girls) and flirt with any chick around me but focus on hotties.
interestingly, you are your biggest competition cause it's so easy to get discouraged after few fuck ups. it's definitely fun experiment
- Preparation.. what preparation?
- State management.. irrelevant
- What game to use.. blow shit up game
- Logistics.. that's the key here
GOLDEN RULE: who has the most fun wins. no matter what you do you have to be the party and share it with people around. so you're like 'the party is here you're welcome'.
as you know people go out to have fun. but they spend most time in the club looking for fun cause they let loose. it's very blatant when you enter the venue early. people sitting and waiting for something. later they move more, dance and drink but still looking around where the fun energy is. they all crave it. so when you have more fun than them you win cause you draw them in.
IMO the easiest way to do this is dancefloor. that's where girls get sexy and lose their mind. what i like to do is to shamelessly dance for 1-2 songs alone. others notice that i really don't give a fuck and have my own fun so when i approach girls already know that. and when you put me next to other dudes then have rockstar status
going solo is actually easy but you have to start socializing/partying from the second you enter. at least that's the best way IMO. i actually experimented with going solo and literally sitting for 1hour alone and then starting to party so i know i can do it. but generally it's best to just like jump in to the pool ASAP. otherwise it might get really weird to walk around, stall, watch others etc and be disconnected from the fun. technically it's nothing different than going with friends cause you approach solo either way so that doesn't change.
IMO for solo beginners i think the biggest challenge of going solo is having fun ASAP. really just GO! GO! GO! right away and not stopping no matter what. after all that's why you're there to have fun with girls right?
personally..
what i like to do is hitting the club around midnight where it is packed and people are already having fun cause that makes me go "yaaay it's fun!" and i just GO GO GO and get on a roll fast, hit dancefloor and have a blast.
also, i don't care about nothing in the club. no special spots, no "how am i coming across" shit, absolutely nothing cause i know that people are there solely to have fun so i'm the one who they're looking for. so i bullshit with cool guys (beer/sport/girls) and flirt with any chick around me but focus on hotties.
interestingly, you are your biggest competition cause it's so easy to get discouraged after few fuck ups. it's definitely fun experiment
I've been rolling dolo for like 6 years, 95% of the time I go out. I used to be really shy so this was a big deal at first but now it's totally normal and I actually prefer it, although its cool to go out with my boys too.
assuming you get all the basics handled - groom, dressing well, and know how to approach girls with a compliment - the real issue is your state.
It's actually really easy to get into a social state and meet people - the key is to ease into it. I think of it as a ramp - I make small talk with people in line, dudes at the bar, etc. I don't hesitate - I want to get going on this right away before I get stuck in my head. Another reason not to wait to get warmed up is because a lot of times you'll see that ONE GIRL but you won't be ready and you'll talk yourself out of it.
Here's a typical scenario:
In line - to some guys standing in line ahead of you, "hey guys is this a good spot? cool. I just moved out here - trying to scope out the city a little." this will probably start a conversation, and you can say hi to the guys later on.
Get a beer at the bar - some girls are standing near you. "You guys look cute tonight. You're making the other girls look bad!" Say it with a big smile. They probably say thanks, or call you out on saying a line. Joke around with them and if you like a particular one, focus on her. don't linger - you don't want to be labeled as an awkward guy.
NOW its OK to fuck up and make mistakes, but the goal for now is to have light pleasant interactions, not to go hard and pickup girls...yet.
Do a lap around the bar, lock eyes with whoever looks at you and smile and nod and say hi.
Find a good spot to post up and sip your beer. Say whats up to the guys you met earlier as they pass by. get a round of beers. You're feeling good, you see you're 10 walk in with some friends. you see where her group settles, you walk over, and say,
"Hey there. I noticed you right away. You're easily the prettiest girl in here. What's your name?"
assuming you get all the basics handled - groom, dressing well, and know how to approach girls with a compliment - the real issue is your state.
It's actually really easy to get into a social state and meet people - the key is to ease into it. I think of it as a ramp - I make small talk with people in line, dudes at the bar, etc. I don't hesitate - I want to get going on this right away before I get stuck in my head. Another reason not to wait to get warmed up is because a lot of times you'll see that ONE GIRL but you won't be ready and you'll talk yourself out of it.
Here's a typical scenario:
In line - to some guys standing in line ahead of you, "hey guys is this a good spot? cool. I just moved out here - trying to scope out the city a little." this will probably start a conversation, and you can say hi to the guys later on.
Get a beer at the bar - some girls are standing near you. "You guys look cute tonight. You're making the other girls look bad!" Say it with a big smile. They probably say thanks, or call you out on saying a line. Joke around with them and if you like a particular one, focus on her. don't linger - you don't want to be labeled as an awkward guy.
NOW its OK to fuck up and make mistakes, but the goal for now is to have light pleasant interactions, not to go hard and pickup girls...yet.
Do a lap around the bar, lock eyes with whoever looks at you and smile and nod and say hi.
Find a good spot to post up and sip your beer. Say whats up to the guys you met earlier as they pass by. get a round of beers. You're feeling good, you see you're 10 walk in with some friends. you see where her group settles, you walk over, and say,
"Hey there. I noticed you right away. You're easily the prettiest girl in here. What's your name?"
Quote: (11-13-2011 05:01 PM)XXL Wrote:
GOLDEN RULE: who has the most fun wins.
^^
This is all that matters.
OP is overthinking it. Dolo is the best, rly.
DISCLAIMER: I don't know what I'm talking about and my posts are opinion, not advice.
Quote:Gmac Wrote:
your time > her feelings
I was out last night with wings, but they scattered all around the room and I was effectively there by myself. I was just social with everyone, bouncing around the room some, got pulled into VIP with some med students for an hour, etc.
It helps to become a semi-regular somewhere. Don't go more than once per week because then it's a little weird, but if you regularly go to the same place on the same night every week, eventually you'll be able to roll in and tons of people will recognize you who you talked to before, etc.
It helps to become a semi-regular somewhere. Don't go more than once per week because then it's a little weird, but if you regularly go to the same place on the same night every week, eventually you'll be able to roll in and tons of people will recognize you who you talked to before, etc.
DISCLAIMER: I don't know what I'm talking about and my posts are opinion, not advice.
Quote:Gmac Wrote:
your time > her feelings
whenever your alone at the club use your cell phone as a safety net
its what i do because even though the conversation is over i dont want
the bitches thinking i got nothing to do looking like a loser so i pretend
im texting some girls when im just staring at my phone what i do is
do anything to keep you busy while you got your next approach coming up
its what i do because even though the conversation is over i dont want
the bitches thinking i got nothing to do looking like a loser so i pretend
im texting some girls when im just staring at my phone what i do is
do anything to keep you busy while you got your next approach coming up
Quote: (11-17-2011 04:31 AM)StraightMackin Wrote:
whenever your alone at the club use your cell phone as a safety net
its what i do because even though the conversation is over i dont want
the bitches thinking i got nothing to do looking like a loser so i pretend
im texting some girls when im just staring at my phone what i do is
do anything to keep you busy while you got your next approach coming up
Smoking helps with this and its a good excuse to meet people since they might ask for a cig or a light or you can ask for a light.
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