[afronoob]

I ask because I've seen on 2 separate threads posters saying their black buddies' dads regularly schooled them in the pussy hunt. I wasn't so lucky and the only relative whose dad broached the subject was in these words:
"Son,if I find you fucking an ugly bitch, I'll kill you myself with my nine. You know I will."
But then again,Kenya is a notoriously semi-wahabi conservative country. Post your experiences! Your own and what you've seen and heard.

[peterthephoenix]

my dad told me not to get married til I was at least 30. I guess I can learn from his mistakes.

[Excelsior]

I've never seen my dad.

[speakeasy]

My dad never helped me much at all with game. My dad was pretty much the archetype of the beta provider. What advice he did give me was really outdated and not helpful for a teenager growing up in the 90s. He was never very good with women himself. I'd be surprised if he slept with more than several women in his life. He never threw me out there in the field and made me talk to girls to get over my shyness. If he had done that my whole life might have been different. Every now and then he would ask if I had a girlfriend. I would say "no" he'd say, "still not yet???" and that'd be the extend of it. I was pretty much on my own to try and figure shit out. The explosion of game material online didn't start until I was already in my mid 20s.

[BLarsen]

Sadly no. I got zero instruction from any male family member. Complete trial and error for me. Mainly error

[BLarsen]

(11-13-2011 03:38 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

My dad never helped me much at all with game. My dad was pretty much the archetype of the beta provider. What advice he did give me was really outdated and not helpful for a teenager growing up in the 90s. He was never very good with women himself. I'd be surprised if he slept with more than several women in his life. He never threw me out there in the field and made me talk to girls to get over my shyness. If he had done that my whole life might have been different. Every now and then he would ask if I had a girlfriend. I would say "no" he'd say, "still not yet???" and that'd be the extend of it. I was pretty much on my own to try and figure shit out. The explosion of game material online didn't start until I was already in my mid 20s.

Do we have the same dad???

[sine wave killer]

I've lurked on this forum for a while, but this post got me to register. I didn't grow up with my pops but he's had about 10+ kids (7 confirmed), and he's always had this reputation for slaying women. I'm the exact opposite (I've got a rep for being a sensitive artist lol), he's never cared to actually even teach me about game but he'd always chastise me. My pops is about to hit 70 and he's still banging women in their mid twenties. As usual everyone find's it disgusting but I really admire him for not give a f what people think. A few years ago I worked in a factory and it was the first schooling and eye opening experience with learning game. I've started to hang out with him within the last few years, he's in the early stages of Alzheimer's so I'd like to pick up some of his knowledge before it's gone.

[OGNorCal707]

Interesting to see that most guys' fathers never gave them game/women advice, I wonder if this is a norm across the board in our society.

My father never once gave me any advice on dating/women/relationships/etc., I can't say I ever asked him, but he never brought up the topic of my dating/status with women, etc. Even as I got into my teens and early twenties, he never so much as asked if I had a girlfriend.

I have no idea what my father was like before he married my Mom, I know he was a high school basketball player, so I'm sure he got some poonanie from that. I also just recently found out, (my father wrote a memoir that's been published), that my Dad had an on-going affair with his mother's best friend when he was in high school.

My Dad married my Mom when he was 30 and she was only 18, when they met when he was living in Iran in the 1970's, I guess they've been married now for almost 40 years, and the whole time he's been the provider, but not really Beta as he was always in charge of the household.

My older brother, who is 8 years older than me, is a classic AFC, he always has been and always will be. He never really gave me any advice on females, as he really had nothing to give. He only slept with 3 women before he got married, and now he has a 3 year old daughter, and his wife definitely wears the pants in the relationship and calls all the shots.

It seems like a pretty commend trend with AFC's that they had no guidance or direction from "alpha males" or rather guys who are successful with and understand the nature of women.

[OGNorCal707]

(11-13-2011 03:53 PM)sine wave killer Wrote:  

I've lurked on this forum for a while, but this post got me to register. I didn't grow up with my pops but he's had about 10+ kids (7 confirmed), and he's always had this reputation for slaying women. I'm the exact opposite (I've got a rep for being a sensitive artist lol), he's never cared to actually even teach me about game but he'd always chastise me. My pops is about to hit 70 and he's still banging women in their mid twenties. As usual everyone find's it disgusting but I really admire him for not give a f what people think. A few years ago I worked in a factory and it was the first schooling and eye opening experience with learning game. I've started to hang out with him within the last few years, he's in the early stages of Alzheimer's so I'd like to pick up some of his knowledge before it's gone.

Wait so your Dad is almost 70 and he's got Alzheimers, but he's still banging women in their mid-twenties...? Dude sounds like he may possibly be one of the greatest players of all time.

[MiXX]

(11-13-2011 03:38 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

My dad never helped me much at all with game. My dad was pretty much the archetype of the beta provider.

I have never met my biological father. Word by my mom is that he was too much of a womanizer, and she got tired of it, and left him when I was 2 years old.

Rumor is he had a woman for every day of the week, and could walk through a puddle of dirt, and mud without so much as a single stain on his white shirt or polished shoes.


My step-father (R.I.P) who raised me, was just like SpeakEasy's dad.


Mixx

[el mechanico]

My father would open and flirt with women continuosly even if my mom was right next to him. He didn't give a fuck and was so Alpha nobody dared ever to correct him. He made me approach older women and use lines on them at stores and made me manipulate waitresses since I was about 12.

We would go on Cruises once a year and he would run pics for me to get my sister out of my cabin so I could bang girls and even took me to NYC to get a fake id so I could drink in the clubs.

When I was 16 he enforced a 1am curfew and deadlocked the door at 1 on the dot. He said If you can't make it by one you better find some broad to sleep with.

[RaulValdez739]

I wish. He only discussed other things such as ways to manage money. El Mechanico I am jealous lol

[Timoteo]

My parents separated, then divorced when I was young, so no, we never had those talks. Even later on, when I was older, I rarely heard from him. Whatever I learned about chicks was from being around them, listening to them, seeing how they acted, etc. The things I picked up from my dad were his sense of style - he was a clothes horse. In old family pictures taken before I was born, he always looked sharp.

[Gunner]

(11-13-2011 04:03 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-13-2011 03:38 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

My dad never helped me much at all with game. My dad was pretty much the archetype of the beta provider.

I have never met my biological father. Word by my mom is that he was too much of a womanizer, and she got tired of it, and left him when I was 2 years old.

Rumor is he had a woman for every day of the week, and could walk through a puddle of dirt, and mud without so much as a single stain on his white shirt or polished shoes.


My step-father (R.I.P) who raised me, was just like SpeakEasy's dad.


Mixx

Interesting...nature vs nurture.

[afronoob]

(11-13-2011 04:36 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

My father would open and flirt with women continuosly even if my mom was right next to him. He didn't give a fuck and was so Alpha nobody dared ever to correct him. He made me approach older women and use lines on them at stores and made me manipulate waitresses since I was about 12.

We would go on Cruises once a year and he would run pics for me to get my sister out of my cabin so I could bang girls and even took me to NYC to get a fake id so I could drink in the clubs.

When I was 16 he enforced a 1am curfew and deadlocked the door at 1 on the dot. He said If you can't make it by one you better find some broad to sleep with.

Dude,I wished your dad could have adopted me,if only for a week! I decided to teach my nephews and sons the game which IMO is important as self defence or education. The ins and outs of reverse mindtricking a 9 out of her thong to making her squirt,because I realise now the whole dating thing can be traumatic. I truly think,20 smth year old guys in therapy are there because of no game.

[DamonHVictor]

I'd say my dad is pretty alpha. And probably a borderline-genius. He got his Bachelor's in Math, got a Masters in..Aerospace Engineering, designed missiles for the F-4 Phantom, then decided he wasn't making enough money as an engineer and went to medical school at the age of 35. All while, of course, being black (growing up in segregated Virginia he sees EVERYTHING in racial terms). He's been a radiologist ever since. Anyways...

He fathered two sons from two women (my mom is 18 years his junior, not sure how old my half-brother's mother is, but my brother is 11 years older than me) then married another woman also about 15 years younger than him. I was raised almost entirely by my mother and essentially learned nothing from him. I know that he almost married some hot blonde tennis player back in the 70's but her father hated him (not surprising).

When I was about 22-23 I shared my scheme (at the time) to buy a yurt and live as a hermit in Mongolia with books, games, and porn. He thought I was nuts. "When I was your age I had a stable of girls. I don't believe in jerking off. I never needed to."

But he never actually taught me anything. The most useful family member has been one of my mother's older brothers. He was in the Air Force in Viet Nam, and was later a small-time drug runner and pimp (said he had 3 girls at one point). I started seeking his advice around 2009 (still pre-Game beta AFC days) after a family friend rather unexpectedly gave me head in my car after I took her to a goth party.

"So how do I fuck her?"
"Get a cheap motel room. Then take her to a simple afternoon lunch. Like appetizers @ Friday's. Then just drive her to the motel and fuck her."
"It's that simple?"
"Yeah, it's that simple."

And low and behold, it WAS that simple. Blew my mind. I try to confer with him semi-regularly now, somewhat difficult when I'm halfway around the world. I also like talking to him because he can relate to my military experiences. My dad is an academic who never served, which is painfully obvious when he attempts to talk about anything military with me.

[Andreas]

My father is beta and i see him everyday being "pussy whipped" by my mom.
I am ashamed to talk about him whenever there is a topic about fathers in a conversation. He does not inspire me at all.....

[Alpha]

My dad was a lady killer in college, and I mostly learned by listening to his old stories, though since I can remember my dad has displayed Sigma tendencies. His anti-social behavior tends to keep him from caring about whether or not he gets any - though I'm sure he must hit it on the regular now that he's divorced.

[Sushifan]

My dad taught me his one rule about dealing with women:

All women are sluts, except your mom. She's a bitch for not being my little slut.

Any questions?

[MiXX]

(11-14-2011 11:30 AM)Sushifan Wrote:  

All women are sluts, except your mom. She's a bitch for not being my little slut.

Any questions?

Yeah, I have a question: did you just say your mom is a bitch for not being your little slut?

WTF?

[el mechanico]

I think a lot of this has to do with which era your dad was raised in. In my case it was the 50s the "Greaser" era so when I was a kid in the 70s we drove hot rods with half the engine sticking out of the hood while my mom stayed in the house. She had no clue what we were doing in the garage and didn't care. Guys whos parents were raised in the hippie era were taught to be more aware and thoughtful....A lot of my school teachers were these dudes and their views were very conflicting to how I was raised. My father actually went to my school and argued out the fact that I was a boy and shouldn't get homework. I need to be doing boy stuff and not in books after school so don't send him home with it.

I remember when I was about 4 my older sister was beating on me and I started crying. My dad heard me and snatched me up then forced me into one of my sisters dresses. He said if you let that happen again you will be wearing one of these from now on! lol

[Moma]

(11-14-2011 11:56 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I think a lot of this has to do with which era your dad was raised in. In my case it was the 50s the "Greaser" era so when I was a kid in the 70s we drove hot rods with half the engine sticking out of the hood while my mom stayed in the house. She had no clue what we were doing in the garage and didn't care. Guys whos parents were raised in the hippie era were taught to be more aware and thoughtful....A lot of my school teachers were these dudes and their views were very conflicting to how I was raised. My father actually went to my school and argued out the fact that I was a boy and shouldn't get homework. I need to be doing boy stuff and not in books after school so don't send him home with it.

I remember when I was about 4 my older sister was beating on me and I started crying. My dad heard me and snatched me up then forced me into one of my sisters dresses. He said if you let that happen again you will be wearing one of these from now on! lol

++1 to your dad.
Good genes and good nurturing and a dash of good fortune = All that is needed

[Sushifan]

(11-14-2011 11:55 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-14-2011 11:30 AM)Sushifan Wrote:  

All women are sluts, except your mom. She's a bitch for not being my little slut.

Any questions?

Yeah, I have a question: did you just say your mom is a bitch for not being your little slut?

WTF?

Ummm, no. Re-read the post. That's what my dad says about my mom.

But thanks for playing sponge bob.

[MiXX]

(11-14-2011 12:14 PM)Sushifan Wrote:  

(11-14-2011 11:55 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-14-2011 11:30 AM)Sushifan Wrote:  

All women are sluts, except your mom. She's a bitch for not being my little slut.

Any questions?

Yeah, I have a question: did you just say your mom is a bitch for not being your little slut?

WTF?

Ummm, no. Re-read the post. That's what my dad says about my mom.

But thanks for playing sponge bob.

OK, I'd figured as much. Suggestion: modify your post to place each one as bullet-point to emphasize what your dad said as 2 separate quotes. Just a suggestion of course

Mixx

[Sushifan]

(11-14-2011 12:34 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

OK, I'd figured as much. Suggestion: modify your post to place each one as bullet-point to emphasize what your dad said as 2 separate quotes. Just a suggestion of course

Mixx

K. I'll see if I can figure that out on my phone which throws off the formatting a bit.