[Pusscrook]

So, you have found the best piece of pussy in quite some time and you really don't want her leaving the rotation , but, you, don't want a relationship. She wants to have a serious discussion with you ,because she has fallen in love with you. You need to find a way to keep the pussy in rotation, yet stay out of the arms of love and relationship(which is what she wants).



What would you suggest is the best way to resolve the quagmire you now find yourself in?

[ElJefe]

I have tried this problem before.

I would lie.

When she discovers the other girls' hair-band, then deny, deny, deny. She'll argue. Possibly cry. All this arguing and crying is going to mean great sex.

If she catches you red-handed and dumps you, GET FURIOUS! Show loads and loads of emotion. Break shit. This will tell her you care.

Unlike the other scenario, where she dumps you because you care too much. In that case, go travel for a month or two.

[Gmac]

I am having the same problem right now, only she hasn't given me an ultimatum (she won't if she knows what's good for her).

Let her think you're in a relationship, just keep her at arm's length so she never knows you to get too attached. If you start going all compliment and cuddle on her and she'll expect it all the time -- so keep your emotional distance. I'm not worried my girl finding out about my others (I really don't give a fuck), but if she did I know that she'd find some way to deny it in her head.

In other words, lead her on if (mentally) you can.

[tenderman100]

Of course she fell in love with. You made her cum...hard. When you do that, the next natural step is LLLOOOOVVVVEE!!!!

And when they say to me, always first, "Baby I love you..." I say back to them, "I'll always love you." And I do love her...and every other babe I have fucked more than once.

And then I fuck her. Good. Until such time as she says she wants something "more." And I say, "Baby, this is it."

And then we fuck again..or she leaves.

Bottom line? Keep it simple.

[Private Man]

Physical distance helps, too. I never get involved with women who are in my neighborhood, it avoids the "who was parked in your parking space last night?" type of questions.

The woman I am seeing I only allow to come over twice a week. Oh, she tells me she loves me.

[gringochileno]

Don't see her more than twice a week. Say you "need your space." If you manage her expectations correctly you can string her along for quite a while and have plenty of room to fuck other girls on the side. If you get caught, deny everything until you lose plausible deniability.

[Pusscrook]

Well I've been keeping it simple for some time, and I don't ever show any signs of wanting a relationship, but ....

A. I'm not dealing with someone who is wet behind the ears.
B. Besides that good pussy , the "thing" ( you know the thing) I'm doing makes this complicated to just walk away if she pushes the issue.
C. If I lie and pretend to want a relationship", I am sure the whore will want to see signs of it.
D. I don't see her that often, but around the holidays, I tend to increase the number of visits.

[CJ]

You need to switch gears, I'm not a huge fan of pushing her further away here, because that's going to help confirm her belief that you're not relationship material.

If it were me I'd take advantage of her being more vulnerable around the holidays and hang out more. Fuck, I'd get her to blow me every night! Be a pseudo-couple, just don't act too beta here (I know you won't) and definitely don't go doing anything stupid like buying her a bunch of shit for Christmas. Also, make sure to respond to her asking if you're boyfriend and girlfriend with either a joking, "We're whatever you want us to be." or "Let's not ruin this with silly labels." You could even add, a "We're not getting married tomorrow or anything, right?" Keep pushing that convo off and lie like crazy when you have to, as ElJefe suggested.

Meanwhile, the key is to keep creeping on the side, so you're continually building and fucking other prospects. Then obviously get more and more distant again after the holidays, when her innate emotional need to be with someone starts to subside.

I think if you do this, you'll display your 'good side' long enough to her that she'll always firmly believe that a relationship with you is possible (even though it isn't), and you'll always be able to get her to come back.

[Pusscrook]

(11-10-2011 06:58 PM)CJ Wrote:  

You need to switch gears, I'm not a huge fan of pushing her further away here, because that's going to help confirm her belief that you're not relationship material.

If it were me I'd take advantage of her being more vulnerable around the holidays and hang out more. Fuck, I'd get her to blow me every night! Be a pseudo-couple, just don't act too beta here (I know you won't) and definitely don't go doing anything stupid like buying her a bunch of shit for Christmas. Also, make sure to respond to her asking if you're boyfriend and girlfriend with either a joking, "We're whatever you want us to be." or "Let's not ruin this with silly labels." You could even add, a "We're not getting married tomorrow or anything, right?" Keep pushing that convo off and lie like crazy when you have to, as ElJefe suggested.

Meanwhile, the key is to keep creeping on the side, so you're continually building and fucking other prospects. Then obviously get more and more distant again after the holidays, when her innate emotional need to be with someone starts to subside.

I think if you do this, you'll display your 'good side' long enough to her that she'll always firmly believe that a relationship with you is possible (even though it isn't), and you'll always be able to get her to come back.

Yea, this is a good approach. Good looking out. I need to hang around at least until the new year.

[afronoob]

(11-10-2011 01:05 PM)Pusscrook Wrote:  

So, you have found the best piece of pussy in quite some time and you really don't want her leaving the rotation , but, you, don't want a relationship. She wants to have a serious discussion with you ,because she has fallen in love with you. You need to find a way to keep the pussy in rotation, yet stay out of the arms of love and relationship(which is what she wants).



What would you suggest is the best way to resolve the quagmire you now find yourself in?

I've been there and can only say such a situation can only be MANAGED not handled black and white like getting an f close . How? The way everyone says:distance. Keep her wanting more,yet not close enough to see the real picture. You'd be surprised how long you can keep it going. I had one bitch going for 4 years,though I'd fuck her silly once every 2 weeks,which does help them see what they want to see.

[Jevioso]

(11-10-2011 01:05 PM)Pusscrook Wrote:  

So, you have found the best piece of pussy in quite some time and you really don't want her leaving the rotation , but, you, don't want a relationship. She wants to have a serious discussion with you ,because she has fallen in love with you. You need to find a way to keep the pussy in rotation, yet stay out of the arms of love and relationship(which is what she wants).



What would you suggest is the best way to resolve the quagmire you now find yourself in?

Well, the purpose of a rotation is so you don't have to find yourself in situations like these, where you're fearful of losing a girl. The fact is fear and game don't mix, and if you operate from the pinpoint of fear, ultimately you're going to bring chaos into your life, especially women, because fear is how they gain power over you.

I mean if you're a great liar, then go ahead and lie, just know you're going to be doing this for the rest of time you're with the broad. If not, sometimes you have to upgrade a woman's position in your rotation, you can't have an army, and not upgrade anyone to general, your best soldiers will leave. You might have to give this girl the title of girlfriend or let her in on the fact that you have a rotation, and that if she sticks around she might come up on top one day. But either way, if you're not willing to see this girl leave you, then you're just playing to lose.

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." - Heat

[Timoteo]

If you give her some kind of impression that you are in fact in a relationship, I don't see how you can avoid getting her a little something for Christmas. It can't be some kind of bullshit grab-bag gift like you get for a co-worker, it has to be something somewhat personal, though not expensive. You're gonna have to engage in some gymnastics here.

Even for actual girlfriends, it's important to do the push pull thing, and to keep the hamster spinning. In this instance you'll probably need to do more pushing. How big is your rotation at the moment?

[Pusscrook]

(11-18-2011 11:48 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

If you give her some kind of impression that you are in fact in a relationship, I don't see how you can avoid getting her a little something for Christmas. It can't be some kind of bullshit grab-bag gift like you get for a co-worker, it has to be something somewhat personal, though not expensive. You're gonna have to engage in some gymnastics here.

Even for actual girlfriends, it's important to do the push pull thing, and to keep the hamster spinning. In this instance you'll probably need to do more pushing. How big is your rotation at the moment?

Lost one whore a few months back due to the same thing. 3 in rotation until new years. The lies are getting a bit dated, and I'm sure they will soon run out of patience.