To start off, I've been a lurker for 6 months and am a pretty well educated guy in his early 20s. Got introduced to the Manosphere through Economics blogs and Roissy about two years ago. I do fairly well with girls and would describe my level as "intermediate" as I'd been using game techniques over the years without realizing it.
Met a girl a little over a month ago who I dated for about three weeks, and we hit it off real well. I don't get one-itis, but I liked this one since she was fun, reasonably intelligent and had excellent taste in movies. I could tell her really liked me, and I was doing quite well at not coming across too eager. Halloween night she was a bit drunk and was even quizzing me a bit on why I didn't want to label things and establish our relationship as more serious. I played the conversation off well, explained I thought she was cool but I didn't want to rush into things
We hang out Wednesday, I stay the night at her place for about the 4th time or so. Thursday out of the blue I get a "can we talk text" and she comes over, talks for 15 minutes about how she has some psychological stuff she needs to deal with and can't be with anyone. I say fine, I handle it quite well; also the first time I'd been dumped by a girl I had banged. Sunday we talk on the phone for 30 minutes as I had some things to say since I had been a bit blindsided Thursday and didn't say much, and I basically say I'm not doing the just friends, but I hope everything works out for her. I was over it fine, as that weekend I went out and number closed a cute college girl, and got a notch last night on some girl in town for the weekend.
Tonight I get a text somewhat out of the blue (I sent her a short one yesterday about our alma mater winning a football game, to which she responded and I didn't respond back to) basically saying she misses me, thinks she made a mistake and wants to talk. I'm open to this because I do like her, but how should I go about handling it so that I don't overplay my hand? Never been in this situation before.
Met a girl a little over a month ago who I dated for about three weeks, and we hit it off real well. I don't get one-itis, but I liked this one since she was fun, reasonably intelligent and had excellent taste in movies. I could tell her really liked me, and I was doing quite well at not coming across too eager. Halloween night she was a bit drunk and was even quizzing me a bit on why I didn't want to label things and establish our relationship as more serious. I played the conversation off well, explained I thought she was cool but I didn't want to rush into things
We hang out Wednesday, I stay the night at her place for about the 4th time or so. Thursday out of the blue I get a "can we talk text" and she comes over, talks for 15 minutes about how she has some psychological stuff she needs to deal with and can't be with anyone. I say fine, I handle it quite well; also the first time I'd been dumped by a girl I had banged. Sunday we talk on the phone for 30 minutes as I had some things to say since I had been a bit blindsided Thursday and didn't say much, and I basically say I'm not doing the just friends, but I hope everything works out for her. I was over it fine, as that weekend I went out and number closed a cute college girl, and got a notch last night on some girl in town for the weekend.
Tonight I get a text somewhat out of the blue (I sent her a short one yesterday about our alma mater winning a football game, to which she responded and I didn't respond back to) basically saying she misses me, thinks she made a mistake and wants to talk. I'm open to this because I do like her, but how should I go about handling it so that I don't overplay my hand? Never been in this situation before.
