[ccurtis189]

Anyone else do this? It's fucking fun man. It's also one of the easiest ways to make out with a girl, and you can skip all the bull shitting. Hell, if play your cards by making out with them the whole night it's possible to get them to come home with you. As a newbie myself who's had this work for him I'd recommend it to other newbies. Only problem is I'm not really good at closing, I've only brought a girl home once this way when there were several other occasions where I probably could have pulled if I played my cards right.

[Insignia]

I think it depends what type of club or city this is but I have to agree, getting physical with a girl is definately a great for pulling because it shows that you are alpha and dominant. Once note to add... DO NOT start grind up on the girl from behind because that will creep her out most of the time. Instead I find looking her in the eye and holding her hand and twirling her around is a great way to get the grinding started.

[ccurtis189]

(11-06-2011 01:35 PM)Insignia Wrote:  

I think it depends what type of club or city this is but I have to agree, getting physical with a girl is definately a great for pulling because it shows that you are alpha and dominant. Once note to add... DO NOT start grind up on the girl from behind because that will creep her out most of the time. Instead I find looking her in the eye and holding her hand and twirling her around is a great way to get the grinding started.

Oh yeah definitely. Even though some girls don't mind if a guy behind them starts dancing on them and they go with it. But I usually get behind her and then whisper in her ear 'wanna dance?'. But that works 25% of the time, probably because it's kinda lame. What's weird is most of my successes are when they initiate. I'll either be scoping out the dance floor or dancing by myself and end up making eye contact with a girl and then she just starts dancing with me.

Yeah, and I'm about as non-alpha as they come and I usually spit no game at clubs cause I'm rather shy. But when I hit the dance floor I turn into a fucking beast.

[Batata]

I don't think I have ever actually seen this work for anybody, ever. I thought grabbing a chick and grinding on her with no introduction was phased out of the club scene a while ago.

[bez]

I think this totally depends on the type of music being played and the clientele that frequent the club.
It could easily turn sour real quick, Especially if jealous BF is just at the bar or takin a piss and he comes back to find you trying to 'timberlake' his girl....
That said, approaching on the dancefloor is great fun.
Just pick your targets wisely before you go humping her.(I have seen a DJ jump from the booth to attack a dude humping up on his girl on the dancefloor)

[ccurtis189]

(11-06-2011 09:01 PM)Batata Wrote:  

I don't think I have ever actually seen this work for anybody, ever. I thought grabbing a chick and grinding on her with no introduction was phased out of the club scene a while ago.

Dude, some girls go to bars and clubs to hook up just like guys do, and if she's on the dance floor by herself dancing seductively then more often than not she wants someone to come dance with her. I grind on girls with no introduction all the time.

[azulsombra]

I agree with ccurtis189, this is 100% situational. I've grinded on several women that were complete strangers at the club in 2011, and ended up fingering them on the spot or getting head from them the same night. This works best in places where they play hip-hop and have younger girls obviously.

[Gmac]

(11-06-2011 01:30 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

Anyone else do this? It's fucking fun man.

Is this a serious question?

Game 101.

[Prowl]

What little of this I've done, IMO it's best not to approach from behind, just like with any other approach.

Better when they can see you coming, preferably at an angle, etc. Usual shit applies.


That said, I don't do a lot of dance floor game, so feel free to ignore me.

[Riker]

I wish I was in the US so I could do this.

[ccurtis189]

(11-08-2011 08:06 PM)Riker Wrote:  

I wish I was in the US so I could do this.

Where do you live?

[Riker]

buenos aires

[ccurtis189]

(11-09-2011 05:35 AM)Riker Wrote:  

buenos aires

You mean to tell me Bueno Aires doens't have a club scene? Or does nobody dance suggestively on the dancefloor in Buenos Aires clubs?

[Riker]

(11-09-2011 09:21 AM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

(11-09-2011 05:35 AM)Riker Wrote:  

buenos aires

You mean to tell me Bueno Aires doens't have a club scene? Or does nobody dance suggestively on the dancefloor in Buenos Aires clubs?

There is no grinding unless the girl is already yours or its an American tourist. People dance by themselves or you dance mergengue/salsa style where you twirl the girl around and that shit, no grinding. I had to learn tango to get some sensual dancing in me.

[azulsombra]

Rikers is right. U.S.-style grinding is typically frowned upon in most non-caribbean latin american countries, especially Argentina. Although I did have some success with it in Cordoba with a younger college age crowd.

[ccurtis189]

(11-10-2011 01:02 AM)azulsombra Wrote:  

Rikers is right. U.S.-style grinding is typically frowned upon in most non-caribbean latin american countries, especially Argentina. Although I did have some success with it in Cordoba with a younger college age crowd.

Dude, I wanna go to the Carribean and grind on some Puerto Rican and Dominican chicks! I'll bet they know how to work that ass!!

Do you think Mexicans grind at clubs too? I wouldn't know cause I only went to Cancun which was filled with tourists.

[XXL]

i actually find grinding approach weak cause it's very safe.

you slowly get closer and closer usually from the side or behind simultaneously watching very carefully how she reacts. grinding from behind very often freaks chicks out. it just doesn't have too much potential as it sets dynamic that guy is following instead of leading so it makes her wear the pants in that situation.

but maybe for others it works

[ccurtis189]

(11-11-2011 02:33 PM)XXL Wrote:  

i actually find grinding approach weak cause it's very safe.

you slowly get closer and closer usually from the side or behind simultaneously watching very carefully how she reacts. grinding from behind very often freaks chicks out. it just doesn't have too much potential as it sets dynamic that guy is following instead of leading so it makes her wear the pants in that situation.

but maybe for others it works

That's why you put your hands on her hips man. Then you can control the way you want her to move. Also then you can turn her around, grind your junk against her crotch, grab her butt cheeks, and lift her leg up. That's really taking control, and they love that shit.