[wolf]

What's the point of getting mad at the other guy for kissing/fucking/groping your chick?

I understand a guy tries to kiss or grope her and she pushes him away, most guys don't give a shit if she got a man.

It's not like she was raped, she let it happen(If she lets him kiss/grope/fuck).

Shouldn't this fall entirely on the chick?
Any thoughts?

[Gmac]

What? You lost me.

[wolf]

(11-06-2011 07:13 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

What? You lost me.

Is there a reason to get mad at the other guy when he fucked your girl?

[Gmac]

Need more information buddy. Are we talking about a girl you stopped fucking or what?

[wolf]

(11-06-2011 07:19 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Need more information buddy. Are we talking about a girl you stopped fucking or what?

No, still fucking, if you are in a relationship or married. Is there a point to get mad at other guy if he fucks your gf/wife?

[UrbanNerd]

If he KNOWS you and KNOWS that is your gf/wife then YES, you need to whup his ass.

For a guy who does NOT KNOW you....it's 100% on the female. Her JOB is to make it known that she is off limits.

[Chad Daring]

(11-06-2011 08:21 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

If he KNOWS you and KNOWS that is your gf/wife then YES, you need to whup his ass.

For a guy who does NOT KNOW you....it's 100% on the female. Her JOB is to make it known that she is off limits.

This exactly.

If a man knows you personally its part of the unwritten laws of men not to make a move on his woman

[Basil Ransom]

It's 100% the female either way. She's proven she's a whore no matter who the guy is.

But if the guy knows you, corrective action should be taken with him as well.

Pussy is like money lying on the ground. Can you fault some stranger for taking it when he gets the chance?

[wolf]

(11-06-2011 08:47 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 08:21 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

If he KNOWS you and KNOWS that is your gf/wife then YES, you need to whup his ass.

For a guy who does NOT KNOW you....it's 100% on the female. Her JOB is to make it known that she is off limits.

This exactly.

If a man knows you personally its part of the unwritten laws of men not to make a move on his woman

Interesting.

[wolf]

(11-06-2011 09:24 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

It's 100% the female either way. She's proven she's a whore no matter who the guy is.

But if the guy knows you, corrective action should be taken with him as well.

Pussy is like money lying on the ground. Can you fault some stranger for taking it when he gets the chance?

I was thinking that too, she allows the guy to press on if she doesn't stop him.

[Saladin]

(11-06-2011 08:21 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

If he KNOWS you and KNOWS that is your gf/wife then YES, you need to whup his ass.

For a guy who does NOT KNOW you....it's 100% on the female. Her JOB is to make it known that she is off limits.

Agreed.

I don't care about some random guy's girlfriend and his hurt feelings. This is Toronto and every girl has some beta orbiter "boyfriend" who buys her gifts and drinks.
If its somebody I know then the girl is off limits unless I hate the guy.

[kosko]

(11-06-2011 09:56 PM)torontokid Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 08:21 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

If he KNOWS you and KNOWS that is your gf/wife then YES, you need to whup his ass.

For a guy who does NOT KNOW you....it's 100% on the female. Her JOB is to make it known that she is off limits.

Agreed.

I don't care about some random guy's girlfriend and his hurt feelings. This is Toronto and every girl has some beta orbiter "boyfriend" who buys her gifts and drinks.
If its somebody I know then the girl is off limits unless I hate the guy.

Haha this is so true. Last week this girl I met had 5 of them. I could see there hierarchy and uses just from observing. I was owning shit until I got a whiff of her post dinner-post smoke-post Mill St. beer breath. *barf*

Toronto is a fuked up place man. The majority of my SNL comes from broads who have "boyfriends". I have more trouble picking up single girls then I do committed ones, makes no sense at all.

Bro code must be followed - but women can be snake. I've been on this wrong side of this situation in the past beta days and I say now looking back it was 95% the women fault.

[Parlay44]

(11-06-2011 08:47 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 08:21 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

If he KNOWS you and KNOWS that is your gf/wife then YES, you need to whup his ass.

For a guy who does NOT KNOW you....it's 100% on the female. Her JOB is to make it known that she is off limits.

This exactly.

If a man knows you personally its part of the unwritten laws of men not to make a move on his woman

I'd like to expand on this...

I'm not saying you should pursue it but if you get a chance to fuck your boy's girl and you choose to act on it. It's your duty to let him know about it so she doesn't keep playing him.

I heard through the grapevine one time about a friend hooking up with my girl. His guilty conscience made him confess to a real tight friend of mine. Of course it made it back to me.

I called her out on it saying he admitted it to me. She confessed.

I called him out on it not saying how I knew to protect my source. He denied it.

I said have a nice life to both of them. I'm much better for it.

[ImmoralPsychology]

For guys who are 'friends', yes, it's her responsibility to say no, but he also committed a betrayal. Just cause she said yes doesn't make it alright for him to bang her. Even if she came on to him. Hey, if you lost your wallet at his place, doesn't it make it forgivable for him to empty it? No. Ultimately, it's her that's in the relationship with me, but he, at the very least, would no longer be considered a friend.

For guys you don't know and have never met, I agree that it's the girls responsibility and you simply can't fault the other guy. More than likely, he never even knew you existed. Even if she tells you she told him, she could easily be lying. Do keep in mind, however, that even if you see it this way, most guys (especially the ones bigger than you - LOL) don't and will sometimes attempt to beat you down - or at least talk like they will.

[Smitty]

I'll be honest that if a dude is with a cute bitch, I'll check her out, but I'll at least show the man some respect and not make it obvious. I expect the same when I'm with a cute girl...check her out, but don't make it obvious because then it makes me look like a bitch and I feel more inclined to have to say something.
Black men do this shit a lot when I'm with a hot black girl. They talk all kinds of shit about me out loud because I'm white (I'm Mediterranean you ignorant fucks).

But, if a girl I'm fucking actually fucks another man, then it's completely 100% on her for doing it -- she is always to blame, not the guy. If the guy is your "friend" then you get rid of the dude and completely cut him off. But it's always the woman's fault for fucking someone else.

[Parlay44]

(11-07-2011 07:44 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I'll be honest that if a dude is with a cute bitch, I'll check her out, but I'll at least show the man some respect and not make it obvious. I expect the same when I'm with a cute girl...check her out, but don't make it obvious because then it makes me look like a bitch and I feel more inclined to have to say something.
Black men do this shit a lot when I'm with a hot black girl. They talk all kinds of shit about me out loud because I'm white (I'm Mediterranean you ignorant fucks).

But, if a girl I'm fucking actually fucks another man, then it's completely 100% on her for doing it -- she is always to blame, not the guy. If the guy is your "friend" then you get rid of the dude and completely cut him off. But it's always the woman's fault for fucking someone else.

It's on your friend to fess up before you hear about it through the grapevine. If he mans up and admits what he did ..all is forgiven in my book.

[Riker]

(11-07-2011 07:58 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:44 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I'll be honest that if a dude is with a cute bitch, I'll check her out, but I'll at least show the man some respect and not make it obvious. I expect the same when I'm with a cute girl...check her out, but don't make it obvious because then it makes me look like a bitch and I feel more inclined to have to say something.
Black men do this shit a lot when I'm with a hot black girl. They talk all kinds of shit about me out loud because I'm white (I'm Mediterranean you ignorant fucks).

But, if a girl I'm fucking actually fucks another man, then it's completely 100% on her for doing it -- she is always to blame, not the guy. If the guy is your "friend" then you get rid of the dude and completely cut him off. But it's always the woman's fault for fucking someone else.

It's on your friend to fess up before you hear about it through the grapevine. If he mans up and admits what he did ..all is forgiven in my book.

Aren't your friends doing you a favor if they fuck your chick and tell you? I mean if it wasn't your friend it would have been some other guy and now you know you're with a disloyal girl. Not that I would do it but thinking about it logically you come to this conclusion.

[Gmac]

(11-07-2011 08:08 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:58 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:44 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I'll be honest that if a dude is with a cute bitch, I'll check her out, but I'll at least show the man some respect and not make it obvious. I expect the same when I'm with a cute girl...check her out, but don't make it obvious because then it makes me look like a bitch and I feel more inclined to have to say something.
Black men do this shit a lot when I'm with a hot black girl. They talk all kinds of shit about me out loud because I'm white (I'm Mediterranean you ignorant fucks).

But, if a girl I'm fucking actually fucks another man, then it's completely 100% on her for doing it -- she is always to blame, not the guy. If the guy is your "friend" then you get rid of the dude and completely cut him off. But it's always the woman's fault for fucking someone else.

It's on your friend to fess up before you hear about it through the grapevine. If he mans up and admits what he did ..all is forgiven in my book.

Aren't your friends doing you a favor if they fuck your chick and tell you? I mean if it wasn't your friend it would have been some other guy and now you know you're with a disloyal girl. Not that I would do it but thinking about it logically you come to this conclusion.

No way man, that's totally against man code. If she even comes on to you, tell you tell him (because she's probably doing it with others guys). You don't fuck her and THEN tell him. That's some shit. If he's some random nobody you don't know, who cares? If he's your boy, you don't do him like that.

Exceptions: The friend was off his balls drunk and was legitimately out of control.

[Riker]

(11-07-2011 08:11 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 08:08 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:58 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:44 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I'll be honest that if a dude is with a cute bitch, I'll check her out, but I'll at least show the man some respect and not make it obvious. I expect the same when I'm with a cute girl...check her out, but don't make it obvious because then it makes me look like a bitch and I feel more inclined to have to say something.
Black men do this shit a lot when I'm with a hot black girl. They talk all kinds of shit about me out loud because I'm white (I'm Mediterranean you ignorant fucks).

But, if a girl I'm fucking actually fucks another man, then it's completely 100% on her for doing it -- she is always to blame, not the guy. If the guy is your "friend" then you get rid of the dude and completely cut him off. But it's always the woman's fault for fucking someone else.

It's on your friend to fess up before you hear about it through the grapevine. If he mans up and admits what he did ..all is forgiven in my book.

Aren't your friends doing you a favor if they fuck your chick and tell you? I mean if it wasn't your friend it would have been some other guy and now you know you're with a disloyal girl. Not that I would do it but thinking about it logically you come to this conclusion.

No way man, that's totally against man code. If she even comes on to you, tell you tell him (because she's probably doing it with others guys). You don't fuck her and THEN tell him. That's some shit. If he's some random nobody you don't know, who cares? If he's your boy, you don't do him like that.

Exceptions: The friend was off his balls drunk and was legitimately out of control.

Yea thats true. Thing is if she comes on to you then it can come off as if she was just flirting and the guy might not take it seriously. If you go through with it, well maybe you can just stop after 5 or 10 seconds of kissing and there you have your proof. Thing is it will get messy if she rejects your kiss or whatever.

Anyways bad idea, I guess I'm just keyboard jockeying it up here. My bad. No one do this!

[Smitty]

(11-07-2011 08:11 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 08:08 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:58 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 07:44 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I'll be honest that if a dude is with a cute bitch, I'll check her out, but I'll at least show the man some respect and not make it obvious. I expect the same when I'm with a cute girl...check her out, but don't make it obvious because then it makes me look like a bitch and I feel more inclined to have to say something.
Black men do this shit a lot when I'm with a hot black girl. They talk all kinds of shit about me out loud because I'm white (I'm Mediterranean you ignorant fucks).

But, if a girl I'm fucking actually fucks another man, then it's completely 100% on her for doing it -- she is always to blame, not the guy. If the guy is your "friend" then you get rid of the dude and completely cut him off. But it's always the woman's fault for fucking someone else.

It's on your friend to fess up before you hear about it through the grapevine. If he mans up and admits what he did ..all is forgiven in my book.

Aren't your friends doing you a favor if they fuck your chick and tell you? I mean if it wasn't your friend it would have been some other guy and now you know you're with a disloyal girl. Not that I would do it but thinking about it logically you come to this conclusion.

No way man, that's totally against man code. If she even comes on to you, tell you tell him (because she's probably doing it with others guys). You don't fuck her and THEN tell him. That's some shit. If he's some random nobody you don't know, who cares? If he's your boy, you don't do him like that.

Exceptions: The friend was off his balls drunk and was legitimately out of control.

Agree. There is no forgiveness for a friend who fucks your girl...unless she was just a fuck buddy and you had an 'understanding.' Otherwise, how do you trust the guy after doing something like that?
It's simple: friend fucks your girl, you forget them both.

[JTv1]

(11-06-2011 07:14 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 07:13 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

What? You lost me.

Is there a reason to get mad at the other guy when he fucked your girl?

I've been on both sides. What I learned~

Cheating speaks more to the strength of the relationship than the morals of the person.

If a girl cheats, no reason to get mad at the guy. He's a guy, so of course he's going to want to get his D wet. I'd do the same (unless it was a friend's girl).

Thing is, with facebook, and girls keeping in touch with ex-bfs, you never know...

I know if I was in a relationship with a girl, I would NOT want her hanging out with a guy like me.