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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
06-18-2009, 08:44 AM
Edit : Title of the thread should be "What to do when a guy in the group flat out tells you to go away"
Was in a 12 set the other day. Mixed seated set.
Had been talking to 2 of the girls to my left for about 10 mins and they were perfectly happy with me talking to them and with my presence at the table.
However one of the guys to my right who I had not spoken to up to this point said hey these people at this table are all friends of each other and we don't know you. Go away.
No I know you are supposed to engage / win over the whole group with mixed sets but it literally was not possible. It was a large oblong table of 12 people so there is no way I can speak to them all at once.
How do you deal with it when someone tells you to go away? By the way, the two girls heard him so flat out ignoring him was not an option. Also he was being quite insistent.
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
06-18-2009, 09:48 AM
My first idea would be to indirectly call him out / neutralize him; you want to expose him for being the bitch that he is. This has happened to me before and what I did was I said, "this guy here doesn't like me" but kept talking to them. This shut him up but he was still pissy after that. You need to say it in a patronizing way though, not in an aggressive way, which could lead to the stare down / lets go outside / bloody face fight and drunk tank.
There are other ways to do this, but the key I would think is neutralize or assert yourself over them, for being a social wiener.
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
06-18-2009, 02:10 PM
What about telling the girls ``Does he always tell you who to talk to?`` or ``Oh no, the chaperone is kicking me out.`` Not speaking from personal experience but it seems to me the best way would be for the girls to do the work for you by letting him know that they like you. Maybe you can befriend one of his guy friends as well so it looks like your there to talk to everyone and not just get the girls.
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
06-29-2009, 02:58 PM
why not just take him out back and fight him one on one,
i am a mixed martial artist, so I incorporate that into my game,
if a guy wants to disrespect me, I will kill him (not literally)
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
06-30-2009, 07:38 PM
Beat the guy up. Don´t think it´s the best solution though, but that´s what I would have done. Did it in the past qith an asshole, girls I were with didn´t like it and left.
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
06-30-2009, 10:12 PM
Yeah, if you want her panties wet keep the fighting for those times when she/both of you are threatened (and only if she's your girlfriend). Otherwise it's a no no.
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
07-02-2009, 02:26 PM
Ha. I grew up in Liverpool in the 1970s. That's all the fight training that you need. I have been in a number of fights in my life when self defense was required. I have never lost one.
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You got 20 years on me pal, and how many of these guys did you defeat were actually trained fighters? I train hardcore, im no joke.
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
07-05-2009, 09:28 PM
thegspwarrior9, did you finish high school? I don't know about you, but I have way too much to lose from a fight. I can't help but assume you have a room temperature IQ.
Come and get me now ; )
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What to do when a guy in the flat out tells you to go away
07-07-2009, 11:43 AM
Look most girls just don't care for guys that are looking for a fight. Sure they would like to know that a guy can himself, but outright looking for a fight wins you the douchebag asshole label.
If a guy in a set tells you to go away just be cool about it. If he persists and wants to escalate it's better to just walk away because you sure as hell ain't walking away with the girl if you kick her friend's ass.