[dk902]

Yo guys

I am just interested to hear the thoughts on players here who work long hours and still find time to game girls on the regular?

I haven't got into online dating yet but gonna give it a try soon, as it makes sense when my time is so limited. I exercise nearly every evening also so on many nights it's 8:30-9 before I've finished my evening meal. Obviously i have my weekends, so that's cool and game as normal..

This is not a whine, merely curious as to the strategies of the guys in the same boat.

[Aliblahba]

I spent three months this year working 12 hr days outdoors in 110 degree (43C) weather. The added commute made for a 16 hr workday. Upon returning home, I went upstairs, took a PT shower, and put on the clothes already laid out. I put on rings and necklaces on the elevator ride. My driver was already waiting downstairs. Some nights I got 2 hours sleep. I had to sacrifice reading, guitar, culinary pursuits, working out, and more to make time for the hunt. Was it worth it. Fuck yeah.

It sucked and made for a long next day but I did it for prolonged periods. Pack a lunch and sleep on work breaks. Nap if you take public transportation. If you can hide from the boss and sleep all day. Beetle Bailey ain't got shit on me. Lol.

Point is you can sleep when you die. If your hungry for sex nothing will hold you back.

[MikeCF]

I got lotsa tips.

Main one: day game the fuck out of your lunch break.

If possible, hit up the same coffee shop and lunch places. Look good always. The barista will be on your nuts. Number close them.

If you work a lot, day game is essential.

[el mechanico]

Skip the gym and get all your fitness in throwing girls around on your cock and dancing.
or
You can get a FB that cooks and cleans a few days a week and hit the weekends hard.

I'm not so sure first dates with online girls are good for weekends so once you start you may just want quick meets if time is an issue so you can gauge how DTF they are.

@Ali culinary pursuits lol

[dk902]

(11-02-2011 05:40 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

I got lotsa tips.

Main one: day game the fuck out of your lunch break.

If possible, hit up the same coffee shop and lunch places. Look good always. The barista will be on your nuts. Number close them.

If you work a lot, day game is essential.

Thanks for the tips guys. All good so far, you boys were the main ones I was aiming at, so glad to see you chipped in.

In my line of work...it's not seen to be taking longer than necessary having your lunch, so I can take like 20-30 mins max. It's mostly eat at my desk. Subway game is not the same in London as other cities, people are completely switched off and zoned out after work, girls are nowhere near as receptive on public transport. I will persist though.

I like your style Ali, but I need my sleep and exercise so I'd be dead after a few weeks!

I don't wanna be a live for the weekend guy, however I think that's the sacrifice I'm going to have to make and day game the fuck out of the weekends. Ideal scenario as El Mech says, FB for the weekend and game my ass off on the weekend.

Do you have any more good tips Mike?

[MikeCF]

(11-02-2011 06:15 PM)dk902 Wrote:  

In my line of work...it's not seen to be taking longer than necessary having your lunch, so I can take like 20-30 mins max. It's mostly eat at my desk. Subway game is not the same in London as other cities, people are completely switched off and zoned out after work, girls are nowhere near as receptive on public transport. I will persist though.

So you're in finance or law.

This means your long hours are paying off and you have a little coin.

Do you even find British women attractive?

You need to focus on lifestyle game. How is your apartment decorated? What is your taste in art, food, and wine? Are you a member of your local art museums?

How old are you? Do you work with a younger guy? Any interns? If so, use them to get you into a younger demographic.

[dk902]

Yep you're on the money with the industry Mike.

I'm a young guy - 25 been in the industry since 22 and working my way up so I'm starting to see the benefits but there is still a way off. I don't think I can focus too much on lifestyle game until a few years.

I.e. when I have my own place and can decorate it, expand my tastes into art, wine etc.

Right now my main focuses are lifting weights, career and any spare time I have left I want to try and game. It's just there isn't much left of the latter, hence need to be as shrewd as possible.

Getting into art is something I want to do and I will spend more time getting to know local museums etc, there is never a shortage of that kind of thing in London.

There are interns, but I'm not dipping pen in company ink any time soon.

As for British girls...there is a lot said on here and most of it I agree with. But as many American guys could say there are hot girls about. Same with London, plenty of poontang, just not bountiful like Scandinavia or South America. Also my niche is foreign girls, so I don't really care too much about British girls with their entitlement issues and masculinity.

[ersatz]

I too work a busy schedule. I fit in work outs in the morning where I blast through squats, situps, pushups, kettlebell swings and curls in 15 minutes at home and bike to and from work. I also do a 5 mile loop in the middle of the day too. I know Londoners do commute to work by bike, maybe you can get a foldable and somehow fit that in? I have my evenings free afterwards. You can go to non traditional venues like ballroom dancing classes/clubs (think latin, like salsa) and other such things in the evenings, where there are always more girls than guys. People mix and things actually start at reasonable times in the evening for us employed people. You can get home maybe at 10pm and then hit the sack. It's not get drunk pub and club game, but it's not day game either.

Wakeup -> Workout -> Commute by Bike -> Work -> Change into evening clothing -> Dance Club -> Commute back Home -> Sleep

[Parlay44]

Danger & Play Game for the busy player

[Roosh]

How about taking one month off from the gym and then building a prospect of a few girls that will last you at least a few months.

[ElJefe]

Hi DK... don't know what happened here, but I have a suggestion if you´re still wondering about this.

The gym is a major time-consumer. It's great, but a luxury. Ie., not necessary.

I can give you a home-workout that will help you stay fit and healthy - you won't get big, but strong and fit, yes. It takes you less than 30 minutes in your living room. With a shower, that's about 40 minutes every morning when you wake up and you are fresh as fuck and good to go.

Match this against the time you spend in the gym (probably at least two hours a pop, all things included) and other opportunity costs, then make your choice and you'll feel good no matter that is, as long as it's congruent with your other life-goals.

[dk902]

(01-26-2012 09:29 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  

Hi DK... don't know what happened here, but I have a suggestion if you´re still wondering about this.

The gym is a major time-consumer. It's great, but a luxury. Ie., not necessary.

I can give you a home-workout that will help you stay fit and healthy - you won't get big, but strong and fit, yes. It takes you less than 30 minutes in your living room. With a shower, that's about 40 minutes every morning when you wake up and you are fresh as fuck and good to go.

Match this against the time you spend in the gym (probably at least two hours a pop, all things included) and other opportunity costs, then make your choice and you'll feel good no matter that is, as long as it's congruent with your other life-goals.

El Jefe - thanks for the advice.

I've been fairly successful recently with a gym regime, working long hours, coupled with my public-transport gamed. Which has been honed to a fine art (out of necessity) - it's probably the strongest cold approach venue for me at the moment, such is the practice I get.

My last 5 dates have been from public transport and one from the supermarket. I don't think I could forego lifting weights - I enjoy it too much and love the challenge.

But I'm really interested in your home workout, sounds good for days when I can't go to the gym, off days and times when I don't have access , i.e. travelling. Could you run me through it?

[MMM]

Hey DK, I'm in the same situation, but in New York. I day game the fuck out the NYC subway system, especially since my job requires me to travel frequently by subway, in a suit and tie. One day I'll put up a data sheet on "NYC Subway Game", LOL. I also work the lunch hour when I can. I agree with the suggestion to economize the gym time.

[Deb Auchery]

Easy, I was in a similar cycle to you when I had a job. Work, Gym, Internet Dating, Jerk Off, Sleep.