The hipster niche is one of my strengths (unlike, say, Latin club-hoochies). Without restating what I said in
this previous thread, I'd add a few points:
1. You have to have some degree of unconventionality in your style.
Your look has to be
palatable to these girls. That doesn't mean you have to have a concave chest and no body fat, it just means you have to show that you have some fashion sense beyond the traditional "dude uniform." Something "indie" and off-market--but not douchey--works well. A custom suit or tight, filigreed, studded t-shirt is generally not going to cut it.
2. You need to bring some sharp wit or wry sense of humor.
You can't beat these bitches over the head with your traditional club material. These girls (especially the
authentic hipsters, not just the girls that dress that way to fit in with the scene--a real problem in sizeable hipster enclaves in large American cities), appreciate a subtle joke or observational humor. Yeah, it's annoying that they may try to go toe-to-toe with you, but the better ones will just provide you with the requisite responses and laughter to keep you going and concede your superior ability early on.
3. You have to make your intentions known.
Because of the sizeable beta presence in those communities, these girls are accustomed to a larger-than-average swarm of beta orbiters. Be subtle with your humor, but not subtle with your game. Your angle should be pretty obvious from your contrasting alpha "frame," but keep that caveat in mind as you proceed.
4. Tease a lot, sexualize indirectly.
These girls appreciate a well-placed teasing session. The operative part is
well-placed. You have to remain clever and funny, even if your statements are flirting with mean-spiritedness. If your targets are the real thing, they'll even appreciate being called out on their hipsterism. Don't go out of your way to ridicule their costumes (outfits)--or the "scene"--but subtly dropping the hipster label at some point after building comfort can work. The way to escalate sexually is definitely through clever innuendo and teasing rather than caveman. If your hipster game is tight, this shit gets the panties wet
rapido.
5. Know some shit about indie music, art, fashion, whatever.
Being able to drop some knowledge on some underground music or artist is almost a requirement. It not only gives you cred, it also gives you a smooth segue (if you need it) into something to do together--assuming you don't get her to your place that same day, but frankly even still. Fortunately, this is pretty easy. Know a bar or two with live music in your area and, if you're really on top of your game, who's playing the coming days. It's even better if you "know this one band really well."
