[Docter]

Those who move first, win.

In the event that a gf/fuck buddy/booty call seems to be losing interest, and you are pretty sure she will shortly call it off, would you take the initiative and dump her before she could dump you?

Have any you guys employed this nuclear tactic as a means of reigniting some lost interest? I imagine it is very powerful if used correctly.

Thoughts?

[flyfreshandyoung]

I've found that disappearing without a word (the fade away) sets things up nicely, no need to even dump them. If you sense her withdrawing, just stop talking to her and drop off her planet. In most cases, after a few days she'll try and reconnect after awhile because it's a good enough mind fuck to jolt her system, and you'll have regained hand. Then, it's back like normal. I've strung along quite a few girls like this for very long times, it's very potent.

On the other hand, if she doesn't try to reach out to you after the fade away, then you were toast anyway. Even then, a chance meeting in the future still leaves room to reopen what you had because the fade away is that good. Also done that before.