[charmer]

is it important to play mind games in a game?...cant we be straight forward with our feelings towards women.

[familydude]

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cant we be straight forward with our feelings towards women.

if you're a wuss, no

[eXpatriated]

(05-28-2009 04:40 AM)charmer Wrote:  

is it important to play mind games in a game?...cant we be straight forward with our feelings towards women.

Be real, be confident, be original. If a girl you're trying to pick up is anything close to attractive (especially at a bar full of horny guys) she's getting hit on constantly.

I've had 2 hook-ups in the last month (one I'd say an 8.5, the other a 9) and am working on my third this weekend. I don't believe in mindgames. I've told both girls before it got to the bedroom not to expect me to stop seeing other people. PLUS-you play mindgames with an attractive girl, you're fucking yourself when she goes back and tells her friends what a dick you are. Just my opinion-others may disagree.

[InternationPlayboy]

If you are really into a girl, don't let her know it. You can't always be straight foward. You always want to have the upper hand. If she knows you are crazy about her, she already got what she wants, so why bother staying with you. At least for the first couple months that is, and if you are talking about looking for a relationship, which it sounds like you are. If not, and you are just talking about a one night stand, yeah, let the girl know you are interested, but you have to do it in the right way.