So this girl flakes on me this past week with no make up plans of her own. I think no big deal and stop pursuing her in any way, ceasing texting with her. Pretty standard stuff.
Out of nowhere she ends up texting me early Sunday morning about how she can’t sleep and we have a short meaningless conversation because her text woke me up and I couldn’t think for shit. Texts below
My question is what is the best way to reel a girl back in after she flakes and you ignore her until she tries to get your attention again and how you can tell when their attention even warrants another attempt at courting or if they’ve decided to just try to keep you around for a friend.
Normally I could make that distinction easily enough myself but this girl is overly enthusiastic in her texts with smilies and shit but I know that she’s like that with pretty much everyone. She’s always extremely touchy with IOIs galore and if she didn’t have a boyfriend I would’ve approached her in a direct manner long ago.
(first text since she flaked)
Her: -, I can’t sleep.
Me: Why? I’m in bed and damn comfortable
Her: I’m in bed too but I’m surfing the internet and… can’t sleep.
Me: To tell the truth I was asleep but you woke me. Now it’s your job to entertain me
Her: omg sorry, -
Me: I said it was fine if you entertained me but now I’m just going back to sleep
Her: Haha then I’ll just say goodnight and sweet dreams
What the hell was she trying to accomplish here?
Out of nowhere she ends up texting me early Sunday morning about how she can’t sleep and we have a short meaningless conversation because her text woke me up and I couldn’t think for shit. Texts below
My question is what is the best way to reel a girl back in after she flakes and you ignore her until she tries to get your attention again and how you can tell when their attention even warrants another attempt at courting or if they’ve decided to just try to keep you around for a friend.
Normally I could make that distinction easily enough myself but this girl is overly enthusiastic in her texts with smilies and shit but I know that she’s like that with pretty much everyone. She’s always extremely touchy with IOIs galore and if she didn’t have a boyfriend I would’ve approached her in a direct manner long ago.
(first text since she flaked)
Her: -, I can’t sleep.
Me: Why? I’m in bed and damn comfortable
Her: I’m in bed too but I’m surfing the internet and… can’t sleep.
Me: To tell the truth I was asleep but you woke me. Now it’s your job to entertain me
Her: omg sorry, -
Me: I said it was fine if you entertained me but now I’m just going back to sleep
Her: Haha then I’ll just say goodnight and sweet dreams
What the hell was she trying to accomplish here?