Thought this was worth a separate thread.
I broke up with my LTR back in Feb and spent the last three months focusing on myself -- fitness, meditation, reading, working on my job, spending time with family and friends. I recently got an injury doing BJJ and found myself with tons of free time, so I ended up back on Tinder out of a lack of anything better to do.
Over three weeks I've matched with ~400 girls (great rate IMO), probably got ~20 numbers, and gone on a grand total of two dates. To me this seems like a really low conversion and I'm wondering whether this is usual. I'm not sure if anyone else gets a ton of matches like this and then gets extreme flakiness when pushing for the meeting.
What's even weirder is that a ton of these girls will show a lot of initial interest. Super liking me, messaging me first, straight up complementing me. I had a girl straight up tell me that I was hot and that she wanted something casual with me and then ghosted (???).
I do have one more date scheduled for Wednesday. In three weeks of Tinder I have one hookup with a 6/10 Asian girl, fingered her through her panties in the outdoors. I'm pretty confused about this result...it's honestly really weird that I've gotten this much initial interest and this low of a return.
Is this kind of a hit rate typical for Tinder?
I broke up with my LTR back in Feb and spent the last three months focusing on myself -- fitness, meditation, reading, working on my job, spending time with family and friends. I recently got an injury doing BJJ and found myself with tons of free time, so I ended up back on Tinder out of a lack of anything better to do.
Over three weeks I've matched with ~400 girls (great rate IMO), probably got ~20 numbers, and gone on a grand total of two dates. To me this seems like a really low conversion and I'm wondering whether this is usual. I'm not sure if anyone else gets a ton of matches like this and then gets extreme flakiness when pushing for the meeting.
What's even weirder is that a ton of these girls will show a lot of initial interest. Super liking me, messaging me first, straight up complementing me. I had a girl straight up tell me that I was hot and that she wanted something casual with me and then ghosted (???).
I do have one more date scheduled for Wednesday. In three weeks of Tinder I have one hookup with a 6/10 Asian girl, fingered her through her panties in the outdoors. I'm pretty confused about this result...it's honestly really weird that I've gotten this much initial interest and this low of a return.
Is this kind of a hit rate typical for Tinder?