Finished work early today and decided to go into the city to buy some new t-shirts,underwear,browse a couple bookstores and make myself approach at least one girl on the street.
It was an overcast day with occasional showers,so not exactly a happy vibe out there.
I noticed that most of the women on the street seemed to be in a hurry.
I'll be totally honest here...today i was very nervous.I dont know why but i was.
I had done a few laps of the main shopping areas and just could not make myself approach cold on the street.
I decided to go and have one drink to calm the nerves at a pretty trendy bar that i sometimes go to on the weekends(usually always cute girls there,even during the day as they serve classy brunch/lunch/nibbles before the afterwork drinkers/party people roll in)
Ghost-town.one scotch and dry and back to hit the pavement.
Two more laps and i did not even seen a single girl i would actually want to bang let alone talk to.
I decided today was not my day and headed to the train station to go home.
There is a cute blonde that works in a salon on the corner of my street and i noticed she was there today as i walked past.
Walked home and felt pretty disappointed in myself for not even trying one approach so i thought "fuck this,pick your nuts up and go and talk to the blonde"
I changed and walked back down there with a rough strategy in mind but they had closed for the day and had left.
My question is:
Are some days just bad days for approaches or was i just being a pussy?
Was it the weather?
Im confused,i felt loads of confidence yesterday and approached a couple girls that didnt turn into numbers or anything but it felt good and easy to just step to them.
It was an overcast day with occasional showers,so not exactly a happy vibe out there.
I noticed that most of the women on the street seemed to be in a hurry.
I'll be totally honest here...today i was very nervous.I dont know why but i was.
I had done a few laps of the main shopping areas and just could not make myself approach cold on the street.
I decided to go and have one drink to calm the nerves at a pretty trendy bar that i sometimes go to on the weekends(usually always cute girls there,even during the day as they serve classy brunch/lunch/nibbles before the afterwork drinkers/party people roll in)
Ghost-town.one scotch and dry and back to hit the pavement.
Two more laps and i did not even seen a single girl i would actually want to bang let alone talk to.
I decided today was not my day and headed to the train station to go home.
There is a cute blonde that works in a salon on the corner of my street and i noticed she was there today as i walked past.
Walked home and felt pretty disappointed in myself for not even trying one approach so i thought "fuck this,pick your nuts up and go and talk to the blonde"
I changed and walked back down there with a rough strategy in mind but they had closed for the day and had left.
My question is:
Are some days just bad days for approaches or was i just being a pussy?
Was it the weather?
Im confused,i felt loads of confidence yesterday and approached a couple girls that didnt turn into numbers or anything but it felt good and easy to just step to them.