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03-25-2019, 08:26 PM
I have been approaching for some time and I noticed that venues have trade-offs between the number of cute girls vs difficulty of getting convos.
For example, the street has the most quantity, but it's the most difficult. I've timed it in NY and you can see a 7+ by herself every 4-5 minutes. The downside for me is that the conversion ratio is super low on the street.
On the other hand, on clothing stores, most girls open and they will give you a grace period to display your personality. I've also timed it, and you can approach one cute girl every 20-30 minutes.
Taking into account (1) the conversion ratio and (2) the number of girls, what is the most efficient venue if we want to invest X amount of time for gaming?
If this question is too complicated, maybe there are venues we should definitely avoid?
Also, if you think efficiency is a combination of venue + style (direct/indirect), please share your thoughts too.
I don't care how much effort it is, I'm willing to go for anything, but I want to make the most efficient use of my time.
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03-26-2019, 12:30 AM
Quote: (03-25-2019 08:26 PM)Arkania Wrote:
I have been approaching for some time and I noticed that venues have trade-offs between the number of cute girls vs difficulty of getting convos.
For example, the street has the most quantity, but it's the most difficult. I've timed it in NY and you can see a 7+ by herself every 4-5 minutes. The downside for me is that the conversion ratio is super low on the street.
On the other hand, on clothing stores, most girls open and they will give you a grace period to display your personality. I've also timed it, and you can approach one cute girl every 20-30 minutes.
Taking into account (1) the conversion ratio and (2) the number of girls, what is the most efficient venue if we want to invest X amount of time for gaming?
If this question is too complicated, maybe there are venues we should definitely avoid?
Also, if you think efficiency is a combination of venue + style (direct/indirect), please share your thoughts too.
I don't care how much effort it is, I'm willing to go for anything, but I want to make the most efficient use of my time.
I'm trying to figure this out myself. The problem with stores/malls is that it's private property so if someone is a hater they can just use the power dynamic to ban you etc. I had it happen to me finally after pillaging this one store for 10 years.
I like street but yeah NYC can be very cold/rainy so probably rough I'd imagine.
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03-26-2019, 02:38 AM
I personally have good experience from approaching on University campuses. Not sure how the situation is in the US, but here in Australia the campuses have no access restrictions, so I just go there despite not being a student (even had sex on the campus). Quite some 7+ (except in the Gender Studies department...). I also noticed that the girls have often lot's of time on their hands, which makes them more responsive to an approach.
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03-26-2019, 03:22 AM
How about a park? Sure, parks are only an option if the weather is good, but very often you will find single girls, reading books and nobody who is in a hurry. The perfect spot for daygame beginners in my point of view!
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03-26-2019, 03:23 PM
The bus or train, with a few caveats.
In a major city, only go for tourists, if you're a foreigner then you're usually golden if you're from a "respected" country. I ask girls for their opinion on "pictures of the city". I always have some pictures of the city, that I have in a message going to my friend. I say something like, "Hey, I'm sending my buddy pictures to get him excited to come here for his birthday next month. What do you think of these?" (they're always dope pics from instagram accounts that take pictures of said city.) If I do it in a really "chill" way I've never once not gotten a positive response, (except for NYC and London!)
This opens a million things to start talking about. Also, it works 10x better if you start the conversation in the local langauage (speak it badly, but confidently,) then stop mid sentence and say "You understand English right?"
I did it for the first time this one day, I sincerely wanted advice on the picture I was gonna send to my friend. The response was so surprisingly positive I did it again the next day... and then the next... and the next...
IDK if it's for everyone. My Latino friend with tight game tried it once, he went in kinda macho and the girl closed down real quick. I think if you can fake that you're genuine, and you don't have alternative motives, most chicks aren't gonna blow you off. Just remember to act more interested in the picture than her.
The downside is this requires taking certain buses lol. You need to do it on the 15 minute bus from the center to the "corpo district" or any sort of line that will be 1) a little crowded so that you don't look like a fool walking across an empty bus, but not too crowded so that you can hardly hear each other / the girl feels other people are listening and judging. and 2) a line where most people get on at one stop, and off at the other, (Warsaw has the perfect bus for this.)
If there's an easier way than this, enlighten me. I've never gotten such a ridiculously high success ratio anywhere except maybe on a cruise ship or spring break.
I can't believe I've never heard anyone else talk about this.
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03-26-2019, 03:54 PM
Imo any place with a lot of foot traffic is ideal. Outdoor dayclubs are excellent - you can literally stand with a group of friends and pull women in who walk past you. Although obviously these don't exist everywhere. I think you have to live in a major city to be able to run day game.
I've heard that Patrice O'Neal used to stand around in NYC (probably Times Square) for hours talking to a friend or w/e and he would comment on girls as they walked by and they'd be instantly drawn in.
This is just me but I really hate doing approaches in quiet areas where you have to "scan" around a lot.
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03-26-2019, 05:23 PM
Quote: (03-26-2019 03:54 PM)Batman_ Wrote:
Patrice O'Neal used to stand around in NYC (probably Times Square) for hours talking to a friend or w/e and he would comment on girls as they walked by and they'd be instantly drawn in.
Patrice was the man. I do recall him commenting on street approaches saying that it was doable but difficult. Logistics matter after all, and if someones walking past especially quickly as they do in cities it's hard to pull off the street. Not saying it can't be done, I just find it odd walking around the street on my looking for someone to talk to. Anytime I've had success with this I was always in a pair. If you have a mate who's down I would suggest bringing him along. Worst comes to worse you end up walking round bullshitting with your friend.
Personally I think book stores work very well as far as day gaming goes. A lot of people browse when they go to book stores even when they have a specific book in mind. This works to your advantage as you won't arouse any suspicion staying there for a long time. And likely she won't be in a rush either. Ideally find one close to a university, for obvious reasons. If there's a university guaranteed there will be a bookstore within a few blocks.
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03-27-2019, 04:56 PM
In NYC I'd say it's Central Park/bookstores/supermarket are super easy to find and chat up hot girls. Most will be receptive, if they're not just roll off to the next one.
Plenty of hot 18-25 chicks in bookstores in Manhattan.
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03-29-2019, 07:50 AM
The answers are good but none try to quantify the efficiency. I believe the question should have been more precise, meaning: efficient in terms of foot traffic and the number of possible approaches or efficient in terms of probability of obtaining contact details (or instadate or even more)? Depending on the question, the answer will be different.
In sheer numbers, Primark during weekend sale will have the highest number of young (sometimes too young) girls per square meter. The girls are not going anywhere, rain outside doesn't matter, the only problem is security. Due to the last one, it's more of a "hit and run" venue. After half an hour, buying nothing and talking to girls you will look suspect. Next, in the same vein, there are the typical young girls' fashion shops, e.g., Zara, H&M and the like. If they are located in a mall, all the better. Thus, no rocket science, part of the mall with female clothing shops and areas around them, on a weekend day, is your best shot for quantity but you need to do it solo - a group of giggling (yes, giggling) 4 under-dressed guys catches the staff and security attention in no time. There's a skill to do the approaches smoothly.
In probability numbers, I would say the more specific venue, the higher the chance you have something in common - a particular section in a bookstore can make an easy, indirect approach possible, especially as the girl isn't going anywhere. A fancy coffee shop comes close, but because you'll be static, it's more of a luck than anything else, unless it's a high traffic coffee shop. If you position yourself well, you may have a chance to talk to a few girls but because traffic is so much lower, you may have a very good day followed by all mums and grandmas day. But if you stop for coffee anyway, you may on the off chance be in a position to score one lazy approach for free.
Let's not forget museums in big cities - they can be a goldmine on a rainy day for tourists but you need to bring up to speed same day lays. Very frequently the girls I talked to in museums, they chose it as their last attraction to see before leaving, thus it was sometimes literally hours - never succeeded past instadate with a girl due to leave in a few hours - you'll have to be probably some 1k approaches in, with a couple same day delay lays to pull it off.
Anyway, what I wanted to highlight, thinking correctly and learning the city flow, you can identify best possible logistics for a particular city. There are some universals, I've mentioned above but bear in mind, each city in each country will have its idiosyncrasies and identifying them, will increase the odds of success. No need to limit yourself just to a crowded street with fast walking people. This can be a bad choice in many cases.
Overall, there is a great skill in logistical assessment and choice as well as identifying a high probability lead. Just to master the two, you'll need 500-1000 hours being out and about, discounting approaches.
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03-29-2019, 09:40 AM
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I personally have good experience from approaching on University campuses. Not sure how the situation is in the US, but here in Australia the campuses have no access restrictions, so I just go there despite not being a student (even had sex on the campus). Quite some 7+ (except in the Gender Studies department...). I also noticed that the girls have often lot's of time on their hands, which makes them more responsive to an approach.
There are no women in Gender Studies that could break a 4 either for looks or personality. Even if they are hot as fuck they will have a shit attitude.
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03-29-2019, 10:16 AM
Public transport, when it is not too loud yet crowded so that she cannot leave you easily
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03-30-2019, 10:15 AM
I keep telling guys that museums are an overlooked resource. In big cities like NYC and Philly you get tons of tourists and locals. Go around lunchtime on a Sat or Fri nite and go for the instadate.
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04-01-2019, 08:19 PM
Nothing will ever beat a direct street approach rightly done... ever! I used to be categorically against direct street Game... but when I started doing it... The Humongous attraction spike it creates right off the bat allows you to get ahead with a lower quality of Game. Every player should at least be doing DayGame Or NightGame in my book, even if it's only a Side Dish to Online Game.
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04-01-2019, 08:24 PM
-Museums
-Art shows
-Popular public urban parks
-High end shopping malls
-Well regarded coffee shops with university aged girls or cute hipster girls
-university campuses