Quote: (01-26-2019 10:22 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:
Remember kids, its really fucking easy to be that popular small scale Dan Bilzerian, so fucking easy kids. Just friend zone those lasses and you're on your way. Its as easy as 1, 2 and fucking 3 kids. Take it from me! Ignore any book that teaches social dynamics as well as any channels that do, its as easy as ribbing other dudes and friendzoning women.
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But honestly OP, for your own well-being, follow Distant Light religiously. Distant Light has the best content on this board when it comes to social circle game and has walked the walked.
It is no doubt a long process for guys who were not one of the cool kids growing up and instead went the lone wolf approach machine route. I have found a lot of this does come down to your circumstances in your most social years and the people you run into.
You're taking the piss, but I'll take the bait since your mindset comes off as bitter and it poisons your advice.
I was a loner through high school and have vivid memories of people talking hard core shit behind my back.
I ended up having to date girls outside my school because I had such a horrible reputation.
Remember collegeacb.com ? Probably not so let me enlighten you, it was 4chan for anonymous college gossip. The site didn't last past 2010, but I ended up finding some horrific shit mentioned about me on there. Talking like 5 pages of my failed approaches splayed out for everyone to see.
You want to know why I had a crappy reputation in high school and college?
Because I had that same lone wolf attitude that you do. I would cold approach women without shame and had shitty game. You know what happens when you cold approach women in small towns and colleges with under 8k people and come off spergy?
They talk shit and that spreads. People know you before you even say hello. Good luck working with that.
Once I got out of these craptacular places, I changed my mindset. Still got 36 notches over 8 years before marriage so at least have something to show for it.
Any who, Social circle game is less "48 laws of power" and more ," win friends and influence people"
Heck on this forum, there's a thread by Roosh called, "Be More Beta". The point is the same, defer your own needs to the group. Within reason of course. Don't be a push over but don't be a super alpha dick .
People deal with assholes everyday . Really, being nice and respectful works if winning in a social circle is what you want.
Your charisma on demand book is a good start, but the other stuff is overkill and unneccessary. If OP is successfully bedding women from cold approaches, social circle game is easy. It's like learning to swim in 4ft of water after mastering deep sea diving!
OP: what are your real issues that you're trying to overcome?