I recently had another good friend that has dropped off the face of the earth after having met “the one”.
What used to be a reciprocal relationship of equal effort, has turned into a one-sided dynamic where I’m doing all the work of staying in touch and setting up plans (only to be rebuffed 80% of the time).
It’s quite frustrating because this is a pattern I see repeated over and over again amongst many of my friends (This particular friend did the exact same thing couple years back when we were in college).
At this point, I’m planning on putting minimal effort into maintaining the relationship, but I wonder how do you guys deal with this? Do you make a big deal out of it through a confrontation or just move on accepting it as a fact of life?
What used to be a reciprocal relationship of equal effort, has turned into a one-sided dynamic where I’m doing all the work of staying in touch and setting up plans (only to be rebuffed 80% of the time).
It’s quite frustrating because this is a pattern I see repeated over and over again amongst many of my friends (This particular friend did the exact same thing couple years back when we were in college).
At this point, I’m planning on putting minimal effort into maintaining the relationship, but I wonder how do you guys deal with this? Do you make a big deal out of it through a confrontation or just move on accepting it as a fact of life?