[lifecrisis]

So i met this guy through mutual friends. I knew him before, we went to the same high school, but we never really spoke until now. We started talking more and he seemed to have some basic knowledge about game and pickup, so i quickly formed a bond with him and we started hitting clubs running night game every weekend. People would see me with him and often when i was out alone asked me "where's George today?" (let's call him that for the story).

So they started associating me with him. George is a short guy, below average style and average looks - so nothing special. I always got more attention than him but he was good at sweet talking and was good at manipulating girls. We had different game styles but despite that had success together.

One night i introduce him to my main social circle (a bunch of beautiful girls in it which i have befriended through going out a lot prior to meeting this guy). They take a liking to George, he seems normal at first. Few weeks into all of this i start dating one of the girls in this social circle. One that he had his eyes on for a long time but couldn't manage to attract. I feel like he got butthurt or upset that i got the best one and he couldn't so he cut contact to me eventually. After 2 weeks he messaged me saying we should go out again, and we should pick up where we left, and that he didn't care i was with this girl.

Suddenly a chain of disgusting events happen. He sends a pic on messenger to the girl im dating saying "im cleaning up my closet, do you need this shirt?" taken in a mirror and showing his erect dick next to the shirt. She panics and sends me this picture. Im shocked, didn't know how to react. This was the guy that was supposed to be my "friend". Now the whole social circle knows about this event. The girl im dating told me the group tells her to stop seeing me and that i have some weirdo ass friends and creeps as friends. I was so god damn embarrassed. At first i was so pissed off i wanted to meet up with him to beat the shit out of him, but i thought rationally and didn't want to go the illegal route.

Not only this, the guy got in court for a rape attempt on a younger girl THE same week this happened and it was in the newspaper. I dont know if he got convicted or not, i cut contact immediately after i heard this. I live in a small town so everyone knows each other. This piece of shit tarnished my reputation. Now im associated with a rapist and a guy who sends dick pics to girls. How should i handle this situation?

[Zoso]

Make the girl report him for harassment and show your total dissatisfaction with what he did.
I think he tries to sink you or spoil your current social circle as revenge, or something like that. It has been a total lack of respect and / or envy.
I would never contact him again.

[spydersuit]

(01-16-2019 05:09 PM)lifecrisis Wrote:  

So i met this guy through mutual friends. I knew him before, we went to the same high school, but we never really spoke until now. We started talking more and he seemed to have some basic knowledge about game and pickup, so i quickly formed a bond with him and we started hitting clubs running night game every weekend. People would see me with him and often when i was out alone asked me "where's George today?" (let's call him that for the story).

So they started associating me with him. George is a short guy, below average style and average looks - so nothing special. I always got more attention than him but he was good at sweet talking and was good at manipulating girls. We had different game styles but despite that had success together.

One night i introduce him to my main social circle (a bunch of beautiful girls in it which i have befriended through going out a lot prior to meeting this guy). They take a liking to George, he seems normal at first. Few weeks into all of this i start dating one of the girls in this social circle. One that he had his eyes on for a long time but couldn't manage to attract. I feel like he got butthurt or upset that i got the best one and he couldn't so he cut contact to me eventually. After 2 weeks he messaged me saying we should go out again, and we should pick up where we left, and that he didn't care i was with this girl.

Suddenly a chain of disgusting events happen. He sends a pic on messenger to the girl im dating saying "im cleaning up my closet, do you need this shirt?" taken in a mirror and showing his erect dick next to the shirt. She panics and sends me this picture. Im shocked, didn't know how to react. This was the guy that was supposed to be my "friend". Now the whole social circle knows about this event. The girl im dating told me the group tells her to stop seeing me and that i have some weirdo ass friends and creeps as friends. I was so god damn embarrassed. At first i was so pissed off i wanted to meet up with him to beat the shit out of him, but i thought rationally and didn't want to go the illegal route.

Not only this, the guy got in court for a rape attempt on a younger girl THE same week this happened and it was in the newspaper. I dont know if he got convicted or not, i cut contact immediately after i heard this. I live in a small town so everyone knows each other. This piece of shit tarnished my reputation. Now im associated with a rapist and a guy who sends dick pics to girls. How should i handle this situation?

Get over it.

1. You don't know whether or not he was convicted of rape or not, so you can't call the guy a rapist.

2. I send dick pics to girls all the time. Its a gamble and it works on some women and not on others. In any case its just a dick, and why the fuck did this girl forward you the dick pic? Are you her white knight?

3. Are you even banging this girl? Or, are you in a relationship with her? In either case, you better get used to dudes sending women that you like dick pics as it happens on a regular basis.

Here is some advice: Deny. Deny. Deny. Then, attack this girl in the social circle for being such a cunt and making false accusations about you. If you really want to blow her out of the water, then publicly slut shame her in the social circle and say that she gave someone an STD. Basically, be a man and don't allow this bitch to control your social circle.

[spydersuit]

(01-16-2019 05:17 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

Make the girl report him for harassment and show your total dissatisfaction with what he did.
I think he tries to sink you or spoil your current social circle as revenge, or something like that. It has been a total lack of respect and / or envy.
I would never contact him again.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Another white knight...

[Zoso]

(01-16-2019 05:21 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  

(01-16-2019 05:17 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

Make the girl report him for harassment and show your total dissatisfaction with what he did.
I think he tries to sink you or spoil your current social circle as revenge, or something like that. It has been a total lack of respect and / or envy.
I would never contact him again.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Another white knight...

In my culture, harassment is more socially accepted than in yours.

IDGAF about the girl, but about the reputation of the guy.
If that excludes him from being qualified as creepy or weirdo, then why not?

[spydersuit]

(01-16-2019 05:25 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

(01-16-2019 05:21 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  

(01-16-2019 05:17 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

Make the girl report him for harassment and show your total dissatisfaction with what he did.
I think he tries to sink you or spoil your current social circle as revenge, or something like that. It has been a total lack of respect and / or envy.
I would never contact him again.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Another white knight...

In my culture, harassment is more socially accepted than in yours.

IDGAF about the girl, but about the reputation of the guy.
If that excludes him from being qualified as creepy or weirdo, then why not?

What are you talking about?

Did you read my last two posts?

[spydersuit]

(01-16-2019 05:25 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

(01-16-2019 05:21 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  

(01-16-2019 05:17 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

Make the girl report him for harassment and show your total dissatisfaction with what he did.
I think he tries to sink you or spoil your current social circle as revenge, or something like that. It has been a total lack of respect and / or envy.
I would never contact him again.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Another white knight...

In my culture, harassment is more socially accepted than in yours.

IDGAF about the girl, but about the reputation of the guy.
If that excludes him from being qualified as creepy or weirdo, then why not?

OP: Do not listen to this person's post. It is terrible advice and will frame you as a bitch in your social circle.

[Anchor Man]

Dude, I guess you are young .
Own it, my friend . Yes, you were a friend with guy who didn’t turn out to be the best guy ever . So what .
Actually, I have been and am still friend with a guy who got convicted and went to prison for dating minor . I speak about him publicly and tell them a friend who did so and so . I say I know ppl from different directions of life to Lrean from their experience

[doc holliday]

Whatever you do, I wouldn't follow spydersuit's advice. I'd cut the guy out of my life.

[Zoso]

(01-16-2019 05:18 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  

1. You don't know whether or not he was convicted of rape or not, so you can't call the guy a rapist.

2. I send dick pics to girls all the time. Its a gamble and it works on some women and not on others. In any case its just a dick, and why the fuck did this girl forward you the dick pic? Are you her white knight?

3. Are you even banging this girl? Or, are you in a relationship with her? In either case, you better get used to dudes sending women that you like dick pics as it happens on a regular basis.

Here is some advice: Deny. Deny. Deny. Then, attack this girl in the social circle for being such a cunt and making false accusations about you. If you really want to blow her out of the water, then publicly slut shame her in the social circle and say that she gave someone an STD. Basically, be a man and don't allow this bitch to control your social circle.

Ok ok. I didn't.

I take care of what I said and I think that with this post it makes more sense than what I said.

[Zoso]

(01-16-2019 05:40 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Whatever you do, I wouldn't follow spydersuit's advice. I'd cut the guy out of my life.

Although I think this advice is the most successful. As I said, I would do the same. I would never contact him again.

[Screemingdead]

I personally would've gave him a beating.

[durangotang]

Cut the guy out of your life, quit freaking out about gossip or dick pics (that’s a females mindset), and move to a city.

[kaotic]

Your friend doesn't respect the bro code.

He was trying to swoop on a girl you were spitting game at. He lost that game and should've accepted it, gave you props, and moved onto another girl in the group.

If he indeed sent your girl (seeing/dating/banging) a dick pic, that's a desperate low move.

If he did it to this chick, don't you think he'd do this to other girls you're talking to or dating?

There's a HUGE difference between a random dude sending a girl you're talking to a dick pic, and a friend of yours doing that.


A buddy of yours and a wing man NEVER takes these kind of actions, and you don't need these type of dudes in your life.

[Jetset]

I don't think *you* need to handle this situation at all.

If this guy really is having multiple blowouts with people at once, including legal trouble, it's very possible that he has a mental illness and that's all the more reason to keep your distance from his meltdown.

[Vincent Chase]

Lol cut him out of your life and that is that.

No need for all the drama.

[RWIsrael]

So my man, is your "friend" actually you? Did you send the dick pic?

You can tell us.


If not then yeah, don't stress too much over it, cut weirdos out of your life and don't give a shit what some bitch said behind your back.

Your reputation is either totally ruined or nobody really cares. Don't beg to be let back into the social circle and certainly don't talk about the issue unless someone else brings it up.

[spydersuit]

Durangotang. Exactly.

OP. At least fight back, if you choose to stay in the social circle and someone brings it up. Especially a woman or a white knight. Don’t let these women or bitch men in your social circle manipulate you.

[JackinMelbourne]

Just take control of your own shit, that's all you can do. Cut him off and if your social group brings it up, own up to not knowing that the guy was like that.

What more can you honestly do?

[ShuaiGe]

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[mona2200]

(01-16-2019 05:40 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Whatever you do, I wouldn't follow spydersuit's advice. I'd cut the guy out of my life.

Fella, I surmise you are youthful .

Claim it, my companion . Truly, you were a companion with fellow who didn't end up being the best person ever . So what .

All things considered, I have been am still companion with a person who got sentenced and went to jail for dating minor . I talk about him openly and reveal to them a companion who did as such thus . I state I know ppl from various bearings of life to Lrean from their experience

[mona2200]

(01-18-2019 07:47 AM)ShuaiGe Wrote:  

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Just take control of your own shit, that's all you can do. Cut him off and if your social group brings it up, own up to not knowing that the guy was like that.

What more can you honestly do?

[ducktails]

Not sure, if you still want advice on this matter.

But, hey dude, you seem young. Fact is, you hang out with him, so own that.

The reaction of the group is normal. If a friend started dating a chick, who had a reputation for just dating guys for money or who had some STD, as a real friend I would warn him, too.

Question: Do you like the chick? Is the group important?
If so, do damage control! How you do that? Simple.
Let her in on the fact that this dude was interested in her and got pissed at you and her for not succeeding, so he wanted to screw you both. This is effective two ways: she will feel close to you for being open (girls dig that) and she gets the feeling you were a victim of this as well, so you are a team. Ah, and since you at it. It does not hurt, to enfatize, that you wanted to hit the guy for his behaviour and since you got report of his rape accusation you cut the contact and want nothing to do with him and you are as shocked by it as the rest of the group. Why is this effective? Well, girls dig shining knights, who take care of them/their problems and have integrity. And you bet, she will forward the info to the rest of the group.
If you do not like her or the group: Screw it and live with it!

[dream100]

(01-16-2019 05:09 PM)lifecrisis Wrote:  

So i met this guy through mutual friends. I knew him before, we went to the same high school, but we never really spoke until now. We started talking more and he seemed to have some basic knowledge about game and pickup, so i quickly formed a bond with him and we started hitting clubs running night game every weekend. People would see me with him and often when i was out alone asked me "where's George today?" (let's call him that for the story).

So they started associating me with him. George is a short guy, below average style and average looks - so nothing special. I always got more attention than him but he was good at sweet talking and was good at manipulating girls. We had different game styles but despite that had success together.

One night i introduce him to my main social circle (a bunch of beautiful girls in it which i have befriended through going out a lot prior to meeting this guy). They take a liking to George, he seems normal at first. Few weeks into all of this i start dating one of the girls in this social circle. One that he had his eyes on for a long time but couldn't manage to attract. I feel like he got butthurt or upset that i got the best one and he couldn't so he cut contact to me eventually. After 2 weeks he messaged me saying we should go out again, and we should pick up where we left, and that he didn't care i was with this girl.

Suddenly a chain of disgusting events happen. He sends a pic on messenger to the girl im dating saying "im cleaning up my closet, do you need this shirt?" taken in a mirror and showing his erect dick next to the shirt. She panics and sends me this picture. Im shocked, didn't know how to react. This was the guy that was supposed to be my "friend". Now the whole social circle knows about this event. The girl im dating told me the group tells her to stop seeing me and that i have some weirdo ass friends and creeps as friends. I was so god damn embarrassed. At first i was so pissed off i wanted to meet up with him to beat the shit out of him, but i thought rationally and didn't want to go the illegal route.

Not only this, the guy got in court for a rape attempt on a younger girl THE same week this happened and it was in the newspaper. I dont know if he got convicted or not, i cut contact immediately after i heard this. I live in a small town so everyone knows each other. This piece of shit tarnished my reputation. Now im associated with a rapist and a guy who sends dick pics to girls. How should i handle this situation?

zero fucks. This is a dumb story why do you even care.