Quote: (11-27-2018 02:32 PM)Jefferson Wrote:
They shouldn't, but in terms of the enjoyment of different young women, great sex, life's enjoyment as we know it, it's the end. You'd enjoy the children, maybe some hobbies. But life would be very different.
No it's not the end, you need to get that out of your head.
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Yes, it takes skill, but also finding the right one. When you found that person, you would be very lucky. There may only be a handful of women who speak to us on that level, who have that right tapestry of personality, looks and other qualities that set alight our own feelings. I do not think it will happen very often, even if there isn't the 'One', there are very few.
You're still held up on the notion that there is "the one", it bleeds in your writing, like I said before, you find the best woman that compliments and supports your life and is your cheerleader.
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There are indeed men who are rich and powerful and in love with their careers to whom women are secondary, like Howard Hughes. All their life they crave the love of a woman, but never get it and turn crazy or bitter later on. Like Nietzsche or Schopenhauer.
Then the are men for whom women are very important, but have a great career, and just make the wrong decisions. Like Sinatra. They also end up unhappy.
Hughes died still enjoying his life.
Sinatra had other issues he was battling also.
You have to be a little crazy to be rich and powerful and that comes with it's own problems - they aren't like your average red pilled man.
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Speaking of which, what a brutal read that thread was. Looking back, do you still think you made the right decision?
Did it hurt dumping her? Yes
Did I cry like Uncle Cr33ping? Maybe
Was it the right decision? YES WITHOUT A DOUBT, it absolutely was the right decision, there was no way in hell I was ready in any aspect to have a family or a child, I still am not ready for that.
I laid myself bare to the forum and was extremely honest in my analysis of that relationship, 3rd parties were able to see many red flags where in reality she wasn't that great of a choice to have a family with.
As time passed I was able to realize this too and found some pretty cool women in life, but as per usual, I haven't had a serious GF since her 3 years ago, just summer flings or cuffing season relationships, of course I've had my main rotations that have been around.
Quote: (11-27-2018 02:57 PM)Jefferson Wrote:
Actually it's what Chateau Heartiste wrote, that love is the ultimate prize, and that a life without love is not complete, they're not known for their conformist system compliance:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/love/
I hear what you're saying, of course women also look out for their own benefit. It's perfectly true and perfectly legitimate. However, they actually see MORE than you are. I literally had this girl write to me I was her 'Salvation', I find Glory in loving you, her exact words, you actually start to think maybe it's going too far.
I don't think they see more than us, better yet, maybe they're blinded by their love and devotion to you.
It all depends on the girl and your situation.
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I don't mean a woman is the ultimate prize, but the added love in your life is. You can be rich, but if someone does not love you, your life is not really full. You can have endless notches, but if someone does not love you, your life is not really full.
You've loved your friends and family long before you had love for a girl. You can live without the love of a woman.
You don't need a woman's love to be "fulfilled", that's a silly notion.