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Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement
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Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

I've seen a lot of stuff throughout the last few years saying that girls only go for the alpha guys, or guys with looks, money and status.

You also see so many guys saying that all women are hypergamous.

I can tell you for a 100% fact this is not true, because I have seen it with my own eyes.

These women that are exceptions usually fit into two categories:

- women who get with men they know they can control, have the final say over or won't leave them (because they know they can't do better). Roosh actually wrote an article about this one - https://www.rooshv.com/some-women-only-m...n-cheat-on . Although, I don't necessarily think that all of these women physically cheat on their man - but I believe that they at least talk frequently to other men

- women who are looking for something specific out of the man, and that man is willing to give it to them (could be a guy that romances them, wants to hang out with her and her friends, cooks for them, supports her emotionally if she has a stressful job, puts lots of effort into them, gives them marriage, gives them kids, a man with a stable job etc.)

The main theme is that the girl asks herself what she wants, places that above everything else, and she finds a man that fills those needs and wants.

These guys can be betas, not great looking, not rich, average guys socially - it doesn't matter. As long as he gives her what she is looking for - he passes the test.

The girls I've seen personally that this happens with are not over the hill either - one was in her early 20's and the other mid 20's. Both had good jobs and were fit, regular girls. Neither were feminists or SJW's.

Now, I can't see any red pill guy who values himself and his independence being in a relationship with these types of women, but it's still worth pointing out this type of woman exists.

I know personally for myself, after I met one of these types of women, it took me at least a year or two to figure her out from afar because she didn't fit the behaviors of any woman I'd ever met before.
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#2

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Although I believe it's not required, I do believe that it can help immensely.
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#3

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-02-2018 11:59 PM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  

Although I believe it's not required, I do believe that it can help immensely.

No doubt about that

Self improvement and red pill are also highly valuable
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#4

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

One phenomena I’ve noticed is that girls will often choose a beta guy AFTER dating an alpha.

Why?

She falls deeply in love with Mr. Alpha. He gives her everything she wants. Good sex, adventure, status. But only when they are together.

An alpha will goe off and fucks other girls, travels for months at a time, ignore her, has his own life, and is relatively immune to manipulation and shit tests.

She can’t control him. She never will. She hopes he will settle down. Time passes. He doesn’t.

Now she loses face socially. Everyone asks is he your boyfriend or what? She starts to feel a ton of negative emotions and pressure. What kind of a relationship is this?

There’s an easy way out. She’s an attractive girl. Accept Mr. Beta. He has no hesitation at giving her exclusivity, financial support, and being an all around doormat. Often she can still cheat and he’ll tolerate it.

There are oher reasons girls date betas too. I see a ton of hot Asian girls with soy boy locals.
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#5

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

The Red Pill statement: "Alpha Fux, Beta Bux" explains everything. And only in four words.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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#6

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

1. You're misunderstanding hypergamy. It doesn't describe a law, it describes a desire. It is coded into women's genes, but it doesn't mean they will act out on it every time.

2. You might also have a gander at the Wikipedia page for the exception that proves the rule.
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#7

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

The Alpha Fux thing is a fun maxim but the truth is your typical hot girl probably gets fucked by her beta boyfriend way way more than by a side alpha or some ONS after a breakup. Beta with a hot gf is banging every night with certainty. Alpha has to go out hunting for it.
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Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 09:22 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

The Alpha Fux thing is a fun maxim but the truth is your typical hot girl probably gets fucked by her beta boyfriend way way more than by a side alpha or some ONS after a breakup. Beta with a hot gf is banging every night with certainty. Alpha has to go out hunting for it.

Uh...

That is a pretty optimistic view of the sex life of a married beta. Studies have suggested that it's anywhere from once a week (optimistic) to once a month for the majority of married couples.

On the other hand, my anecdotal experience with married women has been that once they find an exciting outside partner, they'll drop by his place to bang him 2-8 times a day if they can get away with it, even while scouting new partners.

No matter how hot she is and how eager her beta husband might be, once she loses respect for him, she will always be grossed out by sex with him and find ways to avoid it. The first test is commonly when she tries to stop sucking dick.

I'll be the optimistic, though, and suggest that it often isn't just some trap to capture a beta's money, but that part of the attraction of cheating is that she doesn't really know the man and hasn't had a chance to have her illusions stripped away. The old saying is that familiarity breeds contempt, and while she bears witness to her husband's career struggles, hears him lose arguments with his parents on the phone, and confirms that she has no rivals for his time and attention, the new partner is a mystery and her imagination will fill in the blanks with whatever qualities she finds desirable.

Privacy, in my opinion, is one of the best ways to protect the heat in a long-term relationship. It's always amazing to me how telling the LTR to fuck off with personal questions results in her telling me she feels close to me and like we have a great relationship.

Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!
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#9

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

BOYFRIEND
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#10

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

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The Alpha Fux thing is a fun maxim but the truth is...

No.
Obviously you can not describe something as complex as sexuality and relationships in just four words. However those four words represent the reality of the situation accurately (enough).

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I'll be the optimistic, though, and suggest that it often isn't just some trap to capture a beta's money,

"Bux" can be read as "transactional". As in a transaction of attention, money, social standing, companionship and whatever else is on the table.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 07:38 AM)corsega Wrote:  

1. You're misunderstanding hypergamy. It doesn't describe a law, it describes a desire. It is coded into women's genes, but it doesn't mean they will act out on it every time.

2. You might also have a gander at the Wikipedia page for the exception that proves the rule.

Dude , you nailed it . Can I ask about your education background ? You seem analytical maybe engineer .

Here my thought about the hypergamy .
It is the women desire to partner or fuck the best option available for her. This desire doesn't always mean she will act on .Also, hypergamy serves woman self-interest .
A post-wall woman will choose a partner ready to settle over an alpha because this serves her self-interest at this age. In this situation, you might think hypergamy is not in effect while it is actually. Woman self-interest is part of hypergamy and her dependence on the male for better life,...

Also you got to remember something, we do not live in the world of absoluteness . Everything is relative and there are some social rules have to be maintained .
The woman desire is at the primal level, her actions takes into the rules, age,...ect.
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#12

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 02:59 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

One phenomena I’ve noticed is that girls will often choose a beta guy AFTER dating an alpha.

Why?

She falls deeply in love with Mr. Alpha. He gives her everything she wants. Good sex, adventure, status. But only when they are together.

An alpha will goe off and fucks other girls, travels for months at a time, ignore her, has his own life, and is relatively immune to manipulation and shit tests.

She can’t control him. She never will. She hopes he will settle down. Time passes. He doesn’t.

Now she loses face socially. Everyone asks is he your boyfriend or what? She starts to feel a ton of negative emotions and pressure. What kind of a relationship is this?

There’s an easy way out. She’s an attractive girl. Accept Mr. Beta. He has no hesitation at giving her exclusivity, financial support, and being an all around doormat. Often she can still cheat and he’ll tolerate it.

There are oher reasons girls date betas too. I see a ton of hot Asian girls with soy boy locals.

Yep I've seen that one.

A girl's friends and what they think of her is such a huge factor. I've even seen it play out that the friends are losers or super conservative/controlling (it can even be her mum or her sisters), and they don't like the alpha because he seems unpredictable or confident to them or even a threat to take her away from them, so the girl chooses the beta because the risk of getting with the alpha and it not working out would mean a potential 'told you so' moment from her friends and a potential falling out during the relationship and no support in the break up. Some girls aren't strong enough to cope with that and stand on their own two feet.

There's so many other reasons as well like you said. Some of the others I've seen are:
- a beta guy might have characteristics that remind her of her dad (some girls go for men that are similar to their father)
- a guy that puts in over the top effort might be part of her natural blueprint
- the alpha might do one little thing that she says hurt her, and out of spite and an inability to say sorry for overreacting, she stays with the beta because it's easier and more convenient
- she might have experienced a rocky/unstable/uncertain childhood or rocky past relationships at a young age and a beta can give her a sense of certainty and stability
- she might have a fragile ego and getting with an alpha means she risks that ego getting crushed if he's continually right about things when he challenges her on her bullshit, and if he pulls out of the relationship first and dumps her
- she might just be lazy and not want to deal with an alpha constantly keeping her on her toes, and making her pull her equal weight in the relationship
- she might have her finances sorted or a demanding job, so emotional support is a big desire for her (over money, looks or status), and a beta is the perfect support partner for this. Whereas, an alpha would leave her feeling lonely and having to deal with her own feelings and reality, because he's off doing his own thing

Some girls flat out like beta guys, some girls are terrified of looking in the mirror and seeing who they truly are as a person and having to improve (a beta won't force her to look at that), and some girls are just incompetent in some areas despite being very highly functioning or competent in other areas (and a beta will cover those areas better than an alpha)

Alphas have lost out on sex and relationships to betas before, and it will happen again

A lot of guys are clueless about this because most of their knowledge is in attraction, and not what makes a girl feel comfortable
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#13

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 10:41 AM)GT777733 Wrote:  

Quote: (11-03-2018 02:59 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

One phenomena I’ve noticed is that girls will often choose a beta guy AFTER dating an alpha.

Why?

She falls deeply in love with Mr. Alpha. He gives her everything she wants. Good sex, adventure, status. But only when they are together.

An alpha will goe off and fucks other girls, travels for months at a time, ignore her, has his own life, and is relatively immune to manipulation and shit tests.

She can’t control him. She never will. She hopes he will settle down. Time passes. He doesn’t.

Now she loses face socially. Everyone asks is he your boyfriend or what? She starts to feel a ton of negative emotions and pressure. What kind of a relationship is this?

There’s an easy way out. She’s an attractive girl. Accept Mr. Beta. He has no hesitation at giving her exclusivity, financial support, and being an all around doormat. Often she can still cheat and he’ll tolerate it.

There are oher reasons girls date betas too. I see a ton of hot Asian girls with soy boy locals.

Yep I've seen that one.

A girl's friends and what they think of her is such a huge factor. I've even seen it play out that the friends are losers or super conservative/controlling (it can even be her mum or her sisters), and they don't like the alpha because he seems unpredictable or confident to them or even a threat to take her away from them, so the girl chooses the beta because the risk of getting with the alpha and it not working out would mean a potential 'told you so' moment from her friends and a potential falling out during the relationship and no support in the break up. Some girls aren't strong enough to cope with that and stand on their own two feet.

There's so many other reasons as well like you said. Some of the others I've seen are:
- a beta guy might have characteristics that remind her of her dad (some girls go for men that are similar to their father)
Or Alpha guy can have characteristics that remind her of her dad. This goes both ways.
- a guy that puts in over the top effort might be part of her natural blueprint
- the alpha might do one little thing that she says hurt her, and out of spite and an inability to say sorry for overreacting, she stays with the beta because it's easier and more convenient
Girls like the emotional roller coaster . She will get mad now but after days she will crave your attention.
- she might have experienced a rocky/unstable/uncertain childhood or rocky past relationships at a young age and a beta can give her a sense of certainty and stability
An alpha man can have stable relation and actually he provides more security as he has a backbone and stand up to her so he can stand up to anyone.
- she might have a fragile ego and getting with an alpha means she risks that ego getting crushed if he's continually right about things when he challenges her on her bullshit, and if he pulls out of the relationship first and dumps her
You got it wrong my friend. If she has a fragile ego, this means she has a problem and we' re better stay away from her . Plus as alpha man don't have to call her on every single BS. Just let her know nicely from time to time that you know she is lying,....ect. in funny way.
- she might just be lazy and not want to deal with an alpha constantly keeping her on her toes, and making her pull her equal weight in the relationship
- she might have her finances sorted or a demanding job, so emotional support is a big desire for her (over money, looks or status), and a beta is the perfect support partner for this. Whereas, an alpha would leave her feeling lonely and having to deal with her own feelings and reality, because he's off doing his own thing

Who said an alpha can't provide some emotion support . You got make your girl comfortable .The balance is the key.If she called an alpha complaining about something serious, he might listen to her, why not. Again , the trick is balance between being on your purpose or being too clingy to her. Plus beta would listen to her problems hoping he will get sex. Alpha listens to her problem after he got sex and she is invested on him.

Some girls flat out like beta guys, some girls are terrified of looking in the mirror and seeing who they truly are as a person and having to improve (a beta won't force her to look at that), and some girls are just incompetent in some areas despite being very highly functioning or competent in other areas (and a beta will cover those areas better than an alpha)

Alphas have lost out on sex and relationships to betas before, and it will happen again

A lot of guys are clueless about this because most of their knowledge is in attraction, and not what makes a girl feel comfortable

Of course , no size fits all. Yes some girls like beta , but the odds that girls like an alpha is way higher . Also your reasons why girls like betas are non sense
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Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 10:41 AM)GT777733 Wrote:  

Quote: (11-03-2018 02:59 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

One phenomena I’ve noticed is that girls will often choose a beta guy AFTER dating an alpha.

Why?

She falls deeply in love with Mr. Alpha. He gives her everything she wants. Good sex, adventure, status. But only when they are together.

An alpha will goe off and fucks other girls, travels for months at a time, ignore her, has his own life, and is relatively immune to manipulation and shit tests.

She can’t control him. She never will. She hopes he will settle down. Time passes. He doesn’t.

Now she loses face socially. Everyone asks is he your boyfriend or what? She starts to feel a ton of negative emotions and pressure. What kind of a relationship is this?

There’s an easy way out. She’s an attractive girl. Accept Mr. Beta. He has no hesitation at giving her exclusivity, financial support, and being an all around doormat. Often she can still cheat and he’ll tolerate it.

There are oher reasons girls date betas too. I see a ton of hot Asian girls with soy boy locals.

Yep I've seen that one.

A girl's friends and what they think of her is such a huge factor. I've even seen it play out that the friends are losers or super conservative/controlling (it can even be her mum or her sisters), and they don't like the alpha because he seems unpredictable or confident to them or even a threat to take her away from them, so the girl chooses the beta because the risk of getting with the alpha and it not working out would mean a potential 'told you so' moment from her friends and a potential falling out during the relationship and no support in the break up. Some girls aren't strong enough to cope with that and stand on their own two feet.

There's so many other reasons as well like you said. Some of the others I've seen are:
- a beta guy might have characteristics that remind her of her dad (some girls go for men that are similar to their father)
- a guy that puts in over the top effort might be part of her natural blueprint
- the alpha might do one little thing that she says hurt her, and out of spite and an inability to say sorry for overreacting, she stays with the beta because it's easier and more convenient
- she might have experienced a rocky/unstable/uncertain childhood or rocky past relationships at a young age and a beta can give her a sense of certainty and stability
- she might have a fragile ego and getting with an alpha means she risks that ego getting crushed if he's continually right about things when he challenges her on her bullshit, and if he pulls out of the relationship first and dumps her
- she might just be lazy and not want to deal with an alpha constantly keeping her on her toes, and making her pull her equal weight in the relationship
- she might have her finances sorted or a demanding job, so emotional support is a big desire for her (over money, looks or status), and a beta is the perfect support partner for this. Whereas, an alpha would leave her feeling lonely and having to deal with her own feelings and reality, because he's off doing his own thing

Some girls flat out like beta guys, some girls are terrified of looking in the mirror and seeing who they truly are as a person and having to improve (a beta won't force her to look at that), and some girls are just incompetent in some areas despite being very highly functioning or competent in other areas (and a beta will cover those areas better than an alpha)

Alphas have lost out on sex and relationships to betas before, and it will happen again

A lot of guys are clueless about this because most of their knowledge is in attraction, and not what makes a girl feel comfortable

That money and that job will not keep her happy for long. Unless she is happy being a form of cat-lady ie: Beta-lady.
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Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 11:03 AM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  

That money and that job will not keep her happy for long. Unless she is happy being a form of cat-lady ie: Beta-lady.

Without getting into specifics, you can always tell this is going on because the woman will actually talk about her husband/boyfriend like a pet, praising him for doing tricks and fetching her slippers.

None of this equates to being glad to have his dick inside her.

Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!
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#16

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

I think that a man can be alpha in some areas of his life, personality, social interactions and be beta in others, and that it can vary over time and in different situations. Although there is some thruth in this narrative, I doubt that we can classify men in two archetypes as people seem to think on this forum. This is pseudoscience. Sometimes people seem to think that alpha/beta in humans is the same as in a pack of wolves or gorillas.

I've seen in my life some chads who appeared very "alpha" from the outside that were being dominated by their LTR and also the opposite. Who knows how a said guy will truly interact with a woman in a daily basis?

And also many women will not always tolerate your super alpha Chad who doesn't want to commit and will prefer your "beta" who will commit. Some might end up cheating and others will not. Because sexuality among humans vary a little more that the PUA narrative you know.
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#17

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 09:22 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

The Alpha Fux thing is a fun maxim but the truth is your typical hot girl probably gets fucked by her beta boyfriend way way more than by a side alpha or some ONS after a breakup. Beta with a hot gf is banging every night with certainty. Alpha has to go out hunting for it.

Not really every night . He could have 3-4 hot girls on rotation. Then, he only goes out to replace some of them when needed .
Beta fucks same pussy every night
Alpha fucks a new pussy every week . And he still have the option to for LTR if he wants to.

Guys, are you realizing you are on a game forum ?
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#18

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

When Roosh and most of the guys on this forum talk about hypergamy, being dominant, status etc. They are referring to what a very attractive woman values, or at least, a woman that is more attractive than they are.

An average woman will obviously settle for an average man with a good job, and will probably never catch the eye of Chad, even for a one night stand.

It's when women start having above average bodies and facial features, that they can seek out the top guys, and look to screw over betas. Lets face it guys, an average woman is so incredibly easy to manage--we just don't want them.

It's all about beauty.

Truly beautiful women can get almost anything they want, and they're the ones that need to be gamed, they're the ones that seek something special in a man.

Average women just want a good man that will love them, who thinks more or less like them, and doesn't cower under pressure. If you want her for a one night stand, then it's a different story.

I've also noticed that having friends in common is a huge factor for women when thinking about long term relationships: if you get along with the same people, live in the same neighbourhood, come from similar backgrounds etc.
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#19

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 02:59 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

One phenomena I’ve noticed is that girls will often choose a beta guy AFTER dating an alpha.

Why?

She falls deeply in love with Mr. Alpha. He gives her everything she wants. Good sex, adventure, status. But only when they are together.

An alpha will goe off and fucks other girls, travels for months at a time, ignore her, has his own life, and is relatively immune to manipulation and shit tests.

She can’t control him. She never will. She hopes he will settle down. Time passes. He doesn’t.

Now she loses face socially. Everyone asks is he your boyfriend or what? She starts to feel a ton of negative emotions and pressure. What kind of a relationship is this?

There’s an easy way out. She’s an attractive girl. Accept Mr. Beta. He has no hesitation at giving her exclusivity, financial support, and being an all around doormat. Often she can still cheat and he’ll tolerate it.

There are oher reasons girls date betas too. I see a ton of hot Asian girls with soy boy locals.

I have been this beta........Made me realize why i became a member of this site
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#20

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Alpha, looks, money and status are not required, but they have become more important.

Before smart phones, you might pick one off because of proximity, convenience, or any of the random factors mentioned above.

These days, its a lot more discrete for a woman to bang a random on tinder than settle for some guy on the fringe of her social circle.

The more you can develop confidence, the appearance of status, provide value, and flip attraction switches, the better you are. Its just playing the odds.
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#21

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

I should clarify this post like I did in another thread...

When I made this post - I was referring to some women, not the majority of women.

In general, the most fool proof strategy for dating, casual and LTR, is increase your value (and the number or quality of women you make yourself available or give yourself access to).

Yes, women do respond positively the most to a guy who is good looking, is successful, carries himself well with confidence, can talk well socially etc.

But, some women do just focus on what they want themselves, or what makes them comfortable, instead of what the guy offers from an external value point of view.

If you come across a woman like this and it doesn't make sense with the guy she chooses, this is probably the reason why.
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#22

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

The MGTOW theory is most women go after the beta after they're worn out.

I've known women who are still in their prime look for betas or just ordinary guys as a dependable source of a certain thing but have the high SMV guy around to have sex with.


But completely off point, I've noticed that MGTOW, Incels, MRA, PUA community and even this community hate each other or tend to NOT get along with each other. Its somewhat turning into what happened to SJW's where the feminist fought the BLM's and the gays hated the ___ etc etc.

Why not just focus on bringing back masculinity?
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#23

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

Quote: (11-03-2018 03:50 PM)Lermontov Wrote:  

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And also many women will not always tolerate your super alpha Chad who doesn't want to commit and will prefer your "beta" who will commit. Some might end up cheating and others will not. Because sexuality among humans vary a little more that the PUA narrative you know.

Exactly. And, unless you are making a study of it, a passing glance at a couple tells you next to nothing about their relationship. I personally know three "heterosexual" couples, wherein the man is actually a closeted gay guy. And, what's the other common factor of the relationships? The women are very attractive and, functionally, asexual. They do not want to have sex - not with their husbands, not with anyone. So, the men take care of their needs on their own (very quiet) terms, and the women get the public face of a happy marriage.

Don't get me wrong - these couples like each other. They are each other's best friends. But it is a companionate marriage at best.

An outside observer, however, would see the following - hot girl with skinny geek. She doesn't cheat and doesn't even look around. She must be extremely "satisfied" and with the way she looks, there is no way that guy isn't giving it to her five times a day? Right? Right?


Unless you are a counselor or psychologist, etc., you only really know about your own relationship and those closest to you.

Currently out of office.
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#24

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

It is always worth remembering that both men and women often develop very deep love towards their pet dogs, cats, etc, often much deeper love than they feel towards other humans, though usually not sexual love, and these dogs/cats are often pretty sad-looking specimens of their species. Think about it for a minute. That HB10 you are lusting after may never feel anywhere near as strong love for any man, not even Chad T himself, as she does for some hideous and nasty smelling mutt she picked up from the pound because she felt sorry for it.

Also, as Tiger Man notes, a lot of women really do have very low sex drive. A strong sex drive is mandatory for males to reproduce, but not for women. For women what is mandatory is to bond to children she gets pregnant with. As to how women who don't want sex get pregnant, answer is lots of ways historically to incentivize such women to engage in sex. In particular, if men control the food supply, an empty stomach works wonders at causing such women's legs to open. The oxytocin bond to her children then takes care of everything else. Under modern conditions, with no starvation, men have little to offer such women.
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#25

Why Hypergamy, Being Alpha, & Looks, Money, Status Are Not Always A Requirement

[quote] (11-03-2018 09:36 AM)Jetset Wrote:  

[quote='Humpty Pump n Dumpty' pid='1879898' dateline='1541254938']

That is a pretty optimistic view of the sex life of a married beta. Studies have suggested that it's anywhere from once a week (optimistic) to once a month for the majority of married couples.

On the other hand, my anecdotal experience with married women has been that once they find an exciting outside partner, they'll drop by his place to bang him 2-8 times a day if they can get away with it, even while scouting new partners.

No matter how hot she is and how eager her beta husband might be, once she loses respect for him, she will always be grossed out by sex with him and find ways to avoid it. The first test is commonly when she tries to stop sucking dick.[/quote]

THIS was my own experience. Ex-wife stopped giving BJs and sex was a few times a year. Also only missionary as doggie suddenly was 'demeaning'.
I allowed her to take away my balls and this was the consequence. I will never let this happen again.
My other married friends also don't get much action after a few years (and definitely not after kids).
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