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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-26-2018 08:30 PM)RDF Wrote:  

Quote: (10-26-2018 08:14 PM)jeffreyjerpp Wrote:  

You do realize that if this young woman HAD run a background check, she would still be alive, right?

Have you ever actually had a chick run a background check on you? Do you expect any chick who you're dating or fucking for a few weeks to run one on you?

Not sure if you're serious or trolling.

Yeah, dating and one night stands have risks. Just like everything in life. But you have to take into account the chance of the risk. If you go for a walk and get run over by a drunk driver, are you responsible for it because you chose to talk a walk?

Technically you have a one in a million chance of dying each time you cross the street. So it's your fault, you chose to take the risk. Right?

Getting an STD or getting pregnant are real risks of our quick and easy sex culture that women should consider. Getting fucking murdered shouldn't be taken into the calculation.

Rest in Peace.

Just lol at this whole reply. A lot of implied criticism, but absolutely zero in the way of real rebuttal.

What I expect women to do, and what women should actually do, are two very different things. Indeed, the difference between how women should behave and how they actually behave is the basis for game itself.

Actual criminal background check is ridiculous, although in this case it would have saved this girls life.

The point is that women should exercise substantially more care and caution than they actually do in terms of dating and sex. Since they don't, they should be held accountable for the consequences of their risky behavior. This is the only way to incentivize them to behave safely.

You mention the risks that women "should consider", as opposed to the risks they should not. Which is interesting, because as this story shows us, the risks you think they "should consider" don't include risks that ACTUALLY EXIST. It's kind of hard to see you as actually caring about young women, if you want them to disregard a danger that just claimed one young woman's life.

Comparing the chances of dying in a pedestrian hit and run vs. through domestic violence is also just silly. Even if fake feminist statistics overstate partner violence by 10x, it is still a very common and serious problem that women face, whether you like that fact or not. Women are mostly helpless to do anything about this, which is why acting like they are "strong and independent" is so silly, and why they should thoroughly vet men before dating or fucking them.

Having a man get violent with them is a "tail risk" for women when dating. Here is how highly compensated financial pros handle tail risk:

"Being aware of extreme events associated with fat tails is not enough to protect an investment from economic turmoil. The ideal portfolio will not only generate a good return for each unit of volatility, but will also provide some assurance against tail risk. Engaging in tail risk hedging requires an active preference for avoiding downside risk at the expense of higher returns. A few methods to limit tail risks include liability hedging and diversification."

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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Surely we can just mark this down as an unfortunate chick winning the reverse lottery.

Even long time domestic violence victims that get murdered are more culpable than this chick.

Not that it would be popular with the PUAs but if anything this should teach women not to put out until they have an iron clad understanding of who they're about to let put their dick in them, and even then it should take a few dates and a certain minimal withholding period to screen out the notch-seekers.

Bar sluts with no future can afford to live dangerously. People building a future are going to have to start being a bit more careful in a West suffering increasing levels of dysfunction. We don't get to freeze the decline at our preferred level of risk/reward.

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#78

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

There has been some 4chan speculation that she was a junkie and he was her dealer, which would make a whole lot of her behavior more understandable.
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#79

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-26-2018 03:39 AM)TexMexBBQ Wrote:  

You're not supposed to mention race in these kinds of articles about crime --- just have "man" murders "woman".

There is a retired journalist running a channel with a lot of good observations on black on white crime: https://www.minds.com/colinflaherty

And before anyone jumps in trying to call him a racist, he spent a year of his own time for free fighting the San Diego police, media and AG for an already convicted black guy who his journalism reveled to him was actually innocent and got the guy freed.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-26-2018 12:40 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

To think that guy isn't north of 30 you need to be blind or stupid. I wonder if any man over the age of 25 in her life got a look at him prior to her murder. Men can spot older men a lot better.

One thing I really like about Stefan Molyneaux is he often tells his callers in dismay, "Don't you have any friends?" "Where was your father?" "Did you mother give you any advice?"

For this guy to be a murderer and have priors he must have given off a tad more than a "edgy" vibe. He would have full on creeped out her friends or family had anyone had the balls to say anything. There was one - the one who informed her of the criminal background - but there remains the Stefan style of question OR there is a question of how much advice she ignored. How many of her friends said "I don't like that guy." How many of her friends didn't say it in some contrived effort not to be racist.

I'm not blaming the victim or her community of friends. This is an opportunity for people to get off facebook and really interact in real life and when someone JUST ISNT RIGHT say so without hesitation to their friends.

Maybe she could have lived if the warnings had come earlier, more often, or from more people.
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#81

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-26-2018 12:40 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

To think that guy isn't north of 30 you need to be blind or stupid. I wonder if any man over the age of 25 in her life got a look at him prior to her murder. Men can spot older men a lot better.

Bingo. The picture that was posted originally must have been a really old picture. Could have been back from 2003 or so (when he was initially arrested), in his early 20s.

This is a more recent picture.

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On the right, this guy looks his age. Easily mid to upper 30s (or even 40s).
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

^ This. Finally an accurate version of how the guy actually looked. No way he looks younger than 30 in the recent pic. I think a lot of guys posting on this thread were fooled by the first pic, which is easily 10-15 years old. Just like the media fooled people using old pics of Trayvon Martin, making it seem like he was much younger and more innocent than he actually was.

Other recent pics:
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The dude was seriously swole. Looks like he hit the weights pretty hard when he was in prison. Obviously this was a grown ass man, not some 20-something kid. How anyone could make that mistake is beyond me.

I won't pass judgment on whether the girl should have known the guy was dangerous and a violent ex-con, but my guess is that some of these qualities (physically dominant, older looking) probably turned her on.
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#83

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Op, you need to get to the acceptance stage of red pilling.
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#84

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Roid rage?

Con-men and shysters aren't known for their work ethic, and getting that big without roids would take a hell of a lot of work.

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#85

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-27-2018 04:23 AM)romain Wrote:  

Quote: (10-26-2018 12:40 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

To think that guy isn't north of 30 you need to be blind or stupid. I wonder if any man over the age of 25 in her life got a look at him prior to her murder. Men can spot older men a lot better.

Bingo. The picture that was posted originally must have been a really old picture. Could have been back from 2003 or so (when he was initially arrested), in his early 20s.

This is a more recent picture.

[Image: 1023-melvin-rowland-mug-1.jpg]

On the right, this guy looks his age. Easily mid to upper 30s (or even 40s).

I won't post it so as not to look like a troll, but look at the photos of Trayvon Martin the media used (aged 12) vs. the more recent ones from his social media (aged 16-17).
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#86

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

He was apparently blackmailing her with sexual photos. She gave him $1000.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-27-2018 12:35 PM)nomadbrah Wrote:  

He was apparently blackmailing her with sexual photos. She gave him $1000.

Per my OP:

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A University of Utah student who police say was murdered by her ex-boyfriend told officers she wired $1,000 to an account earlier this month to prevent the release of "compromising pictures" of the pair, investigators said Thursday.

So not only was she willing to date and fuck him, but she let him take pics with his dick in her. This is why I can't understand all the dudes here chiming in to defend her, rationalize her mindset: "she had no way of knowing what kind of man he was, and she broke it off as soon as she found out about his criminal past". Allowing those pics to be taken by a guy she'd only just met a couple weeks ago proves she was terrible at making romantic decisions, she wasn't just swept off her feet by his 10/10 alpha game.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-27-2018 06:58 AM)Dirtyblueshirt Wrote:  

^ This. Finally an accurate version of how the guy actually looked. No way he looks younger than 30 in the recent pic. I think a lot of guys posting on this thread were fooled by the first pic, which is easily 10-15 years old. Just like the media fooled people using old pics of Trayvon Martin, making it seem like he was much younger and more innocent than he actually was.

Other recent pics:


The dude was seriously swole. Looks like he hit the weights pretty hard when he was in prison. Obviously this was a grown ass man, not some 20-something kid. How anyone could make that mistake is beyond me.

I won't pass judgment on whether the girl should have known the guy was dangerous and a violent ex-con, but my guess is that some of these qualities (physically dominant, older looking) probably turned her on.

Have you ever met a college lineman or running back in person? There are definately 20 something year olds that are built like this. In fact there are body builders under 30 in my gym who are more jacked than this. Dont underestimate what freak genetics or a little bit of juice will do.

Shit the one serious cycle I took at 25 I was just as jacked as this.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

When you're attractive and charismatic enough to bang 21 year-old girls and shoot porn with them, yet because you're a sick imbecile who can't control his psycho tendencies you fuck it all up and end up getting gang-banged to death by the firing squad...

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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

All this race-baiting and white knighting.

A woman has 1 fucking job in fulfilling her biological imperative. Detect, find, and secure a man that will ensure her life and the life of her offspring. She failed, likely because she's a fucking idiot. I feel some sadness that nobody was there to protect her but that's the way she goes.

I don't believe she's innocent, there were likely signs all over the place. Too late though, she's dead now. Rest in peace.
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#91

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Parents should not send their daughters off to college. Period, end of story.
Go to college locally and live at home until securing a real job. If we assembled a list of female college students that got killed, raped or maimed while out of town at some school it would be a really long list.
Girls protest because they want random dick on daddy's money. I see it every day. This one ho I know got a DUI and lost her license. She was back home before the semester was out. Daddy was paying the lawyer bills too.
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#92

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Well, here's a dumber-than-average footnote that's being left out of most accounts:

https://www.wfmz.com/news/talkers/slain-.../826770466

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Five weeks later, on October 9, she decided to end the relationship after learning that Rowland was a registered sex offender and his age.

Rowland spent that night in McCluskey's dorm room and "borrowed her car the following day to run errands," the timeline states.

McCluskey's mother contacted campus police the next day and asked them for a security escort to help her daughter get her vehicle. McCluskey "initially declined the assistance, stating that Rowland was going to drop the vehicle at her apartment and she felt comfortable having him do that," the timeline states.

A dispatcher told McCluskey that university security officers would be near the building "just in case" and asked her to call back, if necessary. McCluskey later called police to say her car had been dropped off at a parking lot and she needed a ride to pick it up. A security escort drove her to her car, the timeline states.

While I stand by what I said that a 21-year-old getting duped by a guy who can pass for 30 and has what a 21-year-old would consider to be social proof (he was employed at a popular local bar) is understandable...

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Apparently, it escalated after she got her car back because he started sending her anonymous text messages claiming that he was dead and it was her fault, and although she reported it to the police, she didn't understand how crazy this was actually was and indicated that she didn't feel like she was in danger. She was obviously in "I'm a big girl now" mode and didn't understand what she could and couldn't navigate - at all.

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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-26-2018 08:59 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

Surely we can just mark this down as an unfortunate chick winning the reverse lottery.

As more evidence comes out, it seems like the opposite.

This girl had a pattern of impulsive, risky behavior. She also overestimated her own ability to handle challenging situations and didn't take help that was offered to her.

A more accurate analogy would be she kept playing Russian roulette, then lost.

I guess this is difficult to admit for people in this case because every unpleasant stereotype possible was confirmed. It starkly illustrates the gap between how things "should be", and how they actually are.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-28-2018 08:54 AM)Jetset Wrote:  

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Five weeks later, on October 9, she decided to end the relationship after learning that Rowland was a registered sex offender and his age.

Rowland spent that night in McCluskey's dorm room and "borrowed her car the following day to run errands," the timeline states.

She found out he was a convicted rapist and pedophile, still banged him that night, let him borrow her car and then refused all offers of help.

Only a coddled white american girl in the 21st century could achieve this level of hubris, poor judgement and stupidity.

This is as much 21st century american society's fault as it is her own.
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#95

Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

College girls are often attracted to bar employees, it's the most pathetic phenomenon. The DJ, Bartender, Doorman, bouncer all get inordinate amounts of pussy because the young female mind views that as high value.

Both her parents are college professors no surprise there.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-28-2018 08:54 AM)Jetset Wrote:  

While I stand by what I said that a 21-year-old getting duped by a guy who can pass for 30 and has what a 21-year-old would consider to be social proof (he was employed at a popular local bar) is understandable...

Yes but why does a local bouncer have high social proof? Bouncers tend to make minimum wage. Yes, I understand how social proof works (in fact I worked at a bar in uni so I know the deal), but it's not like a bouncer is so high status/high value that we can't expect an educated 21 y/o to be able to see through his bullshit. I knew girls who'd fuck the doormen/bartenders because of their relatively high status/popularity, and these girls tended to be idiots. My uni gf (who I dated for over three years) and my bestie's gf weren't fucking bouncers, they were in stable relationships with decent men.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

https://www.dallasnews.com/news/courts/2...nds-murder

White woman kills her black husband!

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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-28-2018 12:18 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

https://www.dallasnews.com/news/courts/2...nds-murder

White woman kills her black husband!

Excellent point. Thank you for this, now let's all start posting links to stories of interracial sexual violence, I'm sure that will lead us to conclude white-on-black violence is just as prevalent as the black-on-white kind [Image: dodgy.gif]
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-28-2018 12:18 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

https://www.dallasnews.com/news/courts/2...nds-murder

White woman kills her black husband!

Well don't you know it's his fault. He didn't verify enough on her background before marrying her. He should have had multiple agencies conduct background investigations of not just her but her family going back 7 generations. If there is any hint of violence he should have went under witness protection. Can't be too safe.
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Attractive 21 y/o Uni student murdered by 37 y/o ex-bf she dated for one month

Quote: (10-28-2018 12:36 PM)Thot Leader Wrote:  

Quote: (10-28-2018 12:18 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

https://www.dallasnews.com/news/courts/2...nds-murder

White woman kills her black husband!

Excellent point. Thank you for this, now let's all start posting links to stories of interracial sexual violence, I'm sure that will lead us to conclude white-on-black violence is just as prevalent as the black-on-white kind [Image: dodgy.gif]

Your the one always posting this garbage.

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