[don_quixote]

On the weekend I tried out a new qualification, which I believe is a nuclear qualification. I've never seen it documented anywhere before.

It was our first date, and I asked the girl:

"So what is it about you that would be the reasons for me to date you?"

She launched into a list of her virtues - and I was sure to let her know that those were all very good reasons, and I approved her.

The list was mainly comprised of things that women think men value, but we actually don't.. such as independence, strong personality, extrovert, sense of humour, etc.

Then she tried to flip it around and ask me the same thing. I made a joke to defuse it:

"I've got the longest .. tongue .. in the whole country!"

She laughed, and blushed, at that.

Have you ever tried a nuke qualification? If so, what was it, and did it work well?

[luckyfever]

(10-14-2018 11:09 PM)don_quixote Wrote:  

It was our first date, and I asked the girl:

"So what is it about you that would be the reasons for me to date you?"

At least you know that you went nuclear. But why?? What reason did you have to go nuclear?

A question like that serves no purpose but to snap a girl into her senses to realize you're socially maladjusted. You can get them to qualify themselves in other less antagonistic ways.

[don_quixote]

Of course I wouldn't have done it for no reason. She was shit testing me about every little thing, and constantly trying to steal the 'frame'.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

It's not as nuclear - good question on a date - she could have responded the flirty way.

[ShuaiGe]

(10-14-2018 11:09 PM)don_quixote Wrote:  

On the weekend I tried out a new qualification, which I believe is a nuclear qualification. I've never seen it documented anywhere before.

It was our first date, and I asked the girl:

"So what is it about you that would be the reasons for me to date you?"

She launched into a list of her virtues - and I was sure to let her know that those were all very good reasons, and I approved her.

The list was mainly comprised of things that women think men value, but we actually don't.. such as independence, strong personality, extrovert, sense of humour, etc.

Then she tried to flip it around and ask me the same thing. I made a joke to defuse it:

"I've got the longest .. tongue .. in the whole country!"

She laughed, and blushed, at that.

Have you ever tried a nuke qualification? If so, what was it, and did it work well?

I suggest you just ask her what things she's good at, this puts her in more or less the same position of answering to your frame without making you look poorly.

Some people will say what you said is fine and others including myself will disagree but at the end of the night, the knotch is what counts.

Understand, speaking generally there are two kinds of game, direct and indirect. You chose direct game.

That's better for some girls and not for others, you should know how to apply both but be sure to only apply one style for each girl,

No matter which way you choose, stick with it. if you change your tactics mid way she will detect the incongruence in your character and she will be a lot less inclined to fuck you. Good luck and keep your game tight.

[RatInTheWoods]

Nuke game only for when you feel this date is going nowhere, she is being bitchy or you want to ditch but try one last 'do or die' attempt to save it.

ShuaiGe has the correct non nuke to flip to get her qualifying - "what are you good at"