I have now been in the Philippines for close to three months. There is a lot of misconceptions out here.
First a little about me:
pale american,
height 6'2
age: 25
okay with women. Some girls and gay’s think I'm cute in the states. But nowhere near model looks.
I live in the North east of America, near Philadelphia and New York City.
Lays before the Philippines 20.
currently about 50.
Now that we got that out of the way:
Top 6 Misconceptions
1. Filipinas hate Filipino guys
This is a ridiculous idea. For starters this country has 100 million people, for this size of a population to exist filipinos need to fuck each other. It's dumb to think that all the women here hate Filipinos.
So why this Myth?
Well, because a lot of the girls who you will hook up with here do like white guys and they will be more likely to not like filipino guys. It’s a demographic thing. I recommend googling the david bond white guy in asia myth.
Think about it, the only girls you will go on dates with will like white guys. So if all you are seeing is girls who rave about white guys and how much better you are than filipinos and you see occasionally strangers treat you special it’s easy to think that filipino guys are not popular and everyone is dying to suck your dick! utter rubbish
2. White people are every girls number 1 choice
False. The number one choice is a half white half filipino, who is rich and handsome. Sorry not sorry.
yes some girls here will prefer white guys over their own, some won’t even date a filipino guy, avoid dating these women they are usually quite angry and racist in my experience. They like capturing those europe flags.
So if white guys arent number 1 why do so many girls talk about white guys instead of those rich half babies?
well let's see they could tell you the truth or they could just tell you what you want to hear, a lot of filipinas are natural people pleasers, pleasing you comes usually first before the truth, just reality not judging.
It's not just my word, I have talked with other people here, esp the locals. I talked with two Filipino Instagram models, about modeling and they told me I would be a niche model If I tried for modeling here. Think about this? If all women want white guys then why the hell would half Filipino models be more popular??
I also was told that the one filipino model half who looked more irish than filipino was not getting the same amount of job opportunities as the half brit and half filipino model who looked more filipino.
3. majority of women here want to fuck you
To be fair I do not actually know this, because a lot of women could reject you from your bad, too prude or they were too shy. So I do not know
here is What I do know: I have met a lot of girls here who have fucked multiple white guys.
I did an experiment while in Cebu I went through about 110 male profiles, 6 where white, 2 were god awful profiles, 2 were not even in the country and only two were legit.
So let's say that in the tourist areas Im guessing about 2% of makati is white guys ( just a number I pulled out of my ass).
If a lot of women heavily want the white guy that would mean there would be a lot of competition, it would be unlikely for an average filipina to get multiple whites guys. what actually happens is their is most likely a much smaller pool, of girls that are really into white guys. This would explain a lot, since it seems there have been a lot of cases of guys banging the same girls.
4. Filipino guys hurt Filipinas and are dicks
First off Men and women are not that much different. Its highly unlikely in any culture where a lot of men are dicks and all the women are saints that is childish.
People in America said a lot of men cheat now fast forward today and roughly just as many women cheat. So you see here. This idea that the men are terrible and women are victims is just silly.
here's what actually happens, I’m quite familiar with how the average filipino personality is, because to be honest i come from a very catholic family of hardcore people pleasing.
Usually what happens is yes there are some guys who will lie and pump dump girls and cheat on them. However some of the girls who complain are doing the same thing, It’s quite hypocritical but such is human nature. he is an ass hole because he did X even though she might have also done x herself at some point.
I have had some girls here who wanted to meet me but ended up having foreign boyfriends, yet some of these gals will complain about how malicious filipino guys are here, totally not taking responsibility or seeing that they do the same thing. It can be quite funny, because people pleasers tend to secretly resent other people and the people they please. In unguarded moments I have heard some women make fun of other people here for inferiority complexes, being too insecure and way to sensitive. Even though they most likely have those same characteristics.
Again I do not judge them, I’m a hypocritical dick weed at times myself so I take it in stride.
5. women here are innocent little virgins
Nope completely false.
I once had a ex gf in the states who had a people pleasing catholic family and was all about being proper. we dated two years and she told me she could have sex all day and was always in the mood.
This was a girl who never had sex in hookup situations.
quite crazy to think about.
Pro tip; good girls do not say their good girls, girls that act too hard to be innocent are usually the most sexual.
this will come out in the bedroom, also a lot of the women here will open up about sex and kinky fetishes if you show your not a judgmental dick. a lot of girls will happily do weird shit with me in the bedroom that would make other girls back home feel odd about doing it.
Their personalities tend to also be quite silly. However when it comes to the hottest girls or the elites this seems to not really be the case and their much more street smart. In my experience most of the girls here are very naive and fall for bullshit quite easily. Again Im somewhat naive myself so I understand this.
6. you can easily get a hot girlfriend
no you can not why?
1. hottest girls leave the country
2. the rest of the hot girls flock to BGC and Makati.
when it comes to hot women follow the $$ trail and usually you will find the coolest guys and the hottest women of any given country.
3. good luck finding a hot girl in Cebu.
I went out to some of the hottest clubs like xylo and approached a few hot women, most of them I had no shot, a few I had a small window but quickly lost since I did not engage them. Some of these women were filipina celebrities.
I have been with two models here, one barely cracks a 7 on the international scale the other was hot, a 9 on the phillipines scale but a 8 internationally.
Both worked out because one wants that halfie baby and the other travels and is westernized and does not like conservative philippines culture.
My Theory
Foreign value might be a double edged sword. Let me explain.
If your SMV is 5 in america and you go to the philippines, lets say Manila. Your value shoots up to let's say an 8. Instantly you need less game and get laid way more. However the 9s and 10s will most likely want the best men in their own country, not an outsider.
I think Travelling could increase your lays but if you were a 10 or 9 in america you would probably get hotter women easier since you wouldn't be an outsider. Just my thoughts I could be wrong
the good news
most women here know they have 0 shot of bagging a half filipino with money and connections, he might bang them but he’s not going to risk social suicide over some poor filipina.
most women also know that foreigners seem to not really give a shit about this so they will turn to them since they have more money and access to better lifestyle. PLUS and this is big a one. A pure filipina needs a white guy for her to get those (half babies) giving them the best chance to rise up in the social hierarchy.
Which is why a lot of women here do want to get shacked up with a foreigner.
Some extra mental masturbation
side note girls love it here if you mistake them for a korean or Jap. On the surface level they seem very prideful of their country that's to cover up for the fact that they secretly are not prideful.
ways to spot this?
girls talking about how they love being a filipino (when in america do you see girls say on tinder I love being white?), they love their skin (when's the last time you heard a women openly talking about her skin being awesome)
what's so great about being white and race does not matter. ( i agree it does not matter but you might hear people say this defensively),
our country is awesome.
we are the nicest people
this all comes from insecurities. look past the surface words.
To be clear not everyone is like this and some people even admit it’s silly. Their some genuinely kind people here.
one of the frustrating things about this country is the fact that some people here will say things you don’t want to hear about yourself because they think it’s kind of funny.
I have had some girls say some of the rudest shit I’ve ever heard before, but they will say it with a smile on their face like they want you to yell at them.
Overall it’s definitely worth coming I mean I’ve banged almost 30 girls with not even bothering to really text any of the girls. Im curious how many of them are bothered by my lack of text communication and if it’s actually hurting my efficiency since I only use text to meet up with them.
However do not come here thinking girls are lining up to suck your dick or that 10s and 9s can not resist your white dick and wallet.
First a little about me:
pale american,
height 6'2
age: 25
okay with women. Some girls and gay’s think I'm cute in the states. But nowhere near model looks.
I live in the North east of America, near Philadelphia and New York City.
Lays before the Philippines 20.
currently about 50.
Now that we got that out of the way:
Top 6 Misconceptions
1. Filipinas hate Filipino guys
This is a ridiculous idea. For starters this country has 100 million people, for this size of a population to exist filipinos need to fuck each other. It's dumb to think that all the women here hate Filipinos.
So why this Myth?
Well, because a lot of the girls who you will hook up with here do like white guys and they will be more likely to not like filipino guys. It’s a demographic thing. I recommend googling the david bond white guy in asia myth.
Think about it, the only girls you will go on dates with will like white guys. So if all you are seeing is girls who rave about white guys and how much better you are than filipinos and you see occasionally strangers treat you special it’s easy to think that filipino guys are not popular and everyone is dying to suck your dick! utter rubbish
2. White people are every girls number 1 choice
False. The number one choice is a half white half filipino, who is rich and handsome. Sorry not sorry.
yes some girls here will prefer white guys over their own, some won’t even date a filipino guy, avoid dating these women they are usually quite angry and racist in my experience. They like capturing those europe flags.
So if white guys arent number 1 why do so many girls talk about white guys instead of those rich half babies?
well let's see they could tell you the truth or they could just tell you what you want to hear, a lot of filipinas are natural people pleasers, pleasing you comes usually first before the truth, just reality not judging.
It's not just my word, I have talked with other people here, esp the locals. I talked with two Filipino Instagram models, about modeling and they told me I would be a niche model If I tried for modeling here. Think about this? If all women want white guys then why the hell would half Filipino models be more popular??
I also was told that the one filipino model half who looked more irish than filipino was not getting the same amount of job opportunities as the half brit and half filipino model who looked more filipino.
3. majority of women here want to fuck you
To be fair I do not actually know this, because a lot of women could reject you from your bad, too prude or they were too shy. So I do not know
here is What I do know: I have met a lot of girls here who have fucked multiple white guys.
I did an experiment while in Cebu I went through about 110 male profiles, 6 where white, 2 were god awful profiles, 2 were not even in the country and only two were legit.
So let's say that in the tourist areas Im guessing about 2% of makati is white guys ( just a number I pulled out of my ass).
If a lot of women heavily want the white guy that would mean there would be a lot of competition, it would be unlikely for an average filipina to get multiple whites guys. what actually happens is their is most likely a much smaller pool, of girls that are really into white guys. This would explain a lot, since it seems there have been a lot of cases of guys banging the same girls.
4. Filipino guys hurt Filipinas and are dicks
First off Men and women are not that much different. Its highly unlikely in any culture where a lot of men are dicks and all the women are saints that is childish.
People in America said a lot of men cheat now fast forward today and roughly just as many women cheat. So you see here. This idea that the men are terrible and women are victims is just silly.
here's what actually happens, I’m quite familiar with how the average filipino personality is, because to be honest i come from a very catholic family of hardcore people pleasing.
Usually what happens is yes there are some guys who will lie and pump dump girls and cheat on them. However some of the girls who complain are doing the same thing, It’s quite hypocritical but such is human nature. he is an ass hole because he did X even though she might have also done x herself at some point.
I have had some girls here who wanted to meet me but ended up having foreign boyfriends, yet some of these gals will complain about how malicious filipino guys are here, totally not taking responsibility or seeing that they do the same thing. It can be quite funny, because people pleasers tend to secretly resent other people and the people they please. In unguarded moments I have heard some women make fun of other people here for inferiority complexes, being too insecure and way to sensitive. Even though they most likely have those same characteristics.
Again I do not judge them, I’m a hypocritical dick weed at times myself so I take it in stride.
5. women here are innocent little virgins
Nope completely false.
I once had a ex gf in the states who had a people pleasing catholic family and was all about being proper. we dated two years and she told me she could have sex all day and was always in the mood.
This was a girl who never had sex in hookup situations.
quite crazy to think about.
Pro tip; good girls do not say their good girls, girls that act too hard to be innocent are usually the most sexual.
this will come out in the bedroom, also a lot of the women here will open up about sex and kinky fetishes if you show your not a judgmental dick. a lot of girls will happily do weird shit with me in the bedroom that would make other girls back home feel odd about doing it.
Their personalities tend to also be quite silly. However when it comes to the hottest girls or the elites this seems to not really be the case and their much more street smart. In my experience most of the girls here are very naive and fall for bullshit quite easily. Again Im somewhat naive myself so I understand this.
6. you can easily get a hot girlfriend
no you can not why?
1. hottest girls leave the country
2. the rest of the hot girls flock to BGC and Makati.
when it comes to hot women follow the $$ trail and usually you will find the coolest guys and the hottest women of any given country.
3. good luck finding a hot girl in Cebu.
I went out to some of the hottest clubs like xylo and approached a few hot women, most of them I had no shot, a few I had a small window but quickly lost since I did not engage them. Some of these women were filipina celebrities.
I have been with two models here, one barely cracks a 7 on the international scale the other was hot, a 9 on the phillipines scale but a 8 internationally.
Both worked out because one wants that halfie baby and the other travels and is westernized and does not like conservative philippines culture.
My Theory
Foreign value might be a double edged sword. Let me explain.
If your SMV is 5 in america and you go to the philippines, lets say Manila. Your value shoots up to let's say an 8. Instantly you need less game and get laid way more. However the 9s and 10s will most likely want the best men in their own country, not an outsider.
I think Travelling could increase your lays but if you were a 10 or 9 in america you would probably get hotter women easier since you wouldn't be an outsider. Just my thoughts I could be wrong
the good news
most women here know they have 0 shot of bagging a half filipino with money and connections, he might bang them but he’s not going to risk social suicide over some poor filipina.
most women also know that foreigners seem to not really give a shit about this so they will turn to them since they have more money and access to better lifestyle. PLUS and this is big a one. A pure filipina needs a white guy for her to get those (half babies) giving them the best chance to rise up in the social hierarchy.
Which is why a lot of women here do want to get shacked up with a foreigner.
Some extra mental masturbation
side note girls love it here if you mistake them for a korean or Jap. On the surface level they seem very prideful of their country that's to cover up for the fact that they secretly are not prideful.
ways to spot this?
girls talking about how they love being a filipino (when in america do you see girls say on tinder I love being white?), they love their skin (when's the last time you heard a women openly talking about her skin being awesome)
what's so great about being white and race does not matter. ( i agree it does not matter but you might hear people say this defensively),
our country is awesome.
we are the nicest people
this all comes from insecurities. look past the surface words.
To be clear not everyone is like this and some people even admit it’s silly. Their some genuinely kind people here.
one of the frustrating things about this country is the fact that some people here will say things you don’t want to hear about yourself because they think it’s kind of funny.
I have had some girls say some of the rudest shit I’ve ever heard before, but they will say it with a smile on their face like they want you to yell at them.
Overall it’s definitely worth coming I mean I’ve banged almost 30 girls with not even bothering to really text any of the girls. Im curious how many of them are bothered by my lack of text communication and if it’s actually hurting my efficiency since I only use text to meet up with them.
However do not come here thinking girls are lining up to suck your dick or that 10s and 9s can not resist your white dick and wallet.