[J-Roc]

^ "for foreigners, a huge difference was that there just weren't that many of us. If you were a caucasian male, you pretty much had women throwing themselves at you in the early 90s. When I lived out in the inaka in '92, there were only a couple of us in my city that weren't married, and we both had women show up on our doorsteps from time to time saying that they'd heard a gaijin lived there and they had never been with a white guy, and how 'bout it?"

It always makes me sad to hear stories from the "glory days" like this (granted, there's probably a fair bit of hyperbole involved) then reading a modern account (such as the OP) and realising just how much things have declined in terms of RoI. I suspect it's only a matter of time before the rest of Asia follows suit.

To paraphrase another member: "Japan went from being a pussy paradise to challenging even for well-integrated expats in less than a decade". Just goes to show how quickly these "pussy paradises" can deteriorate.

[Denzel]

Quote:

To paraphrase another member: "Japan went from being a pussy paradise to challenging even for well-integrated expats in less than a decade". Just goes to show how quickly these "pussy paradises" can deteriorate.

I strongly disagree with the bolded part, whoever the member making the claim.

I heard the golden "90s and early 00s" from many people living in Japan. The post above is just another testimonial

Just to add to another post, there are many HUBs in Tokyo. I know a few are good even during the weekdays. Some are not.

[OnlySightseeing]

^ you’re saying Japan was never easy? Or still is?

[zamfir112]

Japan is not for beginners or foreigners who cannot speak Japanese, its already been testefied here why, girls are shy and socialy akward, low fertility rates etc, i know a brittish guy who lives in Osaka who has banged 1-3 girls per month on average, but he is fluent in Japanese and very good looking as well, he would do equally well or better in the west, he told me it was very easy to be friends and meet them but getting them in bed quick is the most challenging part. A lot of LMR and objections, these are student girls not club roppongi sluts

[Denzel]

Japan is not Philippine-easy but it is easy for a decent expat. People without Japanese but with a positive outlook in their life will most likely get laid during their two week visit. You have to open sets, of course.

Another Japanese thread has some valuable information for those who want to understand Japanese girls/dating.

In one of my first trips to Japan, I picked up two girls in a nightclub. They were in their 30s. I could not speak the language at the time. As we were walking to another night club, one of them explained me, in her broken English and with body language that they were working in a "soap massage house." For those who know, this conversation took place near Izumi no Hiroba They asked me which one of them I liked. I chose one. They called one of their guy friends for the other girl. The night would normally end in a love hotel. However, I was distracted with the idea that they work in a "soap house", and left them. I still remember how surprised they all were as I was leaving.

In Japan, go out at night to Umeda/Shinsaibashi or Roppongi/Shibuya, depending on which major city you are in, and open sets even if you do not know the language. I cannot guarantee that you will get laid but you are guaranteed to have an adventure.

(10-16-2018 11:29 PM)OnlySightseeing Wrote:  

^ you’re saying Japan was never easy? Or still is?

[habadasher]

(10-13-2018 03:38 AM)3Stripes Wrote:  

I tried doing my thing but shes one of those super shy girls, then she pulled the I want to shower. I try again and but shes like "I think you should shower" but hell no I knew she was gonna fall asleep on me if I did. .

Ok, here's the thing about Japanese women - if they want to shower and they want you to shower, it's on. Next time a girl comes over to your apartment and wants to shower, go hell yeah.

[Ten Feet Tall Right Now]

For anyone curious about Japan in the 1990s look at the Oasis documentary on Netflix.

The Gallagher brothers have two Jgirls sitting next to them as they do a poolside interview from their Tokyo Hotel. It’s obvious they’re banging.


The girls are not particularly attractive. And these guys are rock stars!

Was Japan really that good back then? Or were foreigners banging down?

[RawGod]

(11-12-2018 11:45 AM)Ten Feet Tall Right Now Wrote:  

For anyone curious about Japan in the 1990s look at the Oasis documentary on Netflix.

The Gallagher brothers have two Jgirls sitting next to them as they do a poolside interview from their Tokyo Hotel. It’s obvious they’re banging.


The girls are not particularly attractive. And these guys are rock stars!

Was Japan really that good back then? Or were foreigners banging down?

One "Oasis poolside interview" seems like very limited anecdotal data. Westerners who are not accustomed to Japan are also notorious for banging the aggressive 5s who are first to hit on them instead of getting a feel for Japanese attractiveness standards. See: Yoko Ono.

[randomA]

(11-12-2018 11:45 AM)Ten Feet Tall Right Now Wrote:  

For anyone curious about Japan in the 1990s look at the Oasis documentary on Netflix.

The Gallagher brothers have two Jgirls sitting next to them as they do a poolside interview from their Tokyo Hotel. It’s obvious they’re banging.


The girls are not particularly attractive. And these guys are rock stars!

Was Japan really that good back then? Or were foreigners banging down?

Couldnt they just be hostesses/escorts?

[Ten Feet Tall Right Now]

I doubt they’re whores. A rock star can afford dime whores, not slop.

Those tours have international and local managers, roadies, groupies, etc. They may well be groupies. But usually rock stars have cuter groupies. You’d think they’d have at least 8s.

The funny thing is here’s Noel Gallagher sitting there talking about how famous and desires he is. How he has several stalkers and blah blah.

Then next to him is some plain Jgirl groupie. It makes me think most guys who were getting laid in Japan back then were doing equal or less than the world’s most famous rock band of the day.

[BaatumMania]

(10-16-2018 04:01 PM)the high Wrote:  

Can confirm Japan is one of the countries where you have to bring more to the table than being [insert race]. The only white guys I saw there with cute chicks were white guys that would be pulling in and out of Japan. I knew this going in and prepared accordingly. I did okay last go round but I plan on doing even better when I go next June.

Kind of the typical response once a place gets too saturated with foreign men. Women think you'll pump and dump them or if in a relationship you will suddenly vanish when fired from your job or your visa runs out. This doesn't apply to hot guys but such is how the world is.


Guys on Rooshv reportedly say Korean Girls in Itaewon are tough. Meanwhile I lived in a 2nd tier suburb city near Seoul (that had almost no foreign white guys around) and I was cold approached by women and every woman I invited to my apartment for "coffee, talking and videos" said yes.

[Ten Feet Tall Right Now]

Were these young 7+ girls approaching and walking you home?

[BaatumMania]

(11-14-2018 03:27 AM)Ten Feet Tall Right Now Wrote:  

Were these young 7+ girls approaching and walking you home?

I never saw a Korean 7+ with a foreign guy. If a 7+ girl is trying to talk to you then she's likely a member of a Doomsday Cult or she wants to lure you into a criminal situation.

Really the 'best' women I saw with foreign guys were BMI thin / average, even as tall as 172 cm but their face or hair or fashion choice kept them below a 6.

And the guys I knew who married Korean chicks kind of got screwed over by them. Seems to be a theme in Asia of women taking advantage of a western guy. In Korea's case there's a fair number of women who want to be stay at home wives / mothers. I lol'd (in my head) at a guy who married what he thought was a hardworking Korean girl but instead she quits her career and the guy is tutoring English to pay for a 2 bedroom apartment, her and a bunch of cats (and told me he had less than $1,000).

[asiaslayer]

(11-14-2018 12:34 AM)BaatumMania Wrote:  

Kind of the typical response once a place gets too saturated with foreign men. Women think you'll pump and dump them or if in a relationship you will suddenly vanish when fired from your job or your visa runs out. This doesn't apply to hot guys but such is how the world is.


Guys on Rooshv reportedly say Korean Girls in Itaewon are tough. Meanwhile I lived in a 2nd tier suburb city near Seoul (that had almost no foreign white guys around) and I was cold approached by women and every woman I invited to my apartment for "coffee, talking and videos" said yes.

Last time I was in Korea was about 4 years ago. I had a pretty good time there, but couldn't justify or find a reason to stay long-term. But I've always considered renting a place in a tier 2 suburb outside Seoul since they have lightning fast internet, and Kthots are pretty hawt. Winters can be pretty brutal though.

How long ago was this, and which city were you in? I'm guessing your company set you up with the apartment and did all the legwork. I wonder if a foreigner with no work permit could theoretically rent a place there without any trouble. How much did you spend per month?

[randomA]

(11-14-2018 08:42 PM)asiaslayer Wrote:  

I'm guessing your company set you up with the apartment and did all the legwork. I wonder if a foreigner with no work permit could theoretically rent a place there without any trouble.

You can do this in Seoul ( i did), why couldnt you elsewhere ?

[Ten Feet Tall Right Now]

I spent a month in Seoul. It’s tough for easy easy bangs. You have to put in some work to get quality Kgirls.

I had a 20 something year old Kgirl lined up that I met while she was on vacation in Osaka. She was maybe a 7-8. She said she loved me but didn’t want to give up that pussy easy.

Had her in my room the first day I arrived. She’s like well I only had sex with one guy before and we spent every day together for two months. Meanwhile she lived at home way out in suburbs. Oooph. That was like a knife to my brain.

She left for work and messged my back up a doctor I met traveling in China a year before. We spend 5 hours together sightseeing, have dinner, then I rawdogged her pussy and ass.

Kgirls don’t give a fuck about condoms. Hell yes! Strong western seed right up her ass. Golden touchdown but kinda a cheat. I think she was motivated bc it was her only day off all month. Seeing her again was always a hassle due to work demands.

I was able to live right in central Gwanghwamun for $20/night with a shared bath and breakfast included. You could NEVER do that in Tokyo. Not Osaka. You can’t get a dorm bed for less than $35/night in a capsule hostel.

Korea didn’t seem worth staying long term and dealing with brutal weather. I arrived on their national day in October and it was hot. When I left in November it was bitterly cold.

Some days the pollution was so bad I could barely get a view from my city wall and mountain hikes. Other days it was clear. Just depends on if air is blowing from China. Crazy.

Japan has similar weather. But I didn’t feel like it was so much work to get quick bangs there. Maybe your average Korean guy isn’t afraid to fuckboy while average Japanese guy is soy otaku? Maybe there are more Jgirl gaijin hunters?

I’d like to spend more time in Korea but just can’t justify it. The woman there work too hard and were always flaking and rescheduling at the last minute due to work demands.

I had some dates with very attractive Kgirls. Many did have soy english teacher boyfriends. I’d always ask to see a picture. Often cringe worthy beta looking guy with weird hair in a fake guy leather jacket. Laughable. But there he was banging an 8-9 Kgirl during his 1-2 years teaching English stint.

My fuck buddy there quickly got married after I left. It was shocking. Just like, hey think I’ll get married now. It’s no place to make a life when you can just cruise on down to SEA and treat girls like brainless holes.

[BaatumMania]

Well I doubt she was a 8-9 ~ never saw a foreigner with a girl who was actually a 7+ by Korean standards of beauty. They just have too much racism in that society to let one of their hot girls date a foreigner.

Koreans insist that a girl needs to be white like snow, have a small head (yeah that's weird I know but it's what they like) and a bodyfat under 9%.


Still you can swing pretty far there. My #1 girl was 175 cm tall, skinny BMI and had big natural breasts. Quite a few times local men were belligerent about us (when East Asians tend to be non-confrontational). Couldn't convince myself to stay for her just because Korea has so many problems with it (work culture, pollution and so on).

The problem is Korea kind of ruined my expectation of Asian women. Now I am in Taiwan (and maybe might try Thailand or Philippines within a few months) and honestly I just don't see the hot thots like in my Korea days.

[Ten Feet Tall Right Now]

Are Taiwanese as trashy as mainland Chinese girls? Kinda dress like Mexicans?

[BaatumMania]

(11-15-2018 02:56 AM)Ten Feet Tall Right Now Wrote:  

Are Taiwanese as trashy as mainland Chinese girls? Kinda dress like Mexicans?

Actually you got the analogy squared on. There's a ridiculous number of young local women wearing oversize hip hop clothing or looked like they just came from an American suburb (baggy jeans and cheap hoodies are a dime a dozen now). The only time I saw a decently dressed woman was an urban professional on her way to work or on a coffee break (but I bet after work she slips into some suburb American fashion?).

But if you research into Taiwan - this is the most 'liberal' (see SJW) country in Asia. Taiwan will probably be the first one in Asia which will legalize LGBT marriages and later drug use. So it's no surprise Taiwanese girls are copying western girls (except the Taiwan girls are keeping skinny so far).

[Ten Feet Tall Right Now]

So they like thugs. That’s easy to front and fake. I’m going to buy a hoodie and ball cap now.