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Where did I miss it?
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Where did I miss it?

Forum, I had what I thought was a sure bang but I missed it; So before I paste the whole conversation here that happened over the phone. This is a college girl 22, years old. I invite her to go shopping with me at about 5pm on a Friday. We go shopping, before we get out of the car to go to the shopping mall; I go for the kiss and no resistance. We do shopping and in the middle of shopping; I ask her what her favorite kind of wine was and she suggest and then I buy one I know will get her drunk. We get to my place and we start drinking wine; we make out but she kept on resisting; I take off pants but no sex till morning. In the Morning on Saturday girl suggest we go to the beach and we leave for the beach and we drive around town and went to watch the sunset. We make out again in the car near the sea at night. She sleeps at my place again on Saturday. I try and I get no sex. See the text here, now I believe the bang is gone unless you guys think differently and I want to know how you would have done it differently:

[09/19, 19:29] Cup_Cake: Hey this is comfort
[09/19, 20:17] Girl: Hey...you comfort?
[09/19, 20:30] Cup_Cake: Yeh so on friday i'm going shopping in zevenvatch around 4pm..if you want we can go together
[09/19, 20:52] Girl: Wow that's nice??
[09/19, 21:21] Cup_Cake: Cool
[09/20, 22:54] Cup_Cake: Are u cuming with?
[09/20, 23:06] Girl: Hey...yes I want to come with you dear
[09/20, 23:06] Girl: Can I trust you?
[09/20, 23:11] Cup_Cake: If you want...you can...let me know if can make it
[09/20, 23:15] Girl: Don't take this in a bad way...m not asking because of that I don't trust you...but I want you to give me an assurance that I will be safe when m with you
[09/20, 23:18] Girl: Yes I want to go with you
[09/20, 23:59] Cup_Cake: Then we are gonna go 5pm I will fetch you
[09/20, 23:59] Cup_Cake: At res life?
[09/21, 00:27] Girl: Ok then. .perfect??
[09/21, 17:01] Cup_Cake: Now coming...we still good right?
[09/21, 17:06] Girl: Yep
[09/21, 17:06] Girl: I ll wait for you
[09/21, 17:07] Cup_Cake: ??
[09/21, 17:08] Girl: Sure case
[09/21, 17:23] Cup_Cake: I am here by the parking near res life
[09/21, 17:24] Girl: Ok m coming now now
[09/21, 17:25] Girl: What's the colour of your car?
[09/21, 17:25] Cup_Cake: U forgot...its blue ish
[09/21, 17:25] Cup_Cake: Chevrolet
[09/21, 17:27] Girl: ?
[09/21, 17:27] Girl: Ok m coming
[09/22, 11:00] Girl: m coming
[09/22, 11:13] Cup_Cake: Hey
[09/24, 01:20] Cup_Cake: Are busy later tommorow say around 5pm
[09/24, 01:34] Girl: Hey comfort...I will be off campus from 1pm....m not sure what time going to come back
[09/24, 01:35] Girl: I will let you know when m back....why are you asking?
[09/24, 01:36] Cup_Cake: I want us to make dinner together
[09/24, 01:38] Girl: That would be lovely....?then you sing for me...perfect??
[09/24, 01:40] Cup_Cake: Cool ....R50 for the song though
[09/24, 01:44] Girl: ???????no friend...you taxing me now?
[09/24, 08:40] Cup_Cake: Y calling me friend though...you see me as your friend?
[09/24, 08:40] Girl: Morning dear
[09/24, 08:41] Girl: Aw does that offend you?...m sorry
[09/24, 08:43] Cup_Cake: Not really I just wanted to know...looked at the message again this morning and i was like whaaa...anywrer just wanted to know man
[09/24, 08:47] Girl: Just that I heard things you say the other day..when I asked you weather you love me...n weather you going to marry me....the way you responded made me think that you don't see me as a gilfriend or wifey kind
[09/24, 08:48] Cup_Cake: Do you *love* me?
[09/24, 08:49] Cup_Cake: Look I do like you...but love for me takes time
[09/24, 08:54] Girl: I get you...love is something deep and it doesn't happen overnight...takes time indeed....and it's not only based on sex but more
[09/24, 08:55] Girl: I do like you also
[09/24, 09:00] Girl: Bru..you're amazing??
[09/24, 09:48] Cup_Cake: I know lol....we still good for the dinner tonight?
[09/24, 09:52] Girl: Yeah we good bro?
[09/24, 09:57] Girl: I will let you know when I get back to campus..m going to one family from the congregation
[09/24, 10:06] Cup_Cake: Cool
[09/24, 10:09] Girl: ?
[09/24, 19:44] Girl: Hey..comfort..I just got back n it's already late now
[09/24, 19:46] Cup_Cake: Yeh..its ok was also gonna cancel caz l pressed with work
[09/24, 19:48] Cup_Cake: Oh btw I found ur sexy bikin in my bag
[09/24, 19:49] Girl: No worries at all dear
[09/24, 19:51] Girl: ?which one?
[09/24, 19:52] Girl: Can you take a pic...plz...perhaps it got there by a mistake while your bag was here
[09/24, 19:59] Cup_Cake: Its black..lol it's ok you can admit you wanted to wear it impress me at the beach lol.
[09/24, 20:00] Cup_Cake: Not home at the moment will take pic when i get there
[09/24, 20:06] Girl: ??OMG!
[09/24, 20:06] Girl: Ok
[09/24, 20:23] Cup_Cake: And yes I was impressed with what i at the beach and l want us to date
[09/24, 20:23] Cup_Cake: And not just have sex although l love sex
[09/24, 20:23] Cup_Cake: Do you want us to date?
[09/24, 20:25] Girl: Lol...thank you dear
[09/24, 20:26] Girl: Are you going to be able to date me workout having sex
[09/24, 20:28] Cup_Cake: Unfortunately no..unless you will be ok with me getting from someone else
[09/24, 20:35] Girl: I don't know then
[09/24, 20:36] Girl: It might not work out?
[09/24, 20:51] Cup_Cake: It's ok my friend ✌? l am sure there are a lot of good guys you will be compatible with..i will be on campus in the library 2mrw and will bring the bikin.
[09/24, 20:55] Girl: I think friendship will be good?
[09/24, 20:56] Cup_Cake: Awe
[09/24, 20:58] Girl: I am sorry that Iam not what you wanted though...but I still admit...you're amazing??
[09/24, 20:59] Cup_Cake: Thanks...its ok...l think you are cool too
[09/24, 20:59] Girl: You're also a good guy
[09/24, 21:00] Cup_Cake: Thanks again
[09/24, 21:00] Girl: Pleasure dear...thanks hey
[09/24, 21:03] Girl: ???
[09/24, 21:04] Girl: We still good?
[09/24, 21:05] Cup_Cake: What do you mean
[09/24, 21:06] Girl: That you not angry at me
[09/24, 21:09] Cup_Cake: I am disappointed but not angry at you I do kinda understand that in life you don't get what you want all the time and people are different...l like honest..i guess that's why i am good guy..Girl
[09/24, 21:16] Girl: You not just a good guy Comfort but a real man
[09/24, 21:27] Girl: I am really sorry for that,I never told you the truth of that I am not ready for a new relationship n I don't know if I will ever date again...m from a bad relationship that left me hopeless n helpless...m broken deep inside...n it wouldn't be fair if I date you as I don't want it to be as m using you as a bounce back...you really are a good man..you deserve a woman that will give you her all not a broken soul that has to be mended
[09/24, 21:30] Girl: I wish you all the Best in life my friend..n may you continue be a good person that you are...never change
[09/25, 00:14] Cup_Cake: Thanks for the kind words and your honest..l wish all the best too
[09/25, 00:16] Cup_Cake: I will be in the library open study area from 10am to about three..you can cum and fetch the bikin
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#2

Where did I miss it?

I personally think you messed up when you insisted on pushing for sex. a damaged girl probably wants more time before she gives it up and probably wants more time for more trust.... i.e. longer dates, more time, and less kino escalation.... just my thoughts
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#3

Where did I miss it?

I hope you weren’t paying for these shopping sprees?

Anyway, if she’s taken to calling you ‘my friend’ it’s safe to say it’s over. Onwards and upwards...

Pussy ain't for pussies...
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#4

Where did I miss it?

How did you meet her and why is she asking about love? What country is this and is she a local
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#5

Where did I miss it?

Quote: (09-24-2018 09:46 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  

I hope you weren’t paying for these shopping sprees?

Anyway, if she’s taken to calling you ‘my friend’ it’s safe to say it’s over. Onwards and upwards...

No I was actually really broke; Roughly 50 dollars (Fuel, food and wine). Yah I kinda thought the same too. This one is gone; I think I got a few lessons from the experience.
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#6

Where did I miss it?

Quote: (09-24-2018 10:42 PM)Repo Wrote:  

How did you meet her and why is she asking about love? What country is this and is she a local

She is local, I met her during the day on a college campus. She is a student.
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