[Pestilence]

A little backstory:
Met this girl off tinder and we've been hooking up and meeting pretty often. However, she says I don't talk enough and she doesn't feel connected to me. Cause of that she ended the casual scene we were having as well (Also cause I was caught cheating). We still hook up here and there so I feel there's still a chance. How I open myself up more to her so that she feels mentally connected as well? (Right now she says there's only a physical connection and that's why we can't date).

If it were any other girl I would've forgotten about her ages ago but I really do feel for this one so I want to give it a shot atleast.

[Anonymity]

(09-10-2018 09:10 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  

A little backstory:
Met this girl off tinder and we've been hooking up and meeting pretty often. However, she says I don't talk enough and she doesn't feel connected to me. Cause of that she ended the casual scene we were having as well (Also cause I was caught cheating). We still hook up here and there so I feel there's still a chance. How I open myself up more to her so that she feels mentally connected as well? (Right now she says there's only a physical connection and that's why we can't date).

If it were any other girl I would've forgotten about her ages ago but I really do feel for this one so I want to give it a shot atleast.

Are you serious?! LOL!



You guys were just hooking up. So when you had sex with another girl, that's not cheating, because you're not even in a relationship with this chick. The truth is you're getting oneitis for a Thot. Hard next her.

[Pestilence]

No we were exclusive, that had been established. In fact right before I got caught, she had asked me to give her company on a work trip. We were just not labeling things. Also, I want to focus more on the advice of how I should open myself up more to the women I meet so that I can build deeper connections with them

[Mikestar]

Keep banging other chicks and these questions won't even come to your mind, as long as your dick is wet you have nothing to worry about, mental connection will develop with no effort or even if it doesn't, there's no loss either

[tycotacos]

(09-10-2018 09:10 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  

A little backstory:
Met this girl off tinder and we've been hooking up and meeting pretty often. However, she says I don't talk enough and she doesn't feel connected to me. Cause of that she ended the casual scene we were having as well (Also cause I was caught cheating). We still hook up here and there so I feel there's still a chance. How I open myself up more to her so that she feels mentally connected as well? (Right now she says there's only a physical connection and that's why we can't date).

If it were any other girl I would've forgotten about her ages ago but I really do feel for this one so I want to give it a shot atleast.

How old are you?

[Pestilence]

27

[RatInTheWoods]

This sounds more like a shit test. I mean she is attracted to you, banging you and cares you banged another woman, so she is invested.

I think she is picking up your caring more attitude and testing you to see if you will jump through her hoops (providing more attention ("conversation") to her instead of banging her)

I think just show her you DGAF, agree there is "no future" and say "you think I don't talk enough? Well at least I don't talk about inane drivel! I am looking for an intelligent conversation in a woman" and be a little more distant and aloof.

She will chase you.