[Mizo1234]

I mainly do day game due to many reasons . I don't drink. I sleep early and I do not like clubs.

I am starting this thread to share our experience about daygame. This thread is different than the one titled "Is the daygame worst way to meet women ".

Here, we are not going to compare between nightgame vs daygame . We will discuss daygame venues, how to calibrate your approach based on the venue, and what would you do differently if you messed up,...etc.

Here the list of venues, I go to :

1- Mall on Tuesday. The mall is packed on weekend and it is dead on Monday.
2- Starbucks or local coffee shops. In big cities , there are a lot of people who work off coffee shops. You should hit those places before 4:00 pm or after 7:00 pm .
3- University Campuses are gold mine. I go there to practice . College girls are tough for me, but I still get a good amount of practice.
4-Whole Food during the lunch hour.

[BlackHussar]

Day game has never been my forte, as I'm a night owl. I've been thinking about improving it (building it from nothing?) for quite some time, however, I've been getting consistent results from nightgame and social circle game, plus I'm busy with uni over day. Hence, no need and no time to develop my day game, which is a weakness.

So, the only opportunity I get at daygame is at bars near uni, in public transport and on the street.

Obviously, the bars are the best option.

(Cultural notes: in my country, people legitimately study in bars, God knows I used to come to a bar at 7am to smoke half a pack, drink 2 coffees, rehearse and calm down before a uni exam. We have a bar culture, everyone goes to bars, all the time.)

You see a pretty girl reading a textbook in a bar near uni - approach. You don't even have to go to the same faculty, or to uni at all - just have a solid frame, be handsome and confident, open her up. If your game is tight, unless she has an exam in 20 minutes, she'll be extremely relieved to put aside her boring book and talk to an intriguing young man.

I would even insta-date her right then and there, if I'd get good vibes from her.

Remember to be spontaneous, confident, relaxed.

If she's interested in you and gives you IOI's like deep eye contact, playing with hair, brushing your hand while showing you her textbook, but is also nervous because she needs to study, don't be socially inept - leave her alone to study. Take her number, say "see ya around" and exfiltrate. You'll not only be tactful, but you will also add to the "mystery" girls like so much.

If she isn't interested at all, no big deal - you have invested literally nothing except some words into the approach. Move on. Later, come here and type about what you did wrong and lessons learned.

[TheMaleBrain]

I like public transportation and use what she is doing as an opener.
The downside is that if it fails, it becomes "awkward" (for her).

[Mizo1234]

What I really like is coffee shops . The main issue is that I can only do one approach per coffee shop. I usually sit across from her and don't open her immediately . I wait for 10-20 min, then I make situational opener, usually about her study.

I go out for gaming since my daily routine doesn't involve many women.

[Mizo1234]

Last night the cafe , a girl was eyeballing me . I wasn’t in the mood to approach. Then she passed by me and smiled . I was sitting in the patio . She went to her car, drove and stopped at the red light.
I waved at her and she turned around and parked her car and came and talk to me .
Got her number .
Few disclaimers: She is not American. she is from Bulgaria . I am not good looking , but my style top notch .

[BlackHussar]

(09-15-2018 10:43 AM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  

Last night the cafe , a girl was eyeballing me . I wasn’t in the mood to approach. Then she passed by me and smiled . I was sitting in the patio . She went to her car, drove and stopped at the red light.
I waved at her and she turned around and parked her car and came and talk to me .
Got her number .
Few disclaimers: She is not American. she is from Bulgaria . I am not good looking , but my style top notch .

Really? Interesting. What made you radically change your mind and wave at her?

A Slavic girl who was already on her way in her car turned around, parked, came back to the bar, walked up to you and opened you just because you waved at her while she was driving? You must be running some fantastic eye contact+wave game, buddy. Never heard of such a feat. I think we should be the ones to ask you for advice, not the other way around.

[Mizo1234]

1- I never claim I have a good total game . I got some issue figured out and still working on others stuff
2- I always fuck up in the middle of the process . I can guarantee that I will screw this up too .
3-The reason I entered to game , because i keep fucking up . I missed so many girls who were initial into me . Sometimes , I act needy, or rude and this drives them away .

If you look at the most recent thread . I fucker up with because I tried to be teaser . If I did naturally , it would be much easier .
Then back to this :

1- I changed my mind because my friend was with me and encouraged me .
2- I am Arab with beard and I dress in a way which reveals I have money . Maybe she liked this .
3- maybe she is fucking loner and crazy .

The reason I posted was telling the newbies that sometimes it happens , just be outside .

She is 6 by the way

[Mizo1234]

And you were so helpful buddy

[Mizo1234]

And let me tell you , why I fuck up with girls who are into me . Because I got so excited and act in desperate way not to loose them so I loose them .
For cold approach , I go with the mind set : it is already “ no” until I try . so no fearing of losing .

[HighSchoolDude24]

This seems like the best thread to post my question (related to day game in a way, but in school) since it’s specific to my situation currently.

I’m currently in highschool (11th grade) and jr prom will be coming up toward the end of the year. I don’t like many of the girls in my grade and many of the ones that are attractive are taken already so my only options are to get a girl that’s a senior (very low chance) or a sophomore. So I know of this very attractive sophomore girl but I’ve never talked to her nor do I have any classes with her and I only see her one time in the halls. The only strategy I had to approach her without seeming like a weirdo is to show her this funny video of her from last year that she hasn’t seen since then. Any other options you guys know of or is this the best bet? I’d consider myself an attractive guy,muscular, athletic, popular (not trying to come off as a douche) so I don’t think I’m out of her league I just don’t wanna screw up. Thanks I appreciate the time it took you to read this.

[UniversalMen]

(09-15-2018 01:23 PM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  

And let me tell you , why I fuck up with girls who are into me . Because I got so excited and act in desperate way not to loose them so I loose them .
For cold approach , I go with the mind set : it is already “ no” until I try . so no fearing of losing .

First off, don't go with a negative mindset. A "no" mindset is a negative mindset. Go with Jim Carrey's "Yes, man!" mindset. "Yes, she wants my cock, she just doesn't know it yet. So, I have to let her know what she's missing out on."

Second, have you read Roosh's 'Day Bang' book, yet? If you haven't read it yet, you should. Have you followed Roosh's '100 approaches' program, yet? If you haven't, you should.

Third, it seems to me that you have a lot of 'approach anxiety.' One of the reasons you start with '100 approaches' is to help you get over the anxiety that comes with talking to new women and to take a step back to evaluate how you approach these new women, what am I doing that's working or not working? How can I adjust to make the approach feel more natural? Cold Approach 101: walk up to any girl, look her in the eyes and talk to her.

(09-17-2018 04:58 PM)HighSchoolDude24 Wrote:  

This seems like the best thread to post my question (related to day game in a way, but in school) since it’s specific to my situation currently.

I’m currently in highschool (11th grade) and jr prom will be coming up toward the end of the year. I don’t like many of the girls in my grade and many of the ones that are attractive are taken already so my only options are to get a girl that’s a senior (very low chance) or a sophomore. So I know of this very attractive sophomore girl but I’ve never talked to her nor do I have any classes with her and I only see her one time in the halls. The only strategy I had to approach her without seeming like a weirdo is to show her this funny video of her from last year that she hasn’t seen since then. Any other options you guys know of or is this the best bet? I’d consider myself an attractive guy,muscular, athletic, popular (not trying to come off as a douche) so I don’t think I’m out of her league I just don’t wanna screw up. Thanks I appreciate the time it took you to read this.

Dude, you put up a similar post about 'Highschool Game' or something along those lines. I thought you would have taken the initiative by now and begun gaming girls both at your school and rival schools. Have you done that, yet?

You've got an advantage with this sophomore girl. You now know the power of game and it's time you put those skills to work. I, personally, would avoid showing the video until you've built up some rapport with her. You could end up having her run for the hills.

Now, I graduated from high school over 17 years ago but I don't imagine the social dynamics have changed much, if, at all. Do you know her social circle? If so, get in with her group and start talking to her. Does she play sports? What classes does she have? If she hasn't noticed you yet, then, you need to make her notice you. Be loud around her. Make up an excuse to talk to her in passing in the hallway, "Whoa, your jacket/backpack/necklace/shoes etc., is an interesting look. Where did you get it?" (Sophomore girl): "Oh, yeah! I got it from blah blah store." It doesn't really matter what you say just stay away from anything confrontational. Try to make your approach feel genuine/natural. Like I told Mizo up above, you need to get past the 'approach anxiety' and cold approach as many girls as you can. You're not going to get very far with this Sophomore girl or the Senior chicks if you don't harness the basics.

When I was in high school I used to observe these guys that did really well with girls. They were pretty much "assholes" in their approach but it worked wonders and I was baffled by it until years later. Tease her when you talk to her.

Anyways, I look forward to both your responses! Good day gents!

[HighSchoolDude24]

I’ve gamed at my nearby mall with around 10ish girls from different schools than mine. Was very awkward I didn’t really have an opener for the conversations. I get very anxious around the rediculously hot girls worrying that I’ll screw up just like this situation because I’m trying to score a hot date. Practice is the only real way to fix this I guess. I’ve maintained eye contact much stronger than I’ve done before and noticed a major improvement in that, the main issue is actually what to talk about and how to begin the conversation. (I would quote you but I don’t know how to)

[UniversalMen]

(09-20-2018 07:32 PM)HighSchoolDude24 Wrote:  

[The] main issue is actually what to talk about and how to begin the conversation. (I would quote you but I don’t know how to)

Now, I won't ever recommend anyone do this until they've built up a sizable amount of confidence in the 'approach' department but I've opened up girls with some of the dumbest shit you could say to anyone, such as: "What's up babe, you tryna fuck?" (1 of 2 things will happen if you try this. You'll either get #METOO'd or the girl will laugh her ass off, so far, 4 out of 5 girls I tried this on laughed really hard but I don't recommend doing this until you've approached a few girls that day because it can easily backfire on you). (2) "You know what they say about small feet, right?" (Girl): "What do they say?" "Those with small feet are wisest beyond their years and great scholars of their time... but you don't want them on your track team." (3) [If you're at the mall and you spot a girl looking in the clothing section] "Excuse me, I'm thinking about purchasing one of these two shirts but I need a woman's opinion on which would look best on me. Could you help me?" Usually, I've found, that girls are happy to play 'dress-up-the-cute-guy-talking-to-me' and this gives you an "in" to escalate.

I've got a plethora of things I've said to girls but I can't think of them, right now. Granted, I'm the type of guy who uses your typical "Dad jokes" and corny humor, they're my bread and butter for opening girls. I recommend you try using these jokes or jokes/banter that you can use in conversation from the show 'Seinfeld' (if you have a Hulu acct, all seasons are now available).

REMEMBER this: When people tell you it "doesn't matter what you say but how you say it," is simply a general guideline. The rule of thumb here is that while you're exploring these new avenues of approach you will build on what works for you and what doesn't work for you. You'll find your niche and adapt it accordingly. There is no "one joke, one pickup line, one approach" that will work every time. You have to build your own approach. What works for one man won't work for another man. In the beginning, you're going to trip over your own words because it all feels new, unnatural and appears fake but that's the beauty in building your own approach technique, and eventually, it will all start to click and you'll be able to approach these hot babes with little to no anxiety.

As far as what to say during a convo: For now, avoid talking about politics/religion/social issues unless she brings it up, and if she does, keep your responses to a bare minimum. Most schools in the U.S. are very, far left these days and run by a bunch of snowflakes. Protect yourself against the bullshit. I'm assuming she watches a lot of Youtube videos, is on Instagram, and streams t.v. shows/movies on Hulu or Netflix. If so, bring up Youtubers you think she's subscribed to and talk about the latest video one of them put out. Talk about movies that just came out. Talk about a hilarious meme you found on the internet. Point is: Get her to talk about herself, girls love to talk about themselves. And when she brings up something interesting to you, about herself, you can feed off of that mental note to lead you into another topic. You'd be surprised how discussing one thing will lead into a bunch of other random topics, and that's how you'll build rapport with any girl. Remember to keep the focus on her but you can direct the convo however you see fit.

I hope I'm not going on a rant, but don't get hung up on these girls. Try gaming that Sophomore girl, if you don't get the result you're working toward, drop her and move on to the next girl. Maintain your masculine frame and keep that 'abundance' mentality. The more girls you continue to spit game on the easier it will get, I guarantee you, it will get better and you'll start to reap the rewards of your due diligence. You're also very lucky, you're young and you're nowhere near your prime, in game. Take this time to hone these new found skills. I'm sure you've heard of the rapper 'Future'. He's got a one-line lyric in the song "Mask Off" that I think is the only wise thing the man has ever said in his life but that specific line is, "Chase a check, never chase a bitch." Think about that lyric daily when dealing with most of the women in your life: "Don't. Give. A. Fuck."

Keep us updated!

[PapayaTapper]

(09-17-2018 04:58 PM)HighSchoolDude24 Wrote:  

This seems like the best thread to post my question (related to day game in a way, but in school) since it’s specific to my situation currently.

I’m currently in highschool (11th grade) and jr prom will be coming up toward the end of the year. I don’t like many of the girls in my grade and many of the ones that are attractive are taken already so my only options are to get a girl that’s a senior (very low chance) or a sophomore. So I know of this very attractive sophomore girl but I’ve never talked to her nor do I have any classes with her and I only see her one time in the halls. The only strategy I had to approach her without seeming like a weirdo is to show her this funny video of her from last year that she hasn’t seen since then. Any other options you guys know of or is this the best bet? I’d consider myself an attractive guy,muscular, athletic, popular (not trying to come off as a douche) so I don’t think I’m out of her league I just don’t wanna screw up. Thanks I appreciate the time it took you to read this.

True story time (there's a game point to this...I promise I'll get to it)

In high school I enrolled in summer school the summers between 10th and 11th grade and again between 11th and 12th. I did this for extra college credits and an easy way to bump up GPA (summer school curriculum was always toned down as it was geared towards flunkies, losers and maroons that were falling behind in regular school...thats the point, right?)

Well some of the unexpected benefits of summer school was that it was

A) A mix of students from several area high schools consolidated into one summer school

B) It was a concentrated mix of the partying misfits from other high schools

C) About half of those partying misfits from other schools were girls

D) Many of those partying misfit girls were hot as fuck

Now most kids naturally congregated in cliques made up of kids from their schools so it was business as usual. But the upside is everyone outside of the known cliques is a "mystery"

The summer before my senior year the summer school gods smiled upon me. I sat in a seat the first day of some BS lit class and literally 5 seconds later (I still remember the moment) this 5'7" hot blonde hippy chick smiles at me as she took the seat in front of me. Long story short by the end of the semester she was my GF (she later admitted to me that she sat in front of me on purpose). She was my GF for the next year until we each went away to college.

But here is how it's relevant: When the regular school year started a few weeks later I started showing up at school functions, (games, dances, parties) with a hot chick from another school . Now all of a sudden the chicks that barely spoke to me because they were outside my social circle, now knew my name, now started saying hi in the hallways, came up to me at parties etc. It was the concept of social proof in full effective glory. (We didnt call it that at the time...but my buddies and I often joked about having a hot GF was the best way to get other hot chicks)

You want that girl at your school to notice you? Let her see you with another (or more) attractive girl. Bonus points if she's NOT from your school.

Social Proof...It's science

[badvik97]

(09-08-2018 04:40 PM)BlackHussar Wrote:  

Day game has never been my forte, as I'm a night owl. I've been thinking about improving it (building it from nothing?) for quite some time, however, I've been getting consistent results from nightgame and social circle game, plus I'm busy with uni over day. Hence, no need and no time to develop my day game, which is a weakness.

So, the only opportunity I get at daygame is at bars near uni, in public transport and on the street.

Obviously, the bars are the best option.

(Cultural notes: in my country, people legitimately study in bars, God knows I used to come to a bar at 7am to smoke half a pack, drink 2 coffees, rehearse and calm down before a uni exam. We have a bar culture, everyone goes to bars, all the time.)

You see a pretty girl reading a textbook in a bar near uni - approach. You don't even have to go to the same faculty, or to uni at all - just have a solid frame, be handsome and confident, open her up. If your game is tight, unless she has an exam in 20 minutes, she'll be extremely relieved to put aside her boring book and talk to an intriguing young man.

I would even insta-date her right then and there, if I'd get good vibes from her.

Remember to be spontaneous, confident, relaxed.

If she's interested in you and gives you IOI's like deep eye contact, playing with hair, brushing your hand while showing you her textbook, but is also nervous because she needs to study, don't be socially inept - leave her alone to study. Take her number, say "see ya around" and exfiltrate. You'll not only be tactful, but you will also add to the "mystery" girls like so much.

If she isn't interested at all, no big deal - you have invested literally nothing except some words into the approach. Move on. Later, come here and type about what you did wrong and lessons learned.

This is good

[Mizo1234]

Day game tip for today :
1-Be stylish . Style pays off way more during the day than the night . Ppl can see you clearly during the day . Night club and bars are dark .
2- adjust your style based on the location and demographics.
Univerusy campus : nice v neck and jeans shorts ( try to be above average for this location )

Downtown: wear nice blazer and dress pants