Trying to bang this virgin but getting crazy lmr. Anything that works especially well on virgins would be appreciated (comfort maybe). Id like to bang at least one for the experience. Thanks
LMR Virgins
Yea. Don't treat her like a virgin. Game her and escalate just like you would any average bar slut.
Comfort is somewhat important.
Also, don't make it out to be a big deal. Virgins will see sex as being a big deal, reframe relentlessly.
Also, don't make it out to be a big deal. Virgins will see sex as being a big deal, reframe relentlessly.
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Quote: (09-28-2011 09:34 AM)Caligula Wrote:
Comfort is somewhat important.
Also, don't make it out to be a big deal. Virgins will see sex as being a big deal, reframe relentlessly.
No doubt. The more comfort you can build, the more "it just happened" vibe you can build, the better. 1 v-card I took happened happened SNL, only found out about it later from her friends- that's how seamlessly it went down because the comfort that was built. Toned down the player-ish vibe a lot.
Other v-cards just need time to build up sufficient comfort for the girl, whose virginity occupies a very large part of her identity, and it's up to you how much you want to spend on it. Preferably, you have other girls cookin so you can wait her out more easily. That's how I got my other v-card.
My motto in regards to virgins, has always been to just 'let the virgins fuck themselves.' You'll generally spend more time than necessary to bang a virgin. You're going to get more bangs for your time with bar sluts.
However, if virgins are your thing, then my advice is:
1. Have another girl you're already banging regularly.
- This way you don't end up with blue balls because this girl wants to stay a virgin xx days longer.
- This is by far the most important tip, because this way you won't care as much about your virgin.
2. Stop pushing so hard for it.
- Again, this is easy if you've got someone else.
- You're showing her you have self-control.
3. Put in your time.
- This means hanging out regularly, don't do the dinner and a movie shit, but maybe rent a movie, get some beer and pizza. Course, chances are if she's a virgin she may not drink much, at least at first.
- Now you're showing you have patience.
4. Rev her up, make out, escalate like a motherfucker, and then just stop cold and leave shortly after.
- When you leave her, go see the other girl you're banging. D'uh.
- Do this a couple times, and she'll wonder what she has to do to keep you there.
5. Tell her that you're not sure if she's ready.
- This is a great reply if she asks why you're not staying overnight.
- This is challenging her, ideally she'll think,"What, I'm not ready? Oh I'll show him!"
6. Never stay overnight to cuddle when you know sex won't be involved.
- This is the fastest way to get turned into a make-out/cuddle buddy.
Ultimately the idea is you want to build the sexual tension to the point she can't take it anymore and lets you have your way with her. Seems like a lot of work as opposed to just going for a one night stand doesn't it? That's because generally speaking it is. Sure some of you may have got lucky with a virgin that moved quick before, but I'd wager that's far from the norm.
Bottom line is, you'll be putting in a lot of time and a minor mistake can ruin everything. Trust me, if you want a quick lay, avoid virgins.
However, if virgins are your thing, then my advice is:
1. Have another girl you're already banging regularly.
- This way you don't end up with blue balls because this girl wants to stay a virgin xx days longer.
- This is by far the most important tip, because this way you won't care as much about your virgin.
2. Stop pushing so hard for it.
- Again, this is easy if you've got someone else.
- You're showing her you have self-control.
3. Put in your time.
- This means hanging out regularly, don't do the dinner and a movie shit, but maybe rent a movie, get some beer and pizza. Course, chances are if she's a virgin she may not drink much, at least at first.
- Now you're showing you have patience.
4. Rev her up, make out, escalate like a motherfucker, and then just stop cold and leave shortly after.
- When you leave her, go see the other girl you're banging. D'uh.
- Do this a couple times, and she'll wonder what she has to do to keep you there.
5. Tell her that you're not sure if she's ready.
- This is a great reply if she asks why you're not staying overnight.
- This is challenging her, ideally she'll think,"What, I'm not ready? Oh I'll show him!"
6. Never stay overnight to cuddle when you know sex won't be involved.
- This is the fastest way to get turned into a make-out/cuddle buddy.
Ultimately the idea is you want to build the sexual tension to the point she can't take it anymore and lets you have your way with her. Seems like a lot of work as opposed to just going for a one night stand doesn't it? That's because generally speaking it is. Sure some of you may have got lucky with a virgin that moved quick before, but I'd wager that's far from the norm.
Bottom line is, you'll be putting in a lot of time and a minor mistake can ruin everything. Trust me, if you want a quick lay, avoid virgins.
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