Hi,
It's my first post and I'd like to ask you about my situation.
I'm 20, red-pill guy from Poland, meeting and dating girls since I was 10, I was already in few serious LTR and the longest was for 2 years. I do my best to look and behave properly - I don't really think about it because I like fashion, reading books, writing poems, sports, travelling, DJing at clubs etc - generally I have a lot of hobbies and I'm quite good and recognized (don't want to show off - but maybe even famous) in my social circle and at my uni because of them. I can afford fancy stuff.
I'm very sociable and tolerant and I think I already have good game, because I can get many of the girls I'm interested in (and they are always 7 or higher) and bang them (fastest was 2nd date). Also, I'm already very cynical when it comes to girls' behaviour due to many bitter stories I've experienced from girls I have respected - including cheating, dinner-whoring, faking emotions, shit-testing, meeting me only for status and so on.
When it comes to my physique I'm tall but slim - I want to gain more weight (what is hard for me). But still I've never heard anything bad about it from girls.
My whole reception of girls has changed when I first met Roosh ideas and when I was treated very poorly by several girls who turned out to be low quality. Since then I was approaching girls every day, in various languages, getting numbers, dates and more and more often bangs.
I've seen a nice looking girl on Instagram who was living in the same flat with a girl I used to date (and who was the biggest contributor to my red-pillness due to her grand bitchiness). I've DM'ed her for her number and after that we had few dates. On first she was already at my apartment, on second we were making out and on fourth we were banging.
She's two years older than me, had lived in States for a year and she turned out to be cool. Since we've banged I was a bit aloof when texting to not show I care to much, but unfortunately she had started to shit test me by sending me a pic that she "chills out after exam at her friend's house" with few other people. Of course the friend was male and it just wasn't good in my opinion to send me this after we've been romantic and a bit lovey-dovey (but never beta). I used Heartiste technique of resisting shit tests (agree and amplify) and it worked fine. I told her to flirt with that guy and then she asked me if I'm jealous, but I did not respond to that. I can be quite emotional/romantic (in an artsy way, not pussy-like if you understand what I mean) and I was just before very important exam and she knew about it, what additionally seemed a bit fucked up for me.
She is from good family, but she likes to drink and party even till morning. But still she seems classy, friendly and well mannered when we meet together. She used to be a hostess for 2 days in a luxurious yacht resort (I'm sure it was nothing more than talking to foreign guests) and she told me she did that because she got good extra money for it (still she comes from well-off family). She told me she had only 1 boyfriend till now and she's not good at telling her feelings (she never told me she loves me or anything similar, but she gives me joy and she wants to make me feel good around her).
I considered her to be with me long term and maybe even wife one day as I sometimes feel burned out as a player and that it sometimes make me feel alone.
She told me once about her friend from class who is the 'year's leader' - he's fat, perceives himself as gay, but he still hits on girls in a very rude, abusive way after alcohol. She even slapped his face when he was hitting on her that way and he stopped doing it to her (but not other girls). I know him personally and during the day, when I only meet him, he seems ok.
I'm going to Brazil for student's exchange for a month (already read Roosh's Brazil Compendium and grasped some Portuguese ).
Before that I went on another holiday abroad with my parents and I've invited her, but she had work and she was not very into it as she didn't know them (btw they know my player's lifestyle, why I behave like that and even Roosh's site ).
She asked me if I want to go with her on holidays after my exchange to "spend time together" etc. But after some time she told me that she also plans to go for a week-long holiday with her bitchy friend and abusive friend after it, not suggesting me to come (although I'm not hanging out anymore with the bitchy one).
Is that fine that she still likes that guy and plans to go on holiday with him, even if he's notorious for his creepy actions?
Is she still good-quality girl when she likes to party even till 6am?
She knows I'm into her but she also knows that I can next her easily and that I'm seeking for quality.
I won't be overthinking the whole situation but she seems good for me and I wanted to get advice from the community which views I do really respect.
Sorry for the length of the post but I wanted to make the whole story as clear as possible.
Thanks,
Cantucci
It's my first post and I'd like to ask you about my situation.
I'm 20, red-pill guy from Poland, meeting and dating girls since I was 10, I was already in few serious LTR and the longest was for 2 years. I do my best to look and behave properly - I don't really think about it because I like fashion, reading books, writing poems, sports, travelling, DJing at clubs etc - generally I have a lot of hobbies and I'm quite good and recognized (don't want to show off - but maybe even famous) in my social circle and at my uni because of them. I can afford fancy stuff.
I'm very sociable and tolerant and I think I already have good game, because I can get many of the girls I'm interested in (and they are always 7 or higher) and bang them (fastest was 2nd date). Also, I'm already very cynical when it comes to girls' behaviour due to many bitter stories I've experienced from girls I have respected - including cheating, dinner-whoring, faking emotions, shit-testing, meeting me only for status and so on.
When it comes to my physique I'm tall but slim - I want to gain more weight (what is hard for me). But still I've never heard anything bad about it from girls.
My whole reception of girls has changed when I first met Roosh ideas and when I was treated very poorly by several girls who turned out to be low quality. Since then I was approaching girls every day, in various languages, getting numbers, dates and more and more often bangs.
I've seen a nice looking girl on Instagram who was living in the same flat with a girl I used to date (and who was the biggest contributor to my red-pillness due to her grand bitchiness). I've DM'ed her for her number and after that we had few dates. On first she was already at my apartment, on second we were making out and on fourth we were banging.
She's two years older than me, had lived in States for a year and she turned out to be cool. Since we've banged I was a bit aloof when texting to not show I care to much, but unfortunately she had started to shit test me by sending me a pic that she "chills out after exam at her friend's house" with few other people. Of course the friend was male and it just wasn't good in my opinion to send me this after we've been romantic and a bit lovey-dovey (but never beta). I used Heartiste technique of resisting shit tests (agree and amplify) and it worked fine. I told her to flirt with that guy and then she asked me if I'm jealous, but I did not respond to that. I can be quite emotional/romantic (in an artsy way, not pussy-like if you understand what I mean) and I was just before very important exam and she knew about it, what additionally seemed a bit fucked up for me.
She is from good family, but she likes to drink and party even till morning. But still she seems classy, friendly and well mannered when we meet together. She used to be a hostess for 2 days in a luxurious yacht resort (I'm sure it was nothing more than talking to foreign guests) and she told me she did that because she got good extra money for it (still she comes from well-off family). She told me she had only 1 boyfriend till now and she's not good at telling her feelings (she never told me she loves me or anything similar, but she gives me joy and she wants to make me feel good around her).
I considered her to be with me long term and maybe even wife one day as I sometimes feel burned out as a player and that it sometimes make me feel alone.
She told me once about her friend from class who is the 'year's leader' - he's fat, perceives himself as gay, but he still hits on girls in a very rude, abusive way after alcohol. She even slapped his face when he was hitting on her that way and he stopped doing it to her (but not other girls). I know him personally and during the day, when I only meet him, he seems ok.
I'm going to Brazil for student's exchange for a month (already read Roosh's Brazil Compendium and grasped some Portuguese ).
Before that I went on another holiday abroad with my parents and I've invited her, but she had work and she was not very into it as she didn't know them (btw they know my player's lifestyle, why I behave like that and even Roosh's site ).
She asked me if I want to go with her on holidays after my exchange to "spend time together" etc. But after some time she told me that she also plans to go for a week-long holiday with her bitchy friend and abusive friend after it, not suggesting me to come (although I'm not hanging out anymore with the bitchy one).
Is that fine that she still likes that guy and plans to go on holiday with him, even if he's notorious for his creepy actions?
Is she still good-quality girl when she likes to party even till 6am?
She knows I'm into her but she also knows that I can next her easily and that I'm seeking for quality.
I won't be overthinking the whole situation but she seems good for me and I wanted to get advice from the community which views I do really respect.
Sorry for the length of the post but I wanted to make the whole story as clear as possible.
Thanks,
Cantucci