I think it's better to not mention specifics when arranging a date over text. Why? Because then you'll know if she rejected you or your specific date idea. Also, ask if she can come out instead of if she wants to come out because it's looks better
For example
"Do you have time tomorrow or the next day to hang out?
"Are you free to meet up this weekend?"
Are in my opinion better than
"Do you want to go try that new restaurant tomorrow?
"Do you want to go to XYZ Bar on Saturday?"
She might dislike Chinese food. She might not like going out for drinks. There are many factors we don't know and can't account for, but this trick circumvents a few potential hang ups.
You really want to know "Do you want to go or not?" but asking if she's available makes her not reject you but instead blame the time, so you can ask again later, and appear better and make her feel more comfortable by comparison than if you had asked if she wanted come out that other night. A comfortable girl is more likely to say yes.
If she says yes then you can propose an activity or not, this is a great position to be in. If you decide to propose an activity instead of leaving it a mystery, she's already agreed to meeting up, so you don't have to worry about her declining your date based on what you propose.
If before saying yes or no she asks what you want to do or where you want to go you at least have an indication of interest.
If she says no she's more likely to suggest a new time than she would a new activity, and if she doesn't suggest a new time then at least you know she rejected you instead of your date idea
The downside is that these lines don't tie in very well with many topics, possibly making them much more difficult to ask within natural conversation flow rather than seeming out of the blue
I love the idea of suggesting two times instead of one, a technique found in the fantastic text guide Roosh posted, read it here if you haven't already: http://www.bangpickupguide.com/misc/text...rooshv.pdf
For example
"Do you have time tomorrow or the next day to hang out?
"Are you free to meet up this weekend?"
Are in my opinion better than
"Do you want to go try that new restaurant tomorrow?
"Do you want to go to XYZ Bar on Saturday?"
She might dislike Chinese food. She might not like going out for drinks. There are many factors we don't know and can't account for, but this trick circumvents a few potential hang ups.
You really want to know "Do you want to go or not?" but asking if she's available makes her not reject you but instead blame the time, so you can ask again later, and appear better and make her feel more comfortable by comparison than if you had asked if she wanted come out that other night. A comfortable girl is more likely to say yes.
If she says yes then you can propose an activity or not, this is a great position to be in. If you decide to propose an activity instead of leaving it a mystery, she's already agreed to meeting up, so you don't have to worry about her declining your date based on what you propose.
If before saying yes or no she asks what you want to do or where you want to go you at least have an indication of interest.
If she says no she's more likely to suggest a new time than she would a new activity, and if she doesn't suggest a new time then at least you know she rejected you instead of your date idea
The downside is that these lines don't tie in very well with many topics, possibly making them much more difficult to ask within natural conversation flow rather than seeming out of the blue
I love the idea of suggesting two times instead of one, a technique found in the fantastic text guide Roosh posted, read it here if you haven't already: http://www.bangpickupguide.com/misc/text...rooshv.pdf
