Alright everyone. I'm sure some of us can empathise with this thread.
Background
Last year, I had a relationship with a girl from a conservative community that ended with the family threatening my life due to my race and religion. During and after the event, I began to research into the community, culture and religion. This was a poor move, as I found out the community and culture harbour extremely hateful views towards me and people that look like me.
Current Situation
As luck would have it, the next girl I've formed a meaningful connection comes from the same part of the world but a different religion . Following the previous drama, I've decided to avoid public meetings and have told her I would never be seen in public with her and that she should look for her own kind. There is no point going through a bad experience just to do the same mistake again. That's how I see it.
The Issue
I work in a hospital and have found myself avoiding interaction with folllowers of that religion and people from that part of the world. When I do interact with them, I feel huge hatred and also fear, so I become extremely cold and professional. The hate is so forceful, that it drives me in the gym.
Question
How do I cope at work? How do I interact with people, who, more than likely, don't want me near them and harbour hateful thoughts? It's like hugging a snake. That's how I see it at least. This hatred is killing me.
Closing remarks
I know that there are Roosh members who believe some groups are trying to take over their country. I'm also sure that a few members may have been assaulted by a guy or group of guys from an ethnic group. How did you guys avoid developing blanket prejudice against a tribe that could appear as discrimination at work?
TDK
Background
Last year, I had a relationship with a girl from a conservative community that ended with the family threatening my life due to my race and religion. During and after the event, I began to research into the community, culture and religion. This was a poor move, as I found out the community and culture harbour extremely hateful views towards me and people that look like me.
Current Situation
As luck would have it, the next girl I've formed a meaningful connection comes from the same part of the world but a different religion . Following the previous drama, I've decided to avoid public meetings and have told her I would never be seen in public with her and that she should look for her own kind. There is no point going through a bad experience just to do the same mistake again. That's how I see it.
The Issue
I work in a hospital and have found myself avoiding interaction with folllowers of that religion and people from that part of the world. When I do interact with them, I feel huge hatred and also fear, so I become extremely cold and professional. The hate is so forceful, that it drives me in the gym.
Question
How do I cope at work? How do I interact with people, who, more than likely, don't want me near them and harbour hateful thoughts? It's like hugging a snake. That's how I see it at least. This hatred is killing me.
Closing remarks
I know that there are Roosh members who believe some groups are trying to take over their country. I'm also sure that a few members may have been assaulted by a guy or group of guys from an ethnic group. How did you guys avoid developing blanket prejudice against a tribe that could appear as discrimination at work?
TDK
"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you"