[Alick]

Hi,

Some of you may remember that a while back I asked for opinion for having a child.
here is the link to the thread

thread-63024.html

So I was eager to find a girl, knock her, and have a baby.

I found a university educated Eastern European girl, started a mini relationship and I told her not to take any anti-pregnancy medication. Then during course of mini-relationship, we would get drunk often and I would cum inside her deliberately.

She is 27, I am 33 now. After having few weeks relationship, I dumped her and moved back to Australia. Few weeks later when I was in Australia, she told me that she is pregnant. I was happy listening this.

Now last week I moved to Eastern Europe to be with her and now living with her as I am still excited to have my 1st baby.

Now the problem is; my family (parents and siblings) is very conservative and they will not accept child without any wedlock. So my initial plan was to marry this girl ASAP, let her give birth to my baby and then divorce her. (She is ready to marry me)

But more I think on this, more I am getting confused. I want baby, but I am not a one woman man. I will bang any pussy who pass boner test. I Know my reltionship will not last with this girl because it's based on lie and manipulation. Only reason I am with her is because I want her to give birth to my baby.

I know, a child need mother and father for a good personality development. I am confuse because I want to raise this child properly but at same time I have no feelings what so ever for mother of child. She is just a piece of meat for me who will give birth to my baby.

Should I keep my original plan to marry her, let her give birth to my baby and then divorce her so that my family accept the child ?? Or Should I keep her with me till child is mature enough to understand things??? And how I am suppose to bang random pussies with a child around me and may be his mother??

[PapayaTapper]

Im not confused. Youre a piece of shit

Edit: I hope a family member of hers kicks the living shit out of you

[Fortis]

Bro, I think you might be retarded.

1. You knocked up a girl you don't care about.

2. You knocked her up knowing you could never be faithful.

3. You knocked her up knowing you don't want to marry her.

4. You are already plotting on divorcing a girl you aren't even married to.

Please escort yourself to the gulag. You are unfit for procreation.

[Montrose]

Congratulations on becoming a father. You should probably show more respect to the mother but your desire to take care of the child is commendable. However, I don’t know when is the due date, but the pregnancy might not go to term. Miscarriages are common in the first months, she might terminate the pregnancy (easy in EE) and she might never have been pregnant at all. Don’t take any unnecessary steps before the second sound scan.

As for marriage, don’t get pressured into marrying out of outdated prejudice. Nowadays, in most European countries, children born out of wedlock have exactly the same rights. Just make sure that you officially recognize the child after birth. That will give you authority (but also obligation to support). It is better for a child to live with the mother in the first three years. A father is not very useful until Oedipus sets in at 3 or 4. Then both parents are useful. At 7, young Spartans were separated from their mother.

[Dulceácido]

Am I the only one that sees this as a travesty?

[Fortis]

It is 100% stupid.

[MOEJP]

Hopefully, just hopefully her friend/family member will beat the living shit out of you to the point that you can't have kids anymore..they'll be doing humanity a favor

[Thomas the Rhymer]

I think your idea of marriage is messed up.

Either get married and have secret mistresses, or don't get married at all. A divorce of convenience sounds so messy and complicated and is unnecessary if all that you want is to be free to chase tail.

There is only one valid reason to marry a woman - because she loves you, more than anything else in the world. If that reason isn't important enough for you, then don't waste her time with a marriage.

Don't marry someone as some part of Machiavellan conspiracy to please your parents/family.

You're basically marrying someone because you are too scared of confronting your own family. That's ridiculous.

You know, you don't actually have to present this child to your family. They're allowed to think that you're a childless bachelor playboy. They're in Australia - what are they gonna do? Send a private investigator to Eastern Europe to track down your love children? Really? Just keep the child a secret and your family will be irrelevant.

[This Is Trouble]

(05-15-2018 12:29 AM)Dulceácido Wrote:  

Am I the only one that sees this as a travesty?

A modern day fairy tale.

[Bienvenuto]

Am I the only one who notices that OP refers to Australia as "home" but clearly can't type English properly.

And a "religiously conservative" family... Hmmm.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(05-15-2018 03:32 AM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  

Am I the only one who notices that OP refers to Australia as "home" but clearly can't type English properly.

And a "religiously conservative" family... Hmmm.

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I agree - you also wanted to get some poor EE girl pregnant and pay her the paltry sum of 30.000$ in order for her to rescind her full parental rights.

My guess is that you are Ali - a Westernized Muslim living in Australia. Nothing wrong with that. If you have a double citizenship to a Muslim country, then you can get your kids transported there and then your kid can be raised as a proper Muslim with the woman having no rights at all.

Your lack of feelings - even the barest ones - clearly show this wonderful Islamic mentality that is seen across the world.

Your attitude towards easy divorce also hints towards that fact. If your idea is to painlessly divorce her, then take the child and flee to Australia, then you are mistaken. EE countries will fight for their citizens - you need to get that kid to get to the Muslim country your parents are from.

Frankly this is one of the cases where an actual psychopath/sociopath has graced the pages - or just a good Muslim who sees nothing wrong with that because she is just a Western whore right?. You have not mentioned what you would want to do with the kid. But you wanted to have the child to yourself as you noted in another thread. This is common practice in Islam, but not easily feasible in the West.

If I could I wold contact the mother of your child and warn her about you. My guess is that you want to grab the kid and give it to your family to be raised as a proper Muslim.



There are even some old-school playboys in the West who sire kids left right, but take care of the mothers financially and visit their kids frequently. But something tells me that you are not one of them.

[Dragan]

OP: procreation is commendable, but if you're having a kid, you need to be fully invested in the process. And that, coincidentally means that you need to get along with the mother of your kid. Studies show 2 parent families are better than single parent families for the kid. It's not about you or the mother at this point, it's about your kid-- you need to do what's best for him. Divorcing the mother (after shortly marrying) is not a good idea. If you decided you wanted a kid, you also NEED to decide that you want a family. (A kid is nothing without his family and appropriate social support structures).

[yankeetravels]

I'm going to try not to white knight here because I think you just have a stupid plan more than just lacking morals. I honestly suspect this dude may be a troll kind of testing the waters of this forum. Off chance he's not, I'll try to give a serious answer.

The worst thing you could do is divorce for convenience. That is slow, messy, you could end up paying alimony, and if a court finds out this was pre-meditated, you could end up losing rights to the damn kid. Also, I think you're not prioritizing your own life and goals if you're worried about what your family thinks from another country on such a big life event.

OP, it may not be bad to want a child, but you're going about it all wrong. Don't marry this girl because marriage should be a serious step (even if the West embraces divorce culture). Maybe spend more time with her and the kid and see if something can work. If not, then either try to be there for the kid in any kind of role or cut your losses and try again in the future.

For your own sake, don't pre-meditate a divorce because in 2018, there's a good chance that'll backfire on a man.

[Dulceácido]

(05-15-2018 03:32 AM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  

Am I the only one who notices that OP refers to Australia as "home" but clearly can't type English properly.

And a "religiously conservative" family... Hmmm.

Good call. I noticed for sure. Wasn't sure whether to point it out, but thanks for doing so. I never know with the modern "sensitivian" movement if I'm gonna end up on the wrong end of a #metoo-type movement.

[ProGambler]

Impressive time investment into trolling but if real...

you're scum of the earth.

[kaotic]

Troll is obvious troll.

If this really happened, OP is a faggot who should be castrated.

[Alick]

Thanks to those who put positive comments. For remaining all calling me troll or other names........... I really don't care as you are just a binary number for me who have no influence in my real life.

I am sure I want the girl to deliver baby so I will be with her during her pregnancy. I will update this thread further how things goes in my messed up life.

CIAO

[kaotic]

(05-15-2018 01:51 PM)Alick Wrote:  

Thanks to those who put positive comments. For remaining all calling me troll or other names........... I really don't care as you are just a binary number for me who have no influence in my real life.

I am sure I want the girl to deliver baby so I will be with her during her pregnancy. I will update this thread further how things goes in my messed up life.

CIAO

You're a piece of shit bro, it's pretty simple.

You knock a chick up after deception and suddenly you don't want the responsibility.

Your dumbass decided to tell the girl to stop taking her birth control and then cum inside her multiple times.

What did you expect? Her to conceive a virgin birth?

Binary number? You're the one crying on here for advice, it doesn't affect any of us, only your pathetic self.


The only person I feel bad for is the child that will be born.


In your messed upped life, oh no, poor you!

You're the victim here, we've read this all wrong!


Grow the fuck up, take responsibility for your actions.

You made your bed, now you get to sleep in it.

[gework]

(05-15-2018 12:45 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

If this really happened, OP is a faggot who should be castrated.

Deffinetly something with this thread needs to be removed. I second Zelp.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(05-15-2018 01:51 PM)Alick Wrote:  

Thanks to those who put positive comments. For remaining all calling me troll or other names........... I really don't care as you are just a binary number for me who have no influence in my real life.

I am sure I want the girl to deliver baby so I will be with her during her pregnancy. I will update this thread further how things goes in my messed up life.

CIAO

Calling you names - right.

I assume that our assumption of you being Muslim is correct and she is thus just a piece of meat to you, in addition I guess a Western whore.

If you want to do the honorable thing, then don't fucking take her kid away via the usual Islamic cunning of "visiting the family in Tunisia/Marocco/Egypt/Syria/Pakistan" and then yanking the kid away from her. I strongly assume that those were your intentions, because what would a womanizing traveler need a kid for? Who would raise your child if you take it away from the girl? You are no Ronoldo who can hire 4 nannies to take care of his kid - and even he has now taken a real-life wifey and has a normal family life.

The honorable thing is to either:

1) Stay married with her and fuck on the side, tell her that you want to have an open relationship
2) Do it the old-school Playboy way of taking care of her financially and being a father to that child

But something tells me that you have other shitty plans typical of Islamic ones. There are entire organisations in many countries devoted to help women who married such guys like you - men who kidnapped the kids, so that the daughter would not be raised into 'a Western whore' - which is any woman who is not Muslim anyway.

Your weak English while being an "Australian" fits this story more than you being a wannabe MGTOW.