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05-14-2018, 05:13 PM
Guys,
I am so funny. I got this a lot from girls. But I don't use self-depreciating humor.
Should I keep this quality or put on the serious guy face?
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05-14-2018, 05:17 PM
Sense of humour is a good trait to have.
Just remember that you want to bang her, and not be her late night show host.
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05-14-2018, 05:45 PM
Are you sexualizing your conversations? Funny can be a great way to build comfort but if youre not working in sexual innuendo / double entendre youre heading down the friend zone highway
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05-14-2018, 06:22 PM
I think you have to be the right balance of funny and serious + assertive and impose both moods in the conversation. Give her a rollercoaster of emotion. Humour is a great asset to have.
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05-14-2018, 07:50 PM
Quote: (05-14-2018 05:45 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:
Are you sexualizing your conversations? Funny can be a great way to build comfort but if youre not working in sexual innuendo / double entendre youre heading down the friend zone highway
Any advice on how to do this? I mean sexualize the conversation. I often find myself as just "funny" with no sexualiziation.
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05-15-2018, 03:29 PM
I'd say the best naturals are the fun-flirty but also masculine DHV guys. If you got the jokes and tease that's good. Teases are almost absolutely- essential for nightgame cold approaches. Just work on your everything else -more sexual qualities
@chvrches its not hard to sexualize conversations, just talk about her. "Why are you so small/short? You must have been neglecting your bedtime hours"
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05-16-2018, 03:06 AM
@AceP Great idea, teasing them is a part of what i do, but i meant directly mentioning sex with them. Is sexualizing just indirect?
Also how do you deal with girls that are shy about opening up? Girls that get uncomfortable when you sexualize the conversation.
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05-16-2018, 10:56 AM
Be funny as in charming funny. Not funny as a clown. You want girls to smile and lightly laugh not piss-themselves laugh.
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