[elRey]

The past few months particularly, I've been really hitting orgies hard and I'd love to hear what other guys' experience has been. I've been stumbling into group sex at least once every couple of weeks on average now for the last few months and it has been mind blowing. My first orgy was less than a year ago, but I've been having them all the time, and I'm still quite young, so it has been interesting for me to learn how to get these parties started.

I'd love to know how some of you have been getting things started. I'm loving the energy of orgies and I've found a few things really help in getting things going. If you want to start getting into this, it's really rewarding.

No games, straight up

I've looked back on all the times I've happened on orgies, and I realised that I've approached things with an attitude that has been very chilled, casual, yet curious.

It has always started with curious conversation. Asking girls and couples about their experiences with group, and just entertaining ideas on why it would be hot to try out.

I've never never pushed for it, but instead just danced around the idea and verbalised why I think it's fun.

"I love the animalistic energy of a group vibe"
"I love watching the dynamic of a couple fucking each other intensely, I'm a bit of a voyeur"
"I love the idea of having two beautiful girls sucking me off slowly at the same time looking me in the eyes"
"I love the aggression of multiple guys fucking a thirsty attention craving beauty"

All these sentences not said in a way to awaken passion or anything... just like a passing comment. Imagine yourself saying "I really love the way a cold breeze hits my face on a really hot summer day." Creepy vibes can come out really easily, so just calm, non-suggestive discussion is all you need.

At the same time, it is very direct about what I'm desiring. Again, not in a thirsty way. But more in a far off fantasy way. There is no guessing about what I'm thinking though.

Substances

The reality is that the type of girls who would be open to orgies are the types who have had orgies in the past, are into the party scene, or are just a bit wild. I have had more orgies than I can count accurately in the past year and not a single one has gone without substances. Whether or not this is your thing is up to you.

I'm not talking alcohol or weed. You will need something a bit harder to get the mood right.

I've heard people saying they use A/B/C excuse to get a girl back to their place. I really have not had an easier time than saying "Hey, alcohol isn't really doing it for me, I've got some ______ at mine... have you tried it/do you like it?"

Substances just lead to sex... I've had lots of fun without them too. But damn... girls have more fun themselves when they're on something. And so do I

The right questions to ask

So, the conversation has to go somewhere.

You'll need to know if a girl is receptive to group sex. There are some pretty strong indicators that a girl will be receptive.

If she likes drugs, as I said, there is a much higher chance she is open to it. If she is bisexual or has played with girls. If she loves attention from guys and hangs around with guys a lot. Tattoos. Dyed hair. Self described 'poly'. She introduces you to girls she is out with (just ask her if she would be open to fucking you with a friend of her choice). Has worked in some part of the sex industry (former/current strippers/escorts etc.)

You don't have to ask if she is/was a stripper. You can always say "I've got a friend who has just got into stripping and loves it, but I'm not sure what to think...", and the girl will usually insert her thoughts. Let her do the talking.

Non-judgemental

Really fucking important. Doesn't seem like it, but it is.

Once you are comfortable with a girl, whether or not she opens up her sexually adventurous side to you will depend upon your genuine attitude to sexually open girls.

Is a girl a slut, or is she sexually comfortable. How you frame her sexual self during the conversation will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Now personally, I love people who are comfortable with their sexual desires and act them out. They are not sexually frustrated. They are more often at peace with themselves. But these girls are sometimes the subject of criticism from other girls or guys who call them sluts or whores or whatever. Whatever your perspective on the matter, if she feels that you are adversely judging her, she will clam up.

Reminisce about wild sex you've had in the past, or even make up an orgy story to make her feel more comfortable with the idea. I don't need to make things up, but I've found that once she feels I'm as much of a slut as her, she will start to tell her own stories. And then I listen. And keep listening. And ask curiously. Then she becomes comfortable.

Make it fucking happen

I have initiated the vast majority of orgies I've been involved in. The key is just asking when everyone, or the main girl involved, is comfortable and relaxed.

Here are a few lines I specifically remember over the past couple of months that got the party happening:

"Do you want to have a threesome?" (two Swedish girls giggle) "hahahha where would we have it???" "My place is two minutes walk away." (before they respond properly to that, I kissed one girl for a few seconds, then the other)

(she mentions she has fantasised about multiple guys fucking her, also turns me on, seeing a girl get railed like that) "oh wow, so you're into gangbangs? I mean you've thought about them" "hmmm... yeah" "I've got a hotel room, enough coke to keep us going for nights and nights, and you've got tinder and a contacts list, let's make it happen"

"Wow, your girlfriend is a stripper" "Yeah bro" "I'll bring the G, you bring the Girl, let's double penetrate her!" "Hahaha sure" (G refers to GBL or GHB which is a depressant drug and fantastic for loosening girls up for sex, be extremely careful with dosage, completely legal in Canada apparently. But I'm not from Canada hahaha)

"Your friend is fucking hot. I love you, you are much more beautiful to me. But I would love you to ride me while she sucks my balls." Girl laughs then says "Sounds like a plan"

I've had such an insane time with group sex. It has really brought me into a new world of sexual pleasure. 10/10 highly recommend

what have your best experiences been? how have you initiated group sex?

[NextStop100]

You pulled the threesome in Sweden ? I find European girls are more open to group sex

[elRey]

All of this has happened in Sydney, Australia. About to travel for a while though... so let's see if I can keep up this magic overseas

Scandinavian girls in Australia come here to party and go nuts. They are not the same in their home countries. As they have ALL admitted to me hahahahah

[Aurini]

There's a reason I'm big into monogamy now.

[DigitalNomad]

Nonjudgmental is so key to everything that involves getting laid. You really can't give a shit, whether she says she was married and doesn't normally do things like this, or if she says she's had a bunch of threesomes and banged 100 guys. You can literally tell a girl anything and as long as you don't judge her for the same, she'll probably be fine with it, if not turned on by it. I always ask girls what their sluttiest stories are and things like that. Ask them if they've ever had a threesome, whether they'd rather do it with 2 guys or 2 girls, then just be like, hey, we should do it. I will say none of mine have involved anything but alcohol, mainly because I don't really ever have anything else at my house, so that part isn't necessary... definitely could see it helping a lot as well though.

[Mister Crowley]

Seems like this is "How to Get a Threesome" game.

[SteezeySteve]

Stopped reading after ghb. Fuck guys who drug girls.even Coke and Molly (aka amphetamines + random research chems)fuck your bodybuilding g4p rape drug shit. You are a loser with no style.if you are into ghb and orgies I am 100% sure you have sucked a dick before.

Long term nothing good comes out of that shit.drug use promises glamour and great things but is never worth it.

Gameless degenerate druggy. Your attitude and culture spreads like flame destroying all in its path in our society.

Surprised no "Make sure you buy the bitch a four loko to make her blackout while you're at it!"

[Banna]

(05-08-2018 11:15 PM)SteezeySteve Wrote:  

Stopped reading after ghb. Fuck guys who drug girls.even Coke and Molly (aka amphetamines + random research chems)fuck your bodybuilding g4p rape drug shit. You are a loser with no style.if you are into ghb and orgies I am 100% sure you have sucked a dick before.

Long term nothing good comes out of that shit.drug use promises glamour and great things but is never worth it.

Gameless degenerate druggy. Your attitude and culture spreads like flame destroying all in its path in our society.

Surprised no "Make sure you buy the bitch a four loko to make her blackout while you're at it!"

I went back to this girls apartment from the club like a month ago that I'd already banged awhile back

I was going through a drought and was kinda happy to see her again to let off some steam

We stepped in her apartment and started kissing and about to go at it once again. Said let's go in the bathroom Then all kinds of crazy shit started coming outta her mouth.

Can you fucking take me home now? (We were already at her place!
"I hate your guts"
"I love you so much"
"Can you fuck me right now? "

She couldn't even stand up. I realized maaaan is this chick ever messed the fuck up.

I lifted her up naked despte that she weighed 300 lbs deadweight and tucked her into bed and left.

Messages me 2 days later and asks me if we had sex. I told her no. She said she got blood work done and drugs from some guy she accepted drinks from were found in her system.

You just don't fuck women in that state of mind....you just don't.

[MongolianAbroad]

(05-09-2018 12:29 AM)Banna Wrote:  

(05-08-2018 11:15 PM)SteezeySteve Wrote:  

Stopped reading after ghb. Fuck guys who drug girls.even Coke and Molly (aka amphetamines + random research chems)fuck your bodybuilding g4p rape drug shit. You are a loser with no style.if you are into ghb and orgies I am 100% sure you have sucked a dick before.

Long term nothing good comes out of that shit.drug use promises glamour and great things but is never worth it.

Gameless degenerate druggy. Your attitude and culture spreads like flame destroying all in its path in our society.

Surprised no "Make sure you buy the bitch a four loko to make her blackout while you're at it!"

I went back to this girls apartment from the club like a month ago that I'd already banged awhile back

I was going through a drought and was kinda happy to see her again to let off some steam

We stepped in her apartment and started kissing and about to go at it once again. Said let's go in the bathroom Then all kinds of crazy shit started coming outta her mouth.

Can you fucking take me home now? (We were already at her place!
"I hate your guts"
"I love you so much"
"Can you fuck me right now? "

She couldn't even stand up. I realized maaaan is this chick ever messed the fuck up.

I lifted her up naked despte that she weighed 300 lbs deadweight and tucked her into bed and left.

Messages me 2 days later and asks me if we had sex. I told her no. She said she got blood work done and drugs from some guy she accepted drinks from were found in her system.

You just don't fuck women in that state of mind....you just don't.

The thirst is real...

[eradicator]

Banna why are you going home with a 300 pounder?

[Bienvenuto]

Thread derailed.

Chemsex parties are a thing.

having sex with a girl when you are both on drugs is also a thing.

Both are alot of fun.

If you're not into it you're not into it and I can decently see good reasons for that but the likelihood is if you head back to someone's place in a group after a club and start to get it on with just one or even many people then drugs are going to be used by some of that group at some point (maybe not taken by you but by others)

...
Just don't do it in China - they'll execute you.

OP - do you usually set this up from night game or online game or..?

[CleanSlate]

(05-09-2018 12:50 AM)eradicator Wrote:  

Banna why are you going home with a 300 pounder?

Yeah, I was wondering if that was a typo, or if I really needed another cup of coffee.

[PBX]

Quote:

Non-judgemental

Really fucking important. Doesn't seem like it, but it is.

Once you are comfortable with a girl, whether or not she opens up her sexually adventurous side to you will depend upon your genuine attitude to sexually open girls.

Is a girl a slut, or is she sexually comfortable. How you frame her sexual self during the conversation will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Now personally, I love people who are comfortable with their sexual desires and act them out. They are not sexually frustrated. They are more often at peace with themselves. But these girls are sometimes the subject of criticism from other girls or guys who call them sluts or whores or whatever. Whatever your perspective on the matter, if she feels that you are adversely judging her, she will clam up.

Reminisce about wild sex you've had in the past, or even make up an orgy story to make her feel more comfortable with the idea. I don't need to make things up, but I've found that once she feels I'm as much of a slut as her, she will start to tell her own stories. And then I listen. And keep listening. And ask curiously. Then she becomes comfortable.

So important.

Now I've had only 4 orgies in my life, but on each occasion it went like this:

1. We were talking casually
2. We were talking sexually
3. We started to share some stories of crazy things we had done in the past

Once you get to that point, the girls are open and feel that you won't judge them, pretty much anything can happen.

[thebassist]

(05-08-2018 11:15 PM)SteezeySteve Wrote:  

Stopped reading after ghb. Fuck guys who drug girls.even Coke and Molly (aka amphetamines + random research chems)fuck your bodybuilding g4p rape drug shit. You are a loser with no style.if you are into ghb and orgies I am 100% sure you have sucked a dick before.

Long term nothing good comes out of that shit.drug use promises glamour and great things but is never worth it.

Gameless degenerate druggy. Your attitude and culture spreads like flame destroying all in its path in our society.

Surprised no "Make sure you buy the bitch a four loko to make her blackout while you're at it!"

This comment made me laugh.

I wonder where all this vitriol is coming from.

Former addict possibly?

I guess you would also be in the camp that believes Bill Cosby is a rapist then eh.

[Dirtyblueshirt]

There's nothing wrong with doing recreational drugs with a girl and then having sex. Unless you're Bill Cosby, then it might come back and bite you in the ass years later.

[YoungBlade]

So I get fucking a bunch of chicks at the same time.

But when there's another dude involved, how often do you end up with his jizz on you?

That ain't something I can get behind.

[Suits]

I'd like to see a datasheet on how to have casual sex with a room full of women without paying, without involving drugs and without another penis being involved.

[Akwesi]

(05-09-2018 06:46 AM)Suits Wrote:  

I'd like to see a datasheet on how to have casual sex with a room full of women without paying, without involving drugs and without another penis being involved.

I think Mixx had a thread on that. Fifteen girls, was it? For some reason he got banned...

[Banna]

(05-09-2018 12:49 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

(05-09-2018 12:29 AM)Banna Wrote:  

(05-08-2018 11:15 PM)SteezeySteve Wrote:  

Stopped reading after ghb. Fuck guys who drug girls.even Coke and Molly (aka amphetamines + random research chems)fuck your bodybuilding g4p rape drug shit. You are a loser with no style.if you are into ghb and orgies I am 100% sure you have sucked a dick before.

Long term nothing good comes out of that shit.drug use promises glamour and great things but is never worth it.

Gameless degenerate druggy. Your attitude and culture spreads like flame destroying all in its path in our society.

Surprised no "Make sure you buy the bitch a four loko to make her blackout while you're at it!"

I went back to this girls apartment from the club like a month ago that I'd already banged awhile back

I was going through a drought and was kinda happy to see her again to let off some steam

We stepped in her apartment and started kissing and about to go at it once again. Said let's go in the bathroom Then all kinds of crazy shit started coming outta her mouth.

Can you fucking take me home now? (We were already at her place!
"I hate your guts"
"I love you so much"
"Can you fuck me right now? "

She couldn't even stand up. I realized maaaan is this chick ever messed the fuck up.

I lifted her up naked despte that she weighed 300 lbs deadweight and tucked her into bed and left.

Messages me 2 days later and asks me if we had sex. I told her no. She said she got blood work done and drugs from some guy she accepted drinks from were found in her system.

You just don't fuck women in that state of mind....you just don't.

The thirst is real...

That was an exaggeration. She is actually a very petite girl. I easily threw her on my shoulders months earlier at a club having fun when she was sober. I mentioned the word deadweight but I guess everyone is in haste to criticize.

When a girl has 0 control of her bodily functions and is laying on the floor under the influence of whatever she is heavy as fuck to lift....hence the 300 lb reference.

You're right about thirsty.....any guy that'd boast about getting a girl into a drugged state for sex is not only thirsty but a piece of shit as well.

[Suits]

(05-09-2018 06:54 AM)Akwesi Wrote:  

(05-09-2018 06:46 AM)Suits Wrote:  

I'd like to see a datasheet on how to have casual sex with a room full of women without paying, without involving drugs and without another penis being involved.

I think Mixx had a thread on that. Fifteen girls, was it? For some reason he got banned...

No, he didn't.

[Rang off the Pipe]

Akwesi is referring to a post in this thread.

thread-4655-...t=winnipeg

MiXX Wrote:

well......it's the morning after. I woke up to 2 girls in my bed (naked), and one off them woke-up with a serious hangover, so I am making her a bloody mary for breakfast with toast.

I'll get into details if you guys want, but for now, before they both get fully up, I'll give you a sneak peek.

Before we went out to The Hub (15 of them and me, talk about having social proof) we were checking of her list. Now, picture this, I am in a small 600SF room (50m sq) of the hotel, and I am ALONE with them all. Lots of screaming, drinking, laughing..and one yelled to me "TAKE IT OFF, TAKE IT OFF" and before long, they were all yelling "take off your clothes!!!"

I took off my shirt, and 2 came from behind me and pinned me to the bed - as another started pouring 1800 tequila all over my chest and stomach..."snack time girls!" she yelled!...and about 8 girls bum-rushed me to start slurping shots off me, one after the other (its was crazy), and another 2 hold my arms pinned down to the bed....

This lasted about 30 minutes, until I feel my belt buckle being undone!!!

I said woah, woah..."not without a condom girls", and one replied "ssssshhhhh - quiet!"

What happened next was just something out of a porn movie that I was NOT ready for...they did a train carousel on me.....all got in line, and had 60 seconds to suck me off! (this was their idea not mine, I'm pinned to the bed helpless)

For the next 15 minutes, My cock went thru 15 different mouths and I was just filled with druel all over my balls - everywhere!


Finally, one girls said "FUCK THAT!" Took off her panties, and pulled up her cocktail dress, and thrust my cock inside her pussy started riding me cowgirl........I freaked out as this bitch did not put a condom on me FFFUUUUUCCCCCCKKKKKKKK!!!


** while all this is happening, lots of screaming and cheering her on and just chaos!

I just lay there and let it happen, nothing I could do at that point.....there was no turning back from the hungry packs of she-wolves.

Well, I don't drink, but I took a shot of tequila (2 actually) because I had to calm my nerves from what just happened. I said fuck it, guys dream about what is happening to me right now, and I cannot let the RooshV forum guys down of living it out for them. Was I just raped? I feel so weird and my hand was shaking at the time.


By nighst end, 2 girls just knocked on my door, drunk as fuck, and said...."we're horny".

I got some condoms out (not that it matters now, one of their girls raw-dogged me that bitch!).

So, one night I just won't ever forget.......I hope those fucking pics DO NOT END up on Facebook nd go viral! My mom would never speak to me again! Sad


I need some time-off to spend with my parents, I miss them....then off to Colombia.

See you North Dakota.....

I got a good laugh reading that again.

[Suits]

That's some incredibly solid fiction writing.

[Steelex]

Nothing wrong with a little drug use to make a good time even better. I wouldn't get Cosby with it, but if she wants to get fucked up don't be the asshole that stops her

[Simeon_Strangelight]

First of all we have to define an orgy.

A threesome is not an orgy.
If you have a threesome with 2 girls and invite a friend over, then it's still not an orgy - it's you being stupid and overly generous and you are having a foursome.

An orgy starts with 3 girls and if necessary 2 guys. Ideally you have 10-20 girls per 2 guys. A good ratio is 3-5 times as many women than men. In some colleges those things happen regularly. To do it without any money later in life involves a certain degree of planning and I would be interested to know how you can plan that.

I have been to one where the guy was a mini-celebrity and invited over a bunch of girls and I tagged along. Parties are another way to go. There are however girls who are actually into this orgy thing. Unfortunately their numbers are very low. Still - she said that there are some guys who do orgies under the motto - EVERYONE FUCKS EVERYONE. It's organized more under the auspices of a weekend getaway at a country-house of a guy. Every male friend brings at least 1-3 girls who go there knowing that they will fuck every guy. After a time you get a pool of girls that you can call up for the next orgy weekend.

This requires however a few things:

1) Nice logistics and greater financial resources are a big plus
2) Game and already some access to the right kind of girls - it was interesting to find out that some of the girls who participated for free were strippers or sugar-babes - they have a high libido, but don't get laid enough with men they like to fuck
3) Wingmen and male friends also who are both adequately attractive and have some Game

Anyone having experiences with such weekend-orgies? I personally haven't moved forward beyond the planning stage.

[Geomann180]

(05-09-2018 06:34 AM)YoungBlade Wrote:  

So I get fucking a bunch of chicks at the same time.

But when there's another dude involved, how often do you end up with his jizz on you?

That ain't something I can get behind.

Asking the hard questions, I see.

G