How I have gone from discovering group sex, to constant orgies in the past year
05-24-2018, 02:20 PM
This is slightly off-topic from the orgy discussion, but relevant to the substance-use discussion. Maybe some may find it enlightening:
It's a real trip for me to sit back and read all the anti-substance opinions and criticisms of mixing sex with drugs and alcohol. Most especially the opinions of what "kind of people" use drugs.
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I was hardlined straightedge up until my late 20's. The beliefs a lot of people are espousing in here echo the same viewpoints I had in my young adulthood. Now I have become one of those people who my young-self would have judged negatively. I like to go to clubs and house parties, get drunk, blow coke, pop molly, etc. The difference is, all the arguments against the opinions I used to have about that stuff all make sense now because I have opened my mind to it.
When I take drugs or drink alcohol I'm not hurting anyone. When I take drugs and do alcohol with a female we aren't hurting anyone or eachother. We are two people enjoying something that enhances our experience in one way or another. Being sober isn't "boring" but I also recognize it is impossible to experience the sensations drugs can give you while being sober. If we can all agree that having sex with an attractive woman is different than jerking off, then we can all agree that doing drugs is different than being sober.
With that said, recognize that some people are celibate and don't have sex for whatever reason(s) they may have.
Recognize that some people are sober and don't take any mind altering substances for whatever reason(s) they may have.
^Neither of those things are good OR bad. They are simply life choices that people make that have zero negative effect on others (barring extreme cases).
It's a real trip for me to sit back and read all the anti-substance opinions and criticisms of mixing sex with drugs and alcohol. Most especially the opinions of what "kind of people" use drugs.
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I was hardlined straightedge up until my late 20's. The beliefs a lot of people are espousing in here echo the same viewpoints I had in my young adulthood. Now I have become one of those people who my young-self would have judged negatively. I like to go to clubs and house parties, get drunk, blow coke, pop molly, etc. The difference is, all the arguments against the opinions I used to have about that stuff all make sense now because I have opened my mind to it.
When I take drugs or drink alcohol I'm not hurting anyone. When I take drugs and do alcohol with a female we aren't hurting anyone or eachother. We are two people enjoying something that enhances our experience in one way or another. Being sober isn't "boring" but I also recognize it is impossible to experience the sensations drugs can give you while being sober. If we can all agree that having sex with an attractive woman is different than jerking off, then we can all agree that doing drugs is different than being sober.
With that said, recognize that some people are celibate and don't have sex for whatever reason(s) they may have.
Recognize that some people are sober and don't take any mind altering substances for whatever reason(s) they may have.
^Neither of those things are good OR bad. They are simply life choices that people make that have zero negative effect on others (barring extreme cases).
