things I learned from staying for a month with my uncle in NYC
05-03-2018, 08:18 PM
My uncle is a big shot businessman downtown. There's no chance in the world that a man like me and a man like him would ever get a chance to have a conversation or eat dinner together, let alone do this every night, if we weren't blood related.
The first few days were tough. I just came there from South America and not only that my status dropped compared to what I was before, but also the things that interest my uncle annoyed me: politics, army and war stories.
After a while I set aside my anger and astonishment and started wondering about him. Here are the things I learned:
1) he's a natural.
By the time he was 18 he was already on a rotation of 4 girls. Always had ONS regularly and was never shy.
He walks fast and always ahead. You will always be behind him while he's leading the way.
He has natural game where he opens a conversation with random people in the elevator, in the bar, the waitress, the hostess, and always gets good responses and benefits. One time he flirted with the hostess in a restaurant and she let us skip the line. He's almost 70.
2) he thinks everyone is an idiot and he knows better.
This one is really a motive. This guy is never wrong until it is proven black over white that he's wrong. He believes in what he says and does 100%.
3) He makes decisions based on pure intuition.
He once told me that sometimes when you feel something is worth doing you gotta just do it. If you keep thinking and anaylizing it chances are you're gonna find a dozen reasons not to do it.
4) The rules of business apply to game with women and vice versa.
One time he put one of his project managers on speaker and I was listening. The manager was saying how he is negotiating with a supplier, trying not to agree over a certain price. And how this supplier basically agreed to the terms but has yet signed and was trying to buy time. The manager was angry and said that he's negotiating with 4 other suppliers so he won't be needy and wouldn't back off because once they agree to pay a certain price to one supplier, everyone is gonna find out and want too.
5) Abundance mentality.
He never works with 1 supplier for a certain mission. There are always at least 3 in rotation. Nobody can ever grab him by the balls.
I resonated a lot with 3, 4 and 5 because they reminded me a lot about the procesd of learning game and women behavior. I always knew that the things we learn about women and game apply not only to women but to everyday social interactions.
The first few days were tough. I just came there from South America and not only that my status dropped compared to what I was before, but also the things that interest my uncle annoyed me: politics, army and war stories.
After a while I set aside my anger and astonishment and started wondering about him. Here are the things I learned:
1) he's a natural.
By the time he was 18 he was already on a rotation of 4 girls. Always had ONS regularly and was never shy.
He walks fast and always ahead. You will always be behind him while he's leading the way.
He has natural game where he opens a conversation with random people in the elevator, in the bar, the waitress, the hostess, and always gets good responses and benefits. One time he flirted with the hostess in a restaurant and she let us skip the line. He's almost 70.
2) he thinks everyone is an idiot and he knows better.
This one is really a motive. This guy is never wrong until it is proven black over white that he's wrong. He believes in what he says and does 100%.
3) He makes decisions based on pure intuition.
He once told me that sometimes when you feel something is worth doing you gotta just do it. If you keep thinking and anaylizing it chances are you're gonna find a dozen reasons not to do it.
4) The rules of business apply to game with women and vice versa.
One time he put one of his project managers on speaker and I was listening. The manager was saying how he is negotiating with a supplier, trying not to agree over a certain price. And how this supplier basically agreed to the terms but has yet signed and was trying to buy time. The manager was angry and said that he's negotiating with 4 other suppliers so he won't be needy and wouldn't back off because once they agree to pay a certain price to one supplier, everyone is gonna find out and want too.
5) Abundance mentality.
He never works with 1 supplier for a certain mission. There are always at least 3 in rotation. Nobody can ever grab him by the balls.
I resonated a lot with 3, 4 and 5 because they reminded me a lot about the procesd of learning game and women behavior. I always knew that the things we learn about women and game apply not only to women but to everyday social interactions.
