I will give you a story from yesterday then a TL;DR at the end, if you want to skip to my question... Pretty mess of a story this will be, but pardon me, not used to tell stories.
Yesterday evening me and my friend went down to the city, cause two of our friends had recently a birthday. So these 2 birthday girls invited us to a few drinks, and i really wasnt into any of those girls, one is a 6 other is around 5.
But my friend really wants to get together with the 6 so i thought wahtever at least i wont sit alone, and i might try game the other chick, give my friend a wing, and remove the 5.
Things went Ok, so to say. For me it went better, then for him. Started boring, a lot of walk "where to go" which i hate to do, takes a lot of time, so i decided to sit in a park, we brought drinks anyway. Now this could be mistake #1 cause we sat in a line, girl beside girl guy beside guy... Not so much possibilities for any contact, either be it touching or eye~...
Then we bounced to the next place, fast forward to the pub. Nothing happened until then. The girls were drunk, we werent... We played a little table-football, now with mixed teams, so i tried to escalate, did a bunch of kino, yadda yadda... But i had no balls to go for the kiss, im a retard i know, drunk girl who is DTF yet i was unable to do shit... And then things went cold, we were again sitting outside, 2 sides of the table, again guys-girls separated, cause why not... So then the night went like this for hours, and when again the opportunity came to be mixed, i was like "but this would be fucked up, i literally havent done anything in 2 hours how would it come down if i try to escalate now"...
TL;DR
So yeah couldnt escalate properly, and not even close to the closing. I were unable to do my part and separate us properly. But then again my friend did even less, which i do not care about now, my problem is that how i fucked, up how could've i moved better.
Like when the girl went out to the bathroom, that was the only moment i think when i could've gone after her and be together, and leave my friends together. But wouldnt have it been too weird if i did that.
Oh btw. i think i'm like 3 point ahead on the SMV from the girls, so i really dont know why i was so shy. But i would appreciate any advice. What could've i done better and so. If i dont get the girl who cares, i just want to improve.
Oh and moreover the top of my cringiness i didnt bring my wallet, so i couldnt even pay for myself, but at least i drank free.
Yesterday evening me and my friend went down to the city, cause two of our friends had recently a birthday. So these 2 birthday girls invited us to a few drinks, and i really wasnt into any of those girls, one is a 6 other is around 5.
But my friend really wants to get together with the 6 so i thought wahtever at least i wont sit alone, and i might try game the other chick, give my friend a wing, and remove the 5.
Things went Ok, so to say. For me it went better, then for him. Started boring, a lot of walk "where to go" which i hate to do, takes a lot of time, so i decided to sit in a park, we brought drinks anyway. Now this could be mistake #1 cause we sat in a line, girl beside girl guy beside guy... Not so much possibilities for any contact, either be it touching or eye~...
Then we bounced to the next place, fast forward to the pub. Nothing happened until then. The girls were drunk, we werent... We played a little table-football, now with mixed teams, so i tried to escalate, did a bunch of kino, yadda yadda... But i had no balls to go for the kiss, im a retard i know, drunk girl who is DTF yet i was unable to do shit... And then things went cold, we were again sitting outside, 2 sides of the table, again guys-girls separated, cause why not... So then the night went like this for hours, and when again the opportunity came to be mixed, i was like "but this would be fucked up, i literally havent done anything in 2 hours how would it come down if i try to escalate now"...
TL;DR
So yeah couldnt escalate properly, and not even close to the closing. I were unable to do my part and separate us properly. But then again my friend did even less, which i do not care about now, my problem is that how i fucked, up how could've i moved better.
Like when the girl went out to the bathroom, that was the only moment i think when i could've gone after her and be together, and leave my friends together. But wouldnt have it been too weird if i did that.
Oh btw. i think i'm like 3 point ahead on the SMV from the girls, so i really dont know why i was so shy. But i would appreciate any advice. What could've i done better and so. If i dont get the girl who cares, i just want to improve.
Oh and moreover the top of my cringiness i didnt bring my wallet, so i couldnt even pay for myself, but at least i drank free.