[Mizo1234]

She was sitting in between her parents (dad and mom) in cafe .She looked at me and smiled couple of times . She looked like early 20’s

What would you do ? I was thinking of opening the dad first !

[JackinMelbourne]

I'd go somewhere she can see you, like the bar and wait for her to show up nearby (which they do), or actively gesture for her to sneak away from her olds. Then you have more freedom to talk openly and can arrange a meet somewhere else later if you vibe. No need to make her and her parents uncomfortable, it's a dick move especially if you're older than she is.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

There are guys who did it that I know. When you are younger in your 20s, then you approach the girl like always, then simply address the dad, that you are just politely ask a girl for a date since you find her interesting.

When you are older, then this will hardly fly with the dad, so you will have to wait until she is alone.

[XXL]

Approach parents, say something nice to them, ask if you don't interrupt them (it helps a lot), ask if you could exchange words with their daughter. Then talk to the girl. It is easier than approaching group of girls.

[Mizo1234]

(04-26-2018 02:10 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

There are guys who did it that I know. When you are younger in your 20s, then you approach the girl like always, then simply address the dad, that you are just politely ask a girl for a date since you find her interesting.

When you are older, then this will hardly fly with the dad, so you will have to wait until she is alone.

I look 28 yo and she looks 22 yo.

[Mizo1234]

(04-26-2018 12:01 AM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  

I'd go somewhere she can see you, like the bar and wait for her to show up nearby (which they do), or actively gesture for her to sneak away from her olds. Then you have more freedom to talk openly and can arrange a meet somewhere else later if you vibe. No need to make her and her parents uncomfortable, it's a dick move especially if you're older than she is.

I had this idea but it was too late already

[JackinMelbourne]

(04-26-2018 04:28 PM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  

I had this idea but it was too late already

That's the beauty of all this. You can think of things later (too late) and can apply them next time a similar scenario pops up

...and the more opportunities you miss, (or take and fail) the more you learn, test and adapt.