[makaveli]

I'm tired of buyers remorse.
It seems to be the sticking point that I haven't solved yet.

Saturday i got some of the greatest sex in my life with a nice petite and skinny 22 year old. She is "white trash" which I like for sexual relationships. Very beautiful and thin and sexy legs, but non-classy. White dress and white high heels, blonde long hair.

She did dirty stuff in bed, and I really really like her naked thin body. Also, she is easy to be around.
So naturally I would like to have sex with her again.

She was a date from tinder and she agreed to meet me with close to none texting back and forth. She came to my place, even though she was very slow at responding my text and I thought it was a dead deal to meet up.

When she came we had a glas of red wine and another beverage called ICE, and then we went to a bar in my small town of maybe 50.000 residents.
We had a couple of drinks and danced. I had to physically push a tall globalist, probably a WK, who kept staring at her and walking into her even when she was clearly hanging out with me. First he started to act big until his friend stopped him. Everybody was staring at us, and all guys in the bar looked at her a lot. Plenty of arabs and big guys in there, more physically intimidating than me.
Girls came up to her to NEG her a couple of times.

Took her home after "surviving" having a hot girl with me with me in the cage with hungry globalists, cucks, soyboys, non-westerners and fags.

Great great great sex. great body. She told me she was my whore, and that I was SO "handsome"/"wonderful"(she used word of affection and attraction that I can't really translate)
She left before I woke up.
Responded to a couple of texts.
Then stopped responding.

I do often make the mistake of texting more than once if i don't get a reply withing a couple of hours.

However. This is not the first time this has happened to me.
More often than not, girls seem to loose interest in me after sex.

My methods of picking up women includes Tinder, daygame and night game.
Rarely do I have sex with females that I have some kind of relation to beforehand.
Looking at the data from more than 120-130+ bangs, there is definately a lower tendency of buyers remorse from daytime pick ups.
The tendency is, that if I have quick sex, that is, on the first date, there is a high probability of buyers remorse, especially the more attractive ones.

Then why not go for more comfort building before hand?
I do believe I have tried that, with the result of not staying interesting long enough to get a notch.
It's as if i have to go for sex very quickly, to even get sex. Maybe this is a false belief, but I do think that the modern dating market with lots of competition between males, makes it harder to stay relevant for a longer period in the eyes of the females.
So my belief is: I have to go for sex fast, in order to ensure event getting sex.

Facts about me that MIGHT contribute to buyers remorse:
-I am not so low in body fat at the moment (I did experience buyers remorse with very low body fat as well)
I am almost done with my education as a nurse, and I work in a psychiatric ward. This is maybe not the ideal male occupation. (But i did also experience lot's of buyers remorse when I worked with sales)
-My age is 25, and I have a daughter who is almost 4 years old, some women has told me that they love children and some have told me that they don't want a man with children. However I have an old friend who is a player (natural, 5'8 like me), who also has a daughter. females have always seemed to be throwing themselves at him and many are "falling in love" with him.

So I ask you for advice.
Because I really am tired of HUNTING for fresh pussy all the time. It's time consuming.
I would like to "Keep" some girls around. (Some times I'm lucky to keep girls around, so it's not like it's never happened before)
Buyers remorse have plagued me since the time i became a player.
What to do?

Sincerely thank you in advance, from your friend - Makaveli

[Shimmy]

How white trashy are we talking? Double wide or single wide trailer?

[Jetset]

I've never had to push a globalist before. What's that like?

[KeepMovingForward]

Damn bro, other girls NEGGING your girl. She must be major hot if HB's are NEGGING her! I think this will only help you though, it's usually a massive DHV when you're PRESELECTED by HBS

[kaotic]

(04-23-2018 04:52 PM)Jetset Wrote:  

I've never had to push a globalist before. What's that like?

[Salvadore]

I used to have that too where I wasn't able to get a girl to stick around after sex. I couldn't believe it or understand why she wouldn't want to see me again, because in my mind I thought I had been so hyper alpha and masculine.

But it changed a lot when I focused on making more of a connection with the girl rather than just doing my usual strategy with being extremely cocky and assholish.

I would start to open up about myself and my life a bit more and sometimes have a bit of a "deep talk" and also give more compliments on their personality traits when we were out on the dates.

Like "Damn. I really like this about you actually... that you seem so fucking friendly to people and so positive all the time. You see me, I just got this cloud of complete darkness inside here haha".

That way, they'll actually start acting friendlier too. But I would also ask the girl to tell me some really dark shit about her that practically no one else really knew about her, which makes her open up a bit and I would do the same. I think girls have felt that since we're sharing "deeper" stuff, it also makes us closer to one another. We bond a bit more than just that raw primitive sex.

And you'll be able to understand the girl a bit better that way too and even though casual sex is always superficial, it will be less so and I think you'll get more out of it. I think it's all about connecting on a deeper level at the end of the day.

[Cheetah]

By looking at the picture she doesn't really look petite as you said she was.

Did you want to make the girl your girlfriend?

[456]

I thought this thread would be about a guy having buyer's remorse...

Thought: be less impressed with how hot she is. Also, keep 'Everything Else Forum' labels out of your head while gaming.

She probably felt how important this was to you. You did well the night of (it's great to hear flattery from a conquest), but maybe you sub-communicated neediness after. This one "meant something" and that something is the forest from which the trees milled to construct her pedestal grew.

[average]

looks like a v bangable bod

[makaveli]

(04-23-2018 05:48 PM)Salvadore Wrote:  

I used to have that too where I wasn't able to get a girl to stick around after sex. I couldn't believe it or understand why she wouldn't want to see me again, because in my mind I thought I had been so hyper alpha and masculine.

But it changed a lot when I focused on making more of a connection with the girl rather than just doing my usual strategy with being extremely cocky and assholish.

I would start to open up about myself and my life a bit more and sometimes have a bit of a "deep talk" and also give more compliments on their personality traits when we were out on the dates.

Like "Damn. I really like this about you actually... that you seem so fucking friendly to people and so positive all the time. You see me, I just got this cloud of complete darkness inside here haha".

That way, they'll actually start acting friendlier too. But I would also ask the girl to tell me some really dark shit about her that practically no one else really knew about her, which makes her open up a bit and I would do the same. I think girls have felt that since we're sharing "deeper" stuff, it also makes us closer to one another. We bond a bit more than just that raw primitive sex.

And you'll be able to understand the girl a bit better that way too and even though casual sex is always superficial, it will be less so and I think you'll get more out of it. I think it's all about connecting on a deeper level at the end of the day.

This sounds like good advice. Maybe I should focus more on getting a deeper connection with the ones I'd like to keep around.

(04-23-2018 05:59 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  

By looking at the picture she doesn't really look petite as you said she was.

Did you want to make the girl your girlfriend?

No I don't want her as my girlfriend. Honestly, a side of me felt embarrassed because of her white dress and white high heels, while I'm dressing quite well myself. Also, she has been an abuser of Hash, ( not anymore ) and I couldn't see myself with a woman who has been an addict.

(04-23-2018 07:37 PM)456 Wrote:  

I thought this thread would be about a guy having buyer's remorse...

Thought: be less impressed with how hot she is. Also, keep 'Everything Else Forum' labels out of your head while gaming.

She probably felt how important this was to you. You did well the night of (it's great to hear flattery from a conquest), but maybe you sub-communicated neediness after. This one "meant something" and that something is the forest from which the trees milled to construct her pedestal grew.

Do you think it's important to not sub-communicate neediness after?

This might true about me, maybe I sub communicate neediness by texting more than once. I play the game from meeting to sex very well.. Then after that, maybe I assume that I have been "accepted", and then forget to apply game principles.

[456]

Right -- like maybe things are going great and you pause to think "wow, things are going great! what if ___" -- and the moment you start filling in _____ with "positive near-future thoughts" you take your eye off the ball.

Instead try to have a more stoic default emotion of "yeah this is great right now, zero expectations for tomorrow".

If that's hard, understand that if she married you tomorrow you'd have 10 things you can't stand about her in 3 months.

Point is psyche yourself into having some perspective.

(It can be hard if she's hitting your BONER buttons, as this chick's "v bangable" bod absolutely would for me! Like, don't obsess about how hot she is because then you will perceive every guy as undermining you to hit on her, etc. Even if it's happening, act like you've been there before and don't give a care because you're the man.)