Good girls vs Bad girls ?
First, to me yes there is a dichotomy between the two because some chicks definitively have any higher T than some others (exactly like some man are more effeminate than others).
Second, I noticed that as i grow older i am actually more interested into bad girl because I feel far more confident about my sexual abilities now (I'm 26) than when i was younger. So I need somehow someone who matches that.
Third, I am ok with open relationships and i am not really possessive and i just like someone low maintenance to pass some time with.
Here my vision of things
Bad girl : She has her shit together and need a strong guy to tame her. She is challenging and love to bang.
Good girl : She is the one who requires you to make good bucks. She is more dependent on you. In return she is very caring toward you. It definitively feels more transactional.
Bad girls :
Pros
- Wild and spontaneous
- Laidback
- Flirty (imrpove my sense of manliness)
- Not afraid to stand up for herself (‘I don’t take shit from anybody’ attitude)
- Open minded
- Great sexual chemistry (open to anything/ kinks)
- Strong sex drive
- Challenge my masculinity (and act submissive once tamed) Damn I love it !
- More independent (less demanding) doesn’t require commitment
- Make me feel like a stud (and manly)
Cons
- Less loyal
- Less caring
- Can try to manipulate at times
- Not really well mannered (can be disagreeable at times)
- Impatient
- Not willing to listen to you for hours
Good girls :
Pros
- Responsible (she does what she says… never derive from that)
- Calm and timid (no need to tame her)
- She stays somewhat in the background
- She has a really specific plan for the future
- She is polite and well mannered
- Listen to your problems
- Nurturing/ comforting
- Has moral values and head on shoulders
Cons
- Less spontaneous than the bad girl
- Prude (damn i feel judge)
- Usually very conformist (lack the sense of danger of the bad girls)
- She doesn’t stand up for herself (people walk over her)
- She doesn’t make me feel like a stud.
- Dependent (Expect gifts, diners out, you to make good money…)
- Tend to gossip with her friends about babies, celebrities, other people relationships ect
- Require commitment fast
- She bottles up feelings for a really long time
It's usually assumed that it exists just the other way around (i.e girls like bad boys) but damn the good girls don’t challenge my masculinity and i don’t feel this sense of wildness and danger (that i honestly kind of addicted to).
I love how submissive she acts once i tamed her ego. If she has a dirty mind without any financial concerns behind it i feel hooked.
However If she is too much interested in money or materialistic things I loose all attraction for some reason.
I have to admit that as an adventurous guy i can’t get enough of the bad girl. However i know the the good girl is good for relationships and stuff but i don't feel alive with her. I loose attraction after a while because i feel the relationship is transactional.
Any other guys attracted to bad girls ?
First, to me yes there is a dichotomy between the two because some chicks definitively have any higher T than some others (exactly like some man are more effeminate than others).
Second, I noticed that as i grow older i am actually more interested into bad girl because I feel far more confident about my sexual abilities now (I'm 26) than when i was younger. So I need somehow someone who matches that.
Third, I am ok with open relationships and i am not really possessive and i just like someone low maintenance to pass some time with.
Here my vision of things
Bad girl : She has her shit together and need a strong guy to tame her. She is challenging and love to bang.
Good girl : She is the one who requires you to make good bucks. She is more dependent on you. In return she is very caring toward you. It definitively feels more transactional.
Bad girls :
Pros
- Wild and spontaneous
- Laidback
- Flirty (imrpove my sense of manliness)
- Not afraid to stand up for herself (‘I don’t take shit from anybody’ attitude)
- Open minded
- Great sexual chemistry (open to anything/ kinks)
- Strong sex drive
- Challenge my masculinity (and act submissive once tamed) Damn I love it !
- More independent (less demanding) doesn’t require commitment
- Make me feel like a stud (and manly)
Cons
- Less loyal
- Less caring
- Can try to manipulate at times
- Not really well mannered (can be disagreeable at times)
- Impatient
- Not willing to listen to you for hours
Good girls :
Pros
- Responsible (she does what she says… never derive from that)
- Calm and timid (no need to tame her)
- She stays somewhat in the background
- She has a really specific plan for the future
- She is polite and well mannered
- Listen to your problems
- Nurturing/ comforting
- Has moral values and head on shoulders
Cons
- Less spontaneous than the bad girl
- Prude (damn i feel judge)
- Usually very conformist (lack the sense of danger of the bad girls)
- She doesn’t stand up for herself (people walk over her)
- She doesn’t make me feel like a stud.
- Dependent (Expect gifts, diners out, you to make good money…)
- Tend to gossip with her friends about babies, celebrities, other people relationships ect
- Require commitment fast
- She bottles up feelings for a really long time
It's usually assumed that it exists just the other way around (i.e girls like bad boys) but damn the good girls don’t challenge my masculinity and i don’t feel this sense of wildness and danger (that i honestly kind of addicted to).
I love how submissive she acts once i tamed her ego. If she has a dirty mind without any financial concerns behind it i feel hooked.
However If she is too much interested in money or materialistic things I loose all attraction for some reason.
I have to admit that as an adventurous guy i can’t get enough of the bad girl. However i know the the good girl is good for relationships and stuff but i don't feel alive with her. I loose attraction after a while because i feel the relationship is transactional.
Any other guys attracted to bad girls ?