[nzd]

I've been to almost all of Auckland's clubs in the list here.

It's Valentine's day and all empty, people just sit and drink like dweebs, no people on dance floor, barely any girls at all.
I was in Wellington on New Years eve and the ratio was 70% men.
All I have is Tinder and hit on backpacker girls with hairy armpits in my hostel.
I wonder if it's the same in USA-LA or San Francisco cause I plan to go there after. I might change my plans and go to Eastern Europe instead.

[nzd]

I've been to almost all of Auckland's clubs in the list here.

It's Valentine's day and all empty, people just sit and drink like dweebs, no people on dance floor, barely any girls at all.
I was in Wellington on New Years eve and the ratio was 70% men, and the Indians scare the ones that are left.
All I have is Tinder and hit on backpacker girls with hairy armpits in my hostel.
I wonder if it's the same in USA-LA or San Francisco cause I plan to go there after. I might change my plans and go to Eastern Europe instead.

[Hazaer]

Remember that NZ is still the anglosphere so nightgame is going to be a challenge unless you are in the 10% and even then in smaller cities like wellington, people know each other so they have a reputation to protect. Invest in a NZ social circle, they might be the most friendly and humble bunch in the anglosphere. Also, start conversations during the day, I find kiwi girls are much more open and willing to invest time.

[nzd]

(02-14-2018 07:01 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Remember that NZ is still the anglosphere so nightgame is going to be a challenge unless you are in the 10% and even then in smaller cities like wellington, people know each other so they have a reputation to protect. Invest in a NZ social circle, they might be the most friendly and humble bunch in the anglosphere. Also, start conversations during the day, I find kiwi girls are much more open and willing to invest time.

They are friendly, but you will not get into their social circle unless you are from the Anglosphere. Doesn't seem like Kiwis care about their reputation.

[The Catalyst]

(02-14-2018 02:24 PM)nzd Wrote:  

(02-14-2018 07:01 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Remember that NZ is still the anglosphere so nightgame is going to be a challenge unless you are in the 10% and even then in smaller cities like wellington, people know each other so they have a reputation to protect. Invest in a NZ social circle, they might be the most friendly and humble bunch in the anglosphere. Also, start conversations during the day, I find kiwi girls are much more open and willing to invest time.

They are friendly, but you will not get into their social circle unless you are from the Anglosphere. Doesn't seem like Kiwis care about their reputation.

I'm from the Anglosphere and I'm not really in their social circles either. It's a very small-town vibe.

[Hazaer]

(02-14-2018 02:24 PM)nzd Wrote:  

(02-14-2018 07:01 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Remember that NZ is still the anglosphere so nightgame is going to be a challenge unless you are in the 10% and even then in smaller cities like wellington, people know each other so they have a reputation to protect. Invest in a NZ social circle, they might be the most friendly and humble bunch in the anglosphere. Also, start conversations during the day, I find kiwi girls are much more open and willing to invest time.

They are friendly, but you will not get into their social circle unless you are from the Anglosphere. Doesn't seem like Kiwis care about their reputation.

Not sure where you are from in NZ but I have seen quite a number of nz girls of european ancestry with asian guys and even black guys in wellington and auckland. There guys probably grew up in nz but they were able to fit into the social circles easy. Probably more so than in other countries of the anglosphere and definitely more compared to australia. Obviously, one has to be able to speak english pretty well but overall they still give guys who do not look like they are from the anglosphere more of a chance. That is all you need really. If the impression you leave is good, you can follow up and get kiwi friends relatively easily. It might be the integration of the Maori culture into mainstream nz society that makes the country as a whole more tolerant, understanding and curious about other people. Outside of game, it is the friendly nature of the kiwis which is amazing, they do seem very interested to know more about people from other countries.

[DragonsandTigers]

(05-29-2014 06:06 PM)draguer Wrote:  

The indigenous population is generally not attractive and particularly has problems with poverty and obesity.

I find them more attractive than New Zealand Whites.

[The Catalyst]

(02-21-2018 06:28 PM)DragonsandTigers Wrote:  

(05-29-2014 06:06 PM)draguer Wrote:  

The indigenous population is generally not attractive and particularly has problems with poverty and obesity.

I find them more attractive than New Zealand Whites.

[The Catalyst]

A series the German government made to help Germans integrate into NZ...

All the advice the Kiwi guy gave to survive in NZ is literally the opposite of what the internet tells you to do to survive in normal countries!