Quote: (02-27-2018 05:56 AM)rottenapple Wrote:
You talk like a guy that has read some game books, but is missing some practical experience. First off, you're not doing it for you. you're doing it for the next guy. Its because people only think about themselves these days and men don't stick together no more that we now have a society where women can afford everything without consequences.
I don't disagree with calling a woman out. I disagreed with the part about flaking back on her in the same way and playing those games. If you are the best possible man that you could be, you wouldn't waste any energy whatsoever in playing games like that back with her. Be the better person and be above all that, for your own sake.
You like to think you get the upper hand by doing so but in reality you won't.
You'll teach a woman next to nothing by playing her own games; ignoring calls/texts, flaking and acting like a woman yourself.
I rather move on with my life than spend more time on a bitch like that. If the girl then decides to contact you again, I see no wrong in just calm and firm explain to her (or "call her out") on what standards and expectations you have in terms of her behaviour, and that you've decided to move on. If it feels better for you.
If you're extremly lucky it might have an affect on her and she might think to herself
"wow, this guy actually showed integrity and dissed me even though I'm beautiful and have big boobs because he did not like my behaviour. I really need to take a hard look at myself and change the way I treat others".
But lets be honest, most probably it's not going to matter anyway what we try and do to a woman's behaviour for the better in the future,
because she's a woman and by nature she won't care and be able to understand either way.
A woman doesn't give two fucks if she wasted your Friday night by flaking the last minute and had you stand outside in the cold for 5 hours. Hell, most women don't even care if you've supported her for 10 years and raised her kids perfectly because if a woman has lost a bit of her attraction for you or met a man better than you, she will begin to treat you worse than homeless men she encounters on the street. She will ultimately not give a fuck whatsoever about what you say or do anyway.
So you might aswell just focus your energy on moving forward in life. That's what I meant.
For the record. An older guy, very familiar here on the forum, named Mike Cernovich, talks exactly about this in this podcast episode:
https://soundcloud.com/dangerandplay/beyond-the-game
On how he used to play games like you in his youth but then realised that he could have abundance and rather drop a bitch he had to play games with instead of playing along with that bullshit. I think that's a more powerful way to look at it and way to live life.