Quote: (01-26-2018 06:22 PM)Dulceácido Wrote:
Yeah, Man. They probably think you're a Level 10 Creeper. Prolly should've locked the bar down and made chit-chat with the staff the first few times you went in, instead of immediately switching from missiles to guns and going in for the kill on the half dozen or so chicks in there (which surely they all talk to each other about the "new guy" that just hit on them). I bet the shit-talk about you was AMAZING. lol. I would've loved to hear that shit.
You've been given lots of solid advice here, though. Just duck out of the place for a bit and then the next time you go in, try to make better acquaintances of the staff members. Otherwise, you're gonna have to abandon ship completely and you've already established it's one of the best venues in a very limited amount of choices.
It is what it is, I just won't go there for a month or two.
And they can shit talk me all they want. My game is getting better and that's all I care about, it was an amateur mistake but I've learned and it's something I would never have thought of happening. My game is better because of it.
I just hope the gossip hasn't spread to other venues. If it has, then I may have to abandon ship for a while but I don't think the student club staff are friendly with the bar staff at these small venues. They seem to be two different social circles.
Quote: (01-26-2018 06:27 PM)The Alpha Virgin Wrote:
One thing that has helped me a lot in avoiding hostile situations in night life like that with white knights and idiots is to just give these dudes compliments and smile. Try befriend those guys instead and do some Trump game.
For the future, you can tell a guy like that how much you love the club and how he must have understood, because YOU WOULD NEVER DREAM of treating a woman like that and there's no one that respects women more than you. Just speak nice and calm, if you get upset and start shouting, you fall into the wrong frame. And then say some shit like "by the way dude... no homo but I like your shirt, where have you bought that?" and they almost always chill out and they might even end up buying you a beer.
I appreciate the advice, I don't think it will work in this situation but with others, I'll have to give it a shot.