[Treatmentgroup]

She replied ''down the street and to the left side''.

1. I tried to ramble on but it was weird since she already gave me an answer. So I said ''it's that way yeah?'' and left.


2. It was difficult to communicate because of car noise and people walking on the pavement.


Question: What should I have done if I wanted to go on a date with her?


She gave me eye contact, that's why I spoke to her and she seemed happy to help me.


Furthermore: I introduce myself by saying 'excuse me'. Should I dispel with this, use it, or it really doesn't play a role.

[praxguy]

“Do you want to join me?”

[edisnotonfire]

Not even with the sun glowing on your face will we be able to score that way. You can't pretend to establish a connection when there's not a excuse to sit down with her for several minutes and talk quietly.

Excluding recreational sites, and instances of meeting people who are on travel you won't the moments in for you to apply game on totally unrelated strangers are quite limited and even a little akward like buying a book, and another few situations, maybe waiting to see the dentist but only if none of you two are in a hurry, if a genuine conversation it's due, the point is even if she looks at you you won't be running game crossing the street or while shopping.

Not saying that we need to be acquainted with your victim but you need constancy a place where the two of you can meet frequently, actually meeting by sight a few times before speaking, or a great topic of conversation that ensues by serendipity, if you are cheeky/player enough you can force a conversation but you need the both of you having a reason to maintain an interaction there at that precise moment, and more importantly better put a lack of reason for not parting ways imperatively.

The great exception to this of course is the recreational field.

But come on mate hitting on a passerby...

Look for a library a bookstore of those that let you read inside, some place with a powerful excuse to talk and where people usually are supposed to stay several minutes

[ShuaiGe]

http://rooshv.com/db/day_game_model.jpg

Do you consider one sentence rambling? Don't bail prematurely next time.

A true indicator it's time to bail is if her feet are pointing away from you or at an exit. Blocking an exit point (standing in a doorway) makes people feel uneasy. This is a very easy body language technique to use. By contrast, the best position for her feet are angled outward with you the middle. Also, be sure to avoid first appearing in her view from behind, the girls are like cats analogy really is golden.

What you need to do now is do many more approaches and avoid getting a bad mindset.

[Akwesi]

(01-13-2018 07:57 AM)edisnotonfire Wrote:  

Not even with the sun glowing on your face will we be able to score that way. You can't pretend to establish a connection when there's not a excuse to sit down with her for several minutes and talk quietly.

Excluding recreational sites, and instances of meeting people who are on travel you won't the moments in for you to apply game on totally unrelated strangers are quite limited and even a little akward like buying a book, and another few situations, maybe waiting to see the dentist but only if none of you two are in a hurry, if a genuine conversation it's due, the point is even if she looks at you you won't be running game crossing the street or while shopping.

Not saying that we need to be acquainted with your victim but you need constancy a place where the two of you can meet frequently, actually meeting by sight a few times before speaking, or a great topic of conversation that ensues by serendipity, if you are cheeky/player enough you can force a conversation but you need the both of you having a reason to maintain an interaction there at that precise moment, and more importantly better put a lack of reason for not parting ways imperatively.

The great exception to this of course is the recreational field.

But come on mate hitting on a passerby...

Look for a library a bookstore of those that let you read inside, some place with a powerful excuse to talk and where people usually are supposed to stay several minutes

Have you ever heard of Krauser? Or better yet, a certain Barack Obama?

[ShuaiGe]

(01-13-2018 07:57 AM)edisnotonfire Wrote:  

Not even with the sun glowing on your face will we be able to score that way. You can't pretend to establish a connection when there's not a excuse to sit down with her for several minutes and talk quietly.

Excluding recreational sites, and instances of meeting people who are on travel you won't the moments in for you to apply game on totally unrelated strangers are quite limited and even a little akward like buying a book, and another few situations, maybe waiting to see the dentist but only if none of you two are in a hurry, if a genuine conversation it's due, the point is even if she looks at you you won't be running game crossing the street or while shopping.

Not saying that we need to be acquainted with your victim but you need constancy a place where the two of you can meet frequently, actually meeting by sight a few times before speaking, or a great topic of conversation that ensues by serendipity, if you are cheeky/player enough you can force a conversation but you need the both of you having a reason to maintain an interaction there at that precise moment, and more importantly better put a lack of reason for not parting ways imperatively.

The great exception to this of course is the recreational field.

But come on mate hitting on a passerby...

Look for a library a bookstore of those that let you read inside, some place with a powerful excuse to talk and where people usually are supposed to stay several minutes

I'm going to have to disagree with you. You're missing opportunities and you've got a bad mindset. I've had sex with a couple girls I've met outside in passing and moreover saying "no, now isn't the right time" is the slipperiest slope and I promise you that this wrong mindset will hinder you more than any embarrassment ever will. You really do only live once. Just go for it.

[edisnotonfire]

Holy crap, you're trying to destroy the little respect I've left for womankind. I'm picturing it that's why they like chatting nonsense with strangers at unsuitable moments/places, like Trevor Howard in Brief Encounter.

Those beings really like feeling doggedly chased at any time don't they? those bitches like it doggedly.

It makes sense, yeah they are easily scared if overwhelmed by promptness in escalating or a sudden appearance like cats, but also as with cats once you're in their radar you could kill another person in front of them without them blinking

[PapayaTapper]

OP Youre in the "game" section of the forum asking how to learn game?

There are literally thousands of posts on how to turn women you dont know into women you do. Read them.

Here's a head start

https://www.rooshvstore.com/books/bang/

[BlackLusterSoldier]

"Give me your number and I'll call you incase I get lost along the way"

[Belgrano]

(01-13-2018 07:57 AM)edisnotonfire Wrote:  

Not even with the sun glowing on your face will we be able to score that way. You can't pretend to establish a connection when there's not a excuse to sit down with her for several minutes and talk quietly.

Excluding recreational sites, and instances of meeting people who are on travel you won't the moments in for you to apply game on totally unrelated strangers are quite limited and even a little akward like buying a book, and another few situations, maybe waiting to see the dentist but only if none of you two are in a hurry, if a genuine conversation it's due, the point is even if she looks at you you won't be running game crossing the street or while shopping.

Not saying that we need to be acquainted with your victim but you need constancy a place where the two of you can meet frequently, actually meeting by sight a few times before speaking, or a great topic of conversation that ensues by serendipity, if you are cheeky/player enough you can force a conversation but you need the both of you having a reason to maintain an interaction there at that precise moment, and more importantly better put a lack of reason for not parting ways imperatively.

The great exception to this of course is the recreational field.

But come on mate hitting on a passerby...

Look for a library a bookstore of those that let you read inside, some place with a powerful excuse to talk and where people usually are supposed to stay several minutes

That's some bullshit advice right there. Do you even game, bro?

Your "powerful excuse to talk to her" is that you're a man, she's a woman, and you find her attractive. What more do you need?

Listen to Akwesi and ShuaiGe and improve your mindset.

By the way, improve your spelling and grammar too. We all make mistakes, but your post was just difficult to read.


OP:

Before you run the pet shop opener, you should probably make sure that there's not an actual pet shop right around the corner. Otherwise, this is what happens.

Also, abundance mentality. So you opened one girl and you didn't succeed. Shit happens.
How many other girls did you approach that day? 5, 10 or perhaps 20? They all happened to know the way to the pet shop? Unlikely.

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Question: What should I have done if I wanted to go on a date with her?

You can't force one specific girl to go on a date with you, you can't force her to be attracted to you and even if you're lucky and she is, you can't force her to be available. It's a numbers game.

My take on it: If she gave you positive eye contact, and you think it wasn't just a coincidence, go direct.

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I introduce myself by saying 'excuse me'. Should I dispel with this, use it, or it really doesn't play a role.

Nothing wrong with that. Stuff like that is for fine-tuning and playing around once you know what you're doing. Not relevant to you right now.

What matters is how you say it. And it should be loud enough, with confidence and good body language.

Not a whispered "please superior being that strikes fear into my heart, I'm not worthy, but would you please grant me the gift of your attention and listen to my canned line for 30 seconds"-style excuse me.

[germanico]

TLDR: I tried an opener. It went ok.